Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

i would like to be a little more assertive.

2006-11-16 16:19:27 · 11 answers · asked by chara 2 in Friends

2006-11-16 16:19:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-11-16 16:17:39 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Take Taye Diggs for example. Especially with dreadlocks. I mean, damn. What the hell. Who cares about skin color? It's about as important as eye color or hair color. It boils down to preference, nothing more.

2006-11-16 16:17:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tonight it came to a head; we were divorced feb this year, he led me on to get back together again, then the very next weekend after we were "together", he has another woman hidden in his apt., then he married her a month and a half later because he lost his 2nd job in 6 months and needed to get back with me or....someone else. he even gave me a deadline to get back together! I was suspicious then and said, why? do you have someone else in line? and sure enough...oh yeah, he is not a citizen, he's from Sweden and wants to be one now. He forced our daughter to go out with him and this woman, never slowly introducing her, and then forced her to stay at her home--where he lives now of course--making her nervous and scared of them. My attny said i need more to go on. Well i have documented a lot of stuff thru legal avenues like her school, etc. and tonight i refused to force her to go with him and he called the cops on me (i called them first). i will do what it takes to protect her.

2006-11-16 16:17:02 · 4 answers · asked by nowisthetime 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This girl i really like, and who i think really likes me, now hits me,and quite hard too...i know it sounds odd, but do girls do this cause they like you or not hahaha. She sits next to me all the time, and she doesnt mind me being in HER ZONE. She use to touch me alot, now she hits more often, she knows it doesnt hurt me though. Wealways have laughs, been to movies heaps, and go to lunches quite often.She textes during work, after, and in weekends, and is always keen to do things which involves me and her mates too. whats the deal with hitting though, she like me as friend or more, seems she likes to touch me alot though. Whats should i do, im scared to lose her, i like her heaps, and it seems she may be drifitn?...weve been close last 3 weeks,and im very close to her now!help please

2006-11-16 16:16:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well lets just say the first 6 months was really good for the both of us it was perfect then came the arguing the problems she will stop talking to me not listening to me i ask my self wat happ lol she just broke u with me i ask my self why n i ask god to tell me why .... why it had to happen again ..... she said she's tierd of me being there for i was the only guy there for her that i know of but i was there she knew she could tell me anything i just want her back so i know what went wrong .

2006-11-16 16:16:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am very clingy person but I don't like being this way.I have many friends.However I seem to run off many because I come off too strong, not meaning anything by it, just being me.I sometimes feel like I am going to explode if I don't express or show how I am feeling.I don't want to change who I am but I don't to be a clingy person or at least I don't want to show everyone that.Being clingy isn't a very flattering quality so what should I do about it

2006-11-16 16:14:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just turned 17, Im a pretty normal teenage girl, I am getting married in 2 years (yes I know its young) and I have a pretty good life...until it comes to my mom and my family. In the 17 years I have been on this earth, I have NEVER been able to get along with my mom. Its only recently that I found about that I could be emancipated. My mother and I get into physical fights, some started by her, some I admit were started by me. We have gotten into yelling matches sometime so loud that the police have had to been called. She verbally abuses me as well as my entire family. My family hates us, so I cant stay with them. I really do not wanna be at my mothers throat anymore and I dont want to go through another year of being put down and have my self esteem be any lower than it is. And I dont want to get into anymore confrontations with my mother because I DO love her. I dont know how to go about becoming emnacipated so I was looking for some advice! Thank you in advance

2006-11-16 16:13:42 · 3 answers · asked by tootpla1612 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Read this and tell me what u think about my girl situation, if you went through this, tell me what u did?
i like a very different girl now, a girl that i think i can really love, but i can't even figure out how to talk to her, i like her that much, when im with my friends, and she walks up because she is my friends friend, i can't be funny anymore, and i am a funny guy. I can barely even talk, just answer questions. she is something special, she is beautiful, the most beautiful thing ever to me, other guys think there r girls hotter than her but i think she is the best. she is beautiful and smart, but almost sorrowful, and she is not a rude stuck up prep like some of the people she hangs out w/ who i can tell she shouldn't be, she doesn't belong. she is quiet and timid and one of the nicest people ever in my opinion

2006-11-16 16:13:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Damn she be asking for Dolche and Cabanna and everything top of the line, even freaking underware and food. Do women think men are made out of money? I've spent $659 dollars for dinner on out first date just to get into pants, but now she is expecting me to buy her everything, don't get me wrong I have plenty of money but eventually it will run out at the pace this woman is going.

