My bf is living in my parents house because he is new to the area and still looking for a place of his own. We've had sex in my parents house, but now he says he feels bad and that it is disrespectful considering how much they're doing to help him. The problem is - we're both so busy when would we find time to have sex other places?
I don't like his decision, and keep going out to his room in the detatched guest house to have sex with him. Am i being inconsiderate? And what should we do?
2007-02-18 01:50:29 · 6 answers · asked by Carley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you are being inconsiderate of him and his feelings and disrespectful of your parents.
The solution is to help him find a place to move into as soon as possible.
2007-02-18 02:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have your parents permission than obviously it is being respectful to YOUR family values. I still get weirded out staying with my -husband- when I am with my parents, but that is just a reflection of the environment I grew up in. I would hope that my kids (I we have any) would be comfortable being with their significant others in our house, because that would be acceptable within OUR family values. I hate when right wingers spout of on "family values" because what my family and what their family value could be completely different.
2016-05-24 01:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is so right to have respect for your parents. The sex can wait, there are so many other ways to love.
2007-02-18 01:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by altes_jan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he is right .imagine if your parents new that he was doing you under their roof i think they`d get really mad cause by letting him in their house they gave him respect plus kindness so they sorta expect the same from him and i really totally understand him when he thinks its disrespect coz i do too.
2007-02-18 01:58:58 · answer #4 · answered by babeschick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first things first you aren not incondierate.
second thing, things does not change in a day. growth will be always in slow path. work on that ...as soon as possible try to understand and get your own place.
every thing works in this world ..if your heart is pure.
2007-02-18 01:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by Naren 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sooner or later he'll have his own house so keep you panties on and try to enjoy his company more then his dick!
2007-02-18 01:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by Amy ;) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