Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

Whats next?
i want to take things slow but i want to take things to the next level, me and my guy havent done anything but just cuddle and kiss, well i want to get more intimate with him without going to fast and just jumping right to sex.....so do you have any ideas on what i can do with him while we are together? like i said i want to go slow so please dont suggest oral sex, or anything like that right away, i'm looking for something else...please be specific, and give me ideas that can lead all the way up to sex.....Thanks

2006-11-16 17:00:02 · 15 answers · asked by curious 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 16:59:48 · 11 answers · asked by Easter Bunny 4 in Singles & Dating

A man and woman just got married and it's their wedding night. They're in their suite and beginning to undress for the night's festivities when the husband tosses his new bride his pants and tells her to "put them on."
She gives him a strange look thinking he's kinky but places her legs in them and pulls them up. Of course they're way too big.
"I can't wear these!" She exclaims.
"Yeah, and don't you forget who does!" He says back at her.
The new bride can't believe she married a chauvenistic prick so she removes her panties and tosses them over to him and orders him to put them on.
He tries but can't get them past his thighs and says;
"I can't get into these!"
So she replies with a smirk.
"Yeah and you never will until you change your attitude Mister!"

2006-11-16 16:59:18 · 9 answers · asked by princessslave 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had one but it didn't work out, simply because I was holding back emotionally since I'm not sure whether or not the other person would be around tomorrow (it would be stupid for me to give all of myself to him if I don't have all of him to me.). Although we made out a lot, We didn't go as far as having sex though (although he always talked me into it). He said relationships shouldn't be a cage and it should have room for growth. Our commitment, according to him, was about growth and not exclusivity. But honestly for me, I think it was all crap. He was my first boyfriend back then when i was still naive. Now, older and wiser, I would not consider having an open relationship again.

How about you, what are your thoughts? What makes it different from friends with benefits? Can commitment really take place in an open relationship?

2006-11-16 16:59:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 4 months, We have been together for almost 5 years. I had two kids before and now we have 2 kids together total 4. Anyways right after we had our first child together I found out that he had put himself on some internet dating sites claiming he was single. This of course angered me and it took along time for me to forget. Well now he refuses to show me his work email. Last time I found through his email, they send your auto matches to your email. So am I over reacting wanting to know his work email and password. He refuses to show me.

2006-11-16 16:59:01 · 5 answers · asked by asianside 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For the past two months I've been dating a guy who I thought was wonderful. I'm 26 and he is 27. He always picked me up and took me out every weekend and some weeknights. We recently had sex for the first time, but he didn't stay over...he never stays over. I asked him why he never takes me to his home and he says he didn't want his children to get attached to me just in case we didn't work out. I totally bought it thinking "wow this guy is a great father".
Last night a good friend of mine called and said she ran into him at a restaurant...with a woman who called herself his wife. My friend said he was very rude to her and when my friend asked "who's this" the wife said "I'm his wife and who are you?" My friend said she just walked away.

What I'm curious to know is do I tell her....or do I just leave it alone and hope he gets what he deserves? I feel so betrayed...I can't even imagine how she would feel. I don't want to be a homewrecker...what do I do

2006-11-16 16:58:57 · 10 answers · asked by GreatDivide 1 in Singles & Dating

Im sure I can stand up for alot of ppl here. If I wanted to be called stupid I would ask "Am I stupid?" sure would save me points. Ppl dont put time into this site to be ridiculed.

question
I am paying for my wedding. Small budget. Renting a dancefloor is too expensive (same for tent). It will be held in parents backyard (praying no rain). Anyone have ideas to make my own?

The answer
I see this is a real halfassed wedding. I'll be cheaper to rent one than buy one and they set it up, make sure it's level and no one will get hurt and afterwards they take it away.Why not wait and save some money to have a real wedding. Because praying is NOT a tent.If prayer worked, we wouldn't need insurance.