2006-11-16 16:13:23 · 11 answers · asked by Hello 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like this girl that goes to the same high school as i do, i guess u could say i love her, i asked her out and first she said yes, then she said that she has a crush on a guy and she doesnt know if its serious or not so she said that we should hang out more, so we did and the more time i spent with her the more i liked her...so we were talking and she brings up that i was talking to her friend how much i like her and that her friend asked her how much she liked me....so i asked her what did you say and she tells me that she just likes me as a friend...i was devastated and didnt kno what to say...and there's a Semi coming up and she wants to dance with me...but she wants me to ask her.......i feel like she's enjoying my misery...so i dont know what to do....

2006-11-16 16:12:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is late paying rent and the bills every month but can go to the bar everyday!!!!!!!!

2006-11-16 16:12:06 · 9 answers · asked by Boondocksaint 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm confuse because my bf has this attitude and i don't know if i have to tell him because some say that if you want something i should say it straight because guys are not mind readers but if i don't want to soud demanding. Like in this case, i want him to reply with my text messages..doesn't matter if it's late as long as he reply coz i know that he can get my message. He is usually like this when he's mad..(he told me he's not in the mood to talk when he's mad) which i understand. But in case of like i just want to know if he's home coz i get worried if doesn' reply.

how should i tell him?

2006-11-16 16:10:48 · 7 answers · asked by cr5zy_gir7 1 in Singles & Dating

yep so im looking for a great , sweet, romantic, guy. im petite, long blonde hair, hazel eyes, i ride motorcycles...a ducati...and i go to spas, travel.shop, clubs all that. but i never seem to find a guy i like or i will go out with him and he ends up being a freak...so guys any help? where could i find an awesome guy?

2006-11-16 16:10:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At first I said get off but she was so good so I gave in, we are both 18 and I'm thinking this may be love, can I marry her? She is a fourth cousin.

2006-11-16 16:09:55 · 12 answers · asked by Hello 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why do you think guys dont approach a girl even though she's like really pretty and they really want to talk to her?

2006-11-16 16:09:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

* Please give reasons for your answer!

2006-11-16 16:06:33 · 34 answers · asked by Alexandra M 2 in Singles & Dating

well i like this one guy and im pranking him on aim as a girl named priya from ohio who knows me. i did this so i can get to know him better and stuff. so i showed him a pic of my cuzins girlfrnd. she let me. n now i think he is starting to like priya not me. i was just wondering if i should tell him next time i meet him that I'm priya or should i keep pranking him or should i just leave him alone dont prank him no more and dont tell him.

but im scared that if i tell him he might get mad at me cuz i think he is starting to like priya but there is no one named priya like that on whom he knows.

so what should i do.

im so confused. i dont really want him to get mad at me but i dont want him to like another person who doesnt even really exsist.

please help me.

2006-11-16 16:04:43 · 10 answers · asked by Tanvi gurl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

The beginning of the year I started working for a Christian lady but due to the fact I was studying I had to leave the job because she expected me to only put time into my job... I then went to volunteer at a missions office and the lady in charge said that my studies come first and then my volunteer work, so I thought this was ideal for me... But soon after that I became the office "tea girl" * I found there wasn't a minute were I wasn't told to do something, again I found my studies were suffering, so I had to leave... I decided that I needed to study full time... The problem is I study correspondence & my mom has an office at home... Now I've become her PA... I never asked for this it was just thrown at me... Whenever I say I am unable to help her, or i try talk to her about it she makes me feel terrible about it!!... My studies have started suffering... I know for a fact that this it not what God has from me... I cant exactly leave now... & I dont want to hurt my mom, PLZ ADVISE..