I hope this all taken into account lady! Doesnt matter how halfassed a wedding is it is still a "real" wedding. This is what I wanted, big honeymoon &small wedding. GOT IT? Im sorry that us poor ppl cant be like you.You bragged about your nephew too please! $ doesnt make love forever or better!!

2006-11-16 16:58:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We say that we have crush on somebody and we say we love someone.. Wht actually it means in terms of "LOVE " & "CRUSH"?? what is the boder line b/w both??

2006-11-16 16:56:58 · 36 answers · asked by Kiven 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I talk to him, or just continue to avoid him?

2006-11-16 16:56:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anna.R 3 in Singles & Dating

everytime i want to look through his phone he snatches it and tells me i have no buisness looking through it. he deletes all his missed calls, recieved calls and outgoing calls...why is he doing this? is he cheating?

2006-11-16 16:55:49 · 16 answers · asked by KDUB100 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf was cheating on me after 10 years of dating and i am hos fiance and i caught him cheating on me with some1 close to him, and this is very true HIS MOM!!!! GROSSS!!!! in my bed what am i to do????

2006-11-16 16:55:36 · 6 answers · asked by pooh_female 1 in Singles & Dating

say if it was just bad timing or you two were too young,do you still have a special place in ur heart for your first g/f /relationship(and or kiss if ur first kiss was with ur g/f and meaningful).Would you give her a 2nd chance?And even if things ended badly(same questions). shy guys answers even better since my ex is shy/not too confident.

2006-11-16 16:55:14 · 3 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

i had relationship with my boyfriend since 4 yrs. we loved each other very much. but we break up bzoe he said he cant marry me because of his family & society, and now he has started avoiding me since 1 & half year. in starting he met me talked me but from the last 6 months he is behaving like i am a stranger for him. and he moreover look at other side & stand where he can not see me. i know that he loves me. but i cant tolrate his behaviour anymore, because i love him & i cant see that i am nothing for him.
i want to forget him, but some how i am not able to doing this. i am thinking of him every second, i always talk about him with my friends, i dont know how could i forget him. i cant do unjustice with my parents only because of him. they love me so much. i just want to forget him any how. i will be thank ful who can give me support.

2006-11-16 16:53:48 · 8 answers · asked by Jeny 2 in Singles & Dating

I thought of going back for my daugther and my husband after so much I spoke he just said wait for the time.He doesn't even know that I staying with my lover, when he comes to fetch my daugther I will be in my sister's house. I am really in the mess but dont know how to solve this problem as feel that I hurting my husband and daughter for what I have done. When the divorce was final last two years I stopped because of my daugther future. But I am very worried of how I am ging to be if I am back with my husband. But at the same time I feel very very hurt for what I have done now. My daughter loves the two man. She even know that she cant talk about my lover to my husband. My daugther is 3 years old.Anybody please halp me I know you all would say whar ***** I am but I need a solution for all this mess.I dont know whether I will be find wothout my lover.He is wiling to marry me.

2006-11-16 16:52:48 · 12 answers · asked by Larisha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have the means and resources to bury my ex-stripper girlfriend, money, power. It has not even been a month and I am going through hell with this woman just to visit my baby, I wanted to be friends with her (ex) so that we would have no problems like this, I cannot understand it, she has all this anger inside of her aimed at me and only me! She is from Colombia and she wanted to take the baby back to her home in South America and I refused to grant her permission, I believe this is my right as a father and I will not go back on my decision. I left her alone like she wanted, shouldnt she be happy, especially to go back to work!!!! At first this break up was hard for me, but now I accept it and just want to move on with my daughter, of course. Should I give her more time to simmer down, which means not spending the holidays with my baby or should I bury her by getting court procedings started in time for the holidays, I dont want to do this. In all, I have 5 kids, I love them all!!!!

2006-11-16 16:52:09 · 8 answers · asked by Mo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. A few months ago, I cheated with a guy I met for the first time. Out of guilt, I told my boyfriend. He was devestated. He gave me another chance and things are okay but still not the same. He would have mood swings and he checks all my emails and phone records. I love him, I want him in my life. I just need for him to move on, so we can move on.