2006-11-16 16:04:15 · 14 answers · asked by mist_faer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

you can not say i love you.

2006-11-16 16:03:37 · 5 answers · asked by lanna clause 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a dream that i met a guy that i love
does it mean im going to meet him someday ?

2006-11-16 16:02:42 · 9 answers · asked by Bad Blue 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really had to ask this question because, I think that you can only be a victim of abuse once and anything after that you have volunteered for. I strongly feel that after being slapped, hit , kicked or whatever for first time why would you choose to say & not leave? With all the help (shelters,state aid,housing,etc...)there is avaliable to women (& men) in these types of relationships there really isn't any excuse for staying. Or maybe I'm just confused!!

And before anyone thinks or says "easy for me to think & feel this way because I don't know what it's like" ~ Yeah I do, I was with an abusive man for 6 years & YES I know that I was NOT a victim but a volunteer, I made the choice to stay with him everyday, I just looked at the relationship I was in like it was a job where I really hated my boss but I needed a pay check, so I stayed. I haven't ever boo-hoo-ed or wallowed in self pitty as a "survivor of abuse" because I think that is a bunch of crap.

What's your opinion???

2006-11-16 16:01:40 · 31 answers · asked by justaskme 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend that constantly talks about herself, always complains about how she feels (she never feels good), always takes anything I start talking about and turns it into talking about herself (ALWAYS-NO LIE), tells me she is going to name her soon to be born kid after my ex husband that did me wrong and after a guy I had a major crush on that never liked me for its first and middle name, and who wants constant reassurance that I still am her friend even thought she acts the way she does and apologizes for how she acts all the time.....what should I do about her? She drains me. I'm not a mean person and I dont know what her deal is and what to do.

2006-11-16 16:01:37 · 12 answers · asked by coolchic 2 in Friends

2006-11-16 16:00:20 · 23 answers · asked by h_m_jcutie 1 in Singles & Dating

and you thought the person you were with worried a little too much about loosing you, would you tell them that you thought they worried too much in fear that they might start getting worried again?

2006-11-16 15:59:45 · 16 answers · asked by Brittney 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently got back in touch with somebody I used to go to high school with. He's two years younger than I am but he's actually grown up a lot these past few years because he has a son and the major responsibilities that go along with being a dad -- I'm REALLY feeling him -- but I feel like I could be down-grading because he's younger -- and not as established as I'd like the men I date to be...WHAT DO I DO?!?!
REAL ANSWERS PLEASE! NO TIME FOR GAMES!

2006-11-16 15:58:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im still very much in love with my ex boyfriend we broke up over a year ago im now in college 2 hours away from home he has a boyfriend named tom and he has a child on the way from one of his previous exes that he dated after me. So i am almost certain we would never have another chance togehter. Hes more likley to get with the mother of his child before me however...He was my first love in everyway he even took my virginity we were together over a year which really is the blink of an eye. Yet, for some reason im stuck on him and the past. Im constantly haunted by memories of him and i and the things we used to do together and things we said. We are still friends and i wish to remain so.I am having trouble coming to terms with the fac tthat hes having a baby with a mutual friend of mine b/c i still love him.I just want to make peace with everything and move on. I feel like i will never find love again... how can i just get over this and be happy in my life again?

2006-11-16 15:58:28 · 8 answers · asked by bobbo 1 in Friends

Its like why all girls always say to someone that you are my soul kin and blah blah !But when the guy actually ask them to marry him,they refuse saying its not the way you think!Not saying this happens always but still can someone tell me.

2006-11-16 15:58:16 · 7 answers · asked by uncle sam 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we have never had a fight but last nite we had a big fight and he hit me and i hit him but it has never happened like that wat do u think i should do

2006-11-16 15:58:13 · 14 answers · asked by pretty_mama88 2 in Other - Family & Relationships