2006-11-16 16:51:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was with a guy for over 3 and a half years, and he broke up with me 4 or 5 months ago. I still love him as much as I did when we first got together. How do I just let go of that and move on?

2006-11-16 16:51:22 · 8 answers · asked by Rita 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend has been secretly wearing my glasses when I am out of the apartment and all day at work and I caught her doing this and she explained she wants to wear glasses because she loves how she looks with them but with the prescription lenses in them as well. The glasses she is wearing are my last prescription which is -3.50, I am starting to notice she is naturally squinting too, should I just let her wear my old glasses and let her enjoy them, she is 21 and I am 24 and I am thinking about proposing soon (Xmas) and don't want any fighting over this issue

2006-11-16 16:51:11 · 8 answers · asked by Greg 1 in Singles & Dating

Everywhere I go you see a tall man, like over six feet with a five two or shorter girl!
Why???
If I was a guy and I was tall I wouldnt want to have to bend over to kiss my girlfriend...You think tall men would want tall women and short men short women, it just looks better I think, like avril and deryk or sandra bullock and jesse james, I dont get it.
We tall girls (im fivenine and a 8th) have ******* too you know!

2006-11-16 16:50:41 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hes 4 years older than me and he sits by me in the lunch room and asks things like "do u got a bf." and "wanna hang out." i dont know if he is just playing a round or being seirous!!
plz help me im so confused!!!

2006-11-16 16:49:33 · 17 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

I SPLIT WITH MY KIDS MOTHER AND WE ARE NOT DIVORCED YET, AND I AM LIVING WITH MY GIRLFRIEND AND MY EX WONT LET ME SEE MY KIDS OR HAVE THEM OVER. WE FILED FOR DIVORCE BUT HAVENT EVEN TALKED TO A COURT YET. I HAVENT SEEN THEM IN 2 WEEKS AND SHE WONT ANSWER MY CALLS. I HAVE BEEN IN MY CHILDRENS LIVES SINCE DAY 1 AND NOW THAT I HAVE A NEW GIRLFRIEND SHE IS PISSED AND WONT LET ME SEE THEM.

2006-11-16 16:49:11 · 15 answers · asked by skylar b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

or a order to surport kids, mentally abusive!

2006-11-16 16:48:44 · 5 answers · asked by mendozablue 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married for a little over a year now..and for the entire time I've been married my husband forever falls asleep. When we are with friends, when we watch a movie, when we make love. For Valentines he planned a special evening and it was ruined because he fell asleep while making love to me. Same for our 1 year anniversary party, we had loud music, drinking socializing and he was falling asleep. When we got to the motel room we rented we didn't even make love because he fell asleep I spent the whole night crying. I dont know what to do anymore Yes my husband is on the heavy side but he works out. I dont want to say this but I'm afraid his falling asleep is ruining the relationship and could possibly be making me loose interrest! ..I need some help before it's to late..

2006-11-16 16:47:25 · 28 answers · asked by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-16 16:47:17 · 23 answers · asked by Go For Broke 3 in Singles & Dating

I GOT THIS BOY WE BROKE UP AND I WANT HIM BACK AND I LOVE HIM I FEEL BAD WITHOUT HIM SO WHAT SHOULD I DO TO GET HIM BACK

2006-11-16 16:46:14 · 5 answers · asked by sexygirl_15 1 in Friends

2006-11-16 16:45:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you wish you could do over again?

2006-11-16 16:45:14 · 4 answers · asked by Chula 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

or will death find you ?

2006-11-16 16:44:42 · 17 answers · asked by mcruckle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Are bad girls that attractive that average girls like me always end up with the not so good guys? Or is it that men are just attracted to bad girls since it's like a big blast of adrenaline to them?

2006-11-16 16:44:24 · 17 answers · asked by Callie 2 in Singles & Dating

I always pick guys who like me apart and find something wrong. What should I do?

2006-11-16 16:44:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating