Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

I've been with my bf for 2 years now, and my mom hates him. She had went in my room, tore up pictures and cards from my boyfriend and when I asked her lied about it and told me I should leave. B/C I was so fed up with being treated like a kid(I'm almost 20), I moved in with my boyfriend and his mom who okayed the idea. After about two weeks I realized something was wrong so I got a pregnancy test, and I was + (actually 2 months at the time). When his mom found out she was very upset, telling me how she didn't want any grand kids as if I got preg. by myself. Then his brother TOLD me to get an abortion because my bofriend didn't love me. I didn't and now I'm 6 mos and I keep catching his mom talking about me to her friends saying I knew I was pregnant and this and that. I'm not sure whether I should tell my boyfriend, or just leave. Me and my mom are on better terms and she told me i could always come back. But I want my son to see his father.

2006-11-16 17:21:45 · 15 answers · asked by bre714 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

long time ago we did it like rabbits. now i am LUCKY to get it on our anniversary. I make dinner 98% of the time, bring home flowers and all that crap constantly, clean house, i work more hours than her (as an architect) and she NEVER wnats to do anything sexual? she seems to conside it "dirty" even though we have been together 5years???????????????

2006-11-16 17:19:50 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

All you did was kiss someone you weren't supposed to,,,just once?...Shouldn't something that small be easy to keep between the two of you forever?

2006-11-16 17:19:25 · 12 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Singles & Dating

She's 17, I'm 19. Shes pretty to me, she is about 5'8 she has a very nice body, shes in shape, but still has nice curves. How can I tell is she likes me? She is a little shy, and she is smart. I don't get the vibe she's a super big flirt.

How can I tell?

2006-11-16 17:19:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im having a gf. i really love her but she hasnt any feelings for me. Is this normal? She accept me 1 week ago. She is trying hard to like me. and im helping her to do it. She wants me really much and i really like her. How to make her like me?? What to do?? Is this normal??? -this is my first and hers too-

2006-11-16 17:18:52 · 22 answers · asked by veether 2 in Singles & Dating

I am asking a legitamate question. It is said, and I know from personal experience, that the penis will grow even larger than its average erection size if the man is extremely excited. When I would be by myself MBing, it would only be about 6-6 1/2 inches, but during sex with a female whether pentration or oral, it was well over 7 inches. Quite a bit larger because it seriously took me by surprise when I looked down at it.
I think that women need to pay attention to my every need, and I think they need to work on their sexual technique if they want to get what they want. Which is around 8", give or take a few centimeters.(Some prefer 9" or larger). Some guys are big without being very excited, either naturally, or from the jelquing techniques or pumps. So women, are we going to start paying attention to a mans every emotion and need as well as developing sexual skill? Also, there are some tightening exercises that can be done for women. GOod luck!

2006-11-16 17:18:38 · 4 answers · asked by Sir 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 17:18:31 · 8 answers · asked by gaeldami1 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay finally after seeing eachother for 88 days ....we make it to bed. Kissing for a long time. We get into missionary position and then he stops....? i know there must have been something in his head he was thinking of ? it was pretty late too say 2 am or so.
the next day we had a late breakfast. started making out again.....then again made it to the missionary......then again...he could not procede..
MEN....help me out here!!!!! What do you believe causes this?
put as many ideas as you can. What was he thinking? its was something in his mind for sure???? what could the main reasons be. and another things...he said it was cause im extremely beautiful? okayyyyy...isnt that suppose to be a good thing?
please help

2006-11-16 17:18:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You have an older brother that you're very close to. You're his little sister that he adores. One time you both watched a movie with your mom and you decided to take a pillow and rest it against the side of his stomach and rest your head on that pillow while he rested his arm around your arm or shoulder gently stroking. And he would let you rest your feet on his thighs while he rubbed your feet.

Ok or wrong? Or does it remind you of Angelina Jolie?

2006-11-16 17:16:51 · 18 answers · asked by Queen of Dumb Questions 1 in Family

I met this girl a few weeks back. And for the record, I do have a girlfriend. But the thing is, I find this girl attractive. We've exhanged SMSes numerous of times. But, few nights ago, when I was chatting with her, she asked me whether I'm single or not? Well, feeling and thinking that being honest is the best thing to do, I answered "I've a girlfriend". Then the next day, I SMSes her few times, there's no reply from her? I'm puzzled? Why does she ignores me now after knowing that I've a girlfriend. Kindly advice me on this. I'm dead puzzled!! Thanks in advance.

2006-11-16 17:16:32 · 12 answers · asked by chadwick 1 in Singles & Dating

My b/f (fiance) went and found my journal filled of my personal thoughts and feelings, read it, ripped it to pieces,called me at work to cuss me out and be mad at me about it. He was mad about things that happend b4 i met him. I want to know why guys would want to invade privacy like that, because he won't give me an answer?

2006-11-16 17:15:58 · 22 answers · asked by kevie_gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked this question a few months back, but it's always fun to see the responses I get!!! I'll tell my story:
I was on a date with this guy, it was like our fourth date and we seemd to REALLY like each other. I asked him if he wanted to get some dinner and he didn't have any money. I am not a gold digger so I offered to pay. Anyway, we were sitting at the Olive Garden enjoying ourselves and I laughed at something he said (He made me laugh quite a bit!!!). My laughter can get pretty loud sometimes, especially if I think that something is really funny. He got real serious and scolded me, he was like "don't laugh that loud, you are embaressing!!!!" I was SHOCKED. I couldn't even eat after that!!!! I decided not to go out with that guy again!!!

2006-11-16 17:15:54 · 10 answers · asked by Easter Bunny 4 in Singles & Dating

i was with a half korean girl in highschool but i feel like thats different. im really attracted to asian girls. and wonder if they think about white guys differently??? the only ones i seem to find or want to get with work at the chinese buffetts... im not going to hit on a girl while shes working.....thoughts.

2006-11-16 17:13:18 · 14 answers · asked by dj_darkside 1 in Singles & Dating

ive crushed on this VERY good guy friend of mine for a pretty long time but he doesnt know. we're extremly comfortable around each other. somehow, someone mustve found out and spreading rumors. now, he wont look at me or talk to me like he usually does everyday. what happened??...

2006-11-16 17:13:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 17:11:11 · 33 answers · asked by ahmo m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-16 17:10:50 · 17 answers · asked by benjk4 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-16 17:07:17 · 8 answers · asked by t10t15t66 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Before we came here my wife shutup and did her duties... now she has seen videos and commercials and thinks she has power over ME! i dont want to be arrestes so bsides the obvious beatings what can i do to install fear in her heart????

2006-11-16 17:07:17 · 24 answers · asked by roger po f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It was last week tat my gf accepted me. But i asked her a question weather she likes me or not and she came out with a answer tat she hasent like me yet and she will try to like me. I really love her very much. She call me to do something to make her like me. the problem is we don noe wat to do. This is our first time. She says tat she wants me to be her bf but hasnt have feelings for me yet. She is battling hard and im supporting her. Can u guys tell me wat to do. To the gals, how to make u gals to like a guy. Im physically fit but kinda short ( 167 cm ). I cannot affort to lose her cause she is really good. She too want me like crazy. Any tactics that can seduce her??? I care too much 4 her. so pls do help me.

2006-11-16 17:06:25 · 17 answers · asked by veether 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok i met this girl a little over a month ago and we do like each other ive said it and so has she and i know its a lil fast but i do want to ask her out. But, she says she wants to focus on school for a little bit before she gets into a relationship and isnt ready for one. she says if i want to i can wait if i dont thats fine too and believe me i do want to wait im just wondering would i be wasting my time if i wait and could this "waiting period" benefit us later on when we hopefully get together.

2006-11-16 17:06:15 · 10 answers · asked by The kid 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 17:05:57 · 26 answers · asked by josie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 17:05:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My girlfriend always initiates our conversations by texting me. She hasn't texted tonight. Should I play like I don't care and just not speak with her tonight or be the man and say "hey"??

2006-11-16 17:04:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am always thinking about her and what shes doing, and when I do, my stomach gets all light. We talk once a day if not more, and we do something usually every week if we get the chance. We are honest with eachother, and we have been dating for about 8 months. We are both 14...

2006-11-16 17:03:34 · 17 answers · asked by Zach S 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 17:03:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want your stories!!! I need more information, to help me better understand these women (& 1 man) in my family who are staying with there abusiers. They come to me & ask for help leaving. I have given money & shelter to these people. No abusier is coming onto my property.
But they always go back (URRRGG!!!!) It's like running back into a burning building!!! I just don't under stand.

Why do you (or did you) stay? Do you have children with you abuser, If you left what was your breaking point & how did you get out?

2006-11-16 17:02:47 · 9 answers · asked by justaskme 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She says she has her period...which is bullshit b/c her menstral peiod is 26-31.... but how can i prove she lie to me? what else. women help!

2006-11-16 17:02:42 · 18 answers · asked by roger po f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 15 years younger than him, I'm 20, he's 35. We've been married for 3 years, and we are very happy and in love and enjoy each other's company. My husband works alot though, and even when he comes home he is still on his lap top, and making phone calls, sometimes until 10:00. I think i'm attractive, i don't have that many issues with my body, i work out 5 days/week, lift weights, have done competitive sports for years (it was at one of these races that we met at) I'm not overweight or anything. I know that he likes muscular butts, but, he always says that i have such a nice one, i don't know, he just hasn't seemed attracted at all over the last year i guess. i do have small boobs, and that is one thing that i'm self concious about, he says he doesn't mind though. but, i don't know. like tonight, i shaved everywhere down there, and i'm usually just trimmed, i put peppermint lotion on and was walking around naked, and not so much as a glance. makes me feel awful, whats up?

2006-11-16 17:01:32 · 10 answers · asked by Hannah A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he's a sophmore, im a junior.
he's not that cute, and (4give me, but...) i have shallow tendencies when it comes to datable guys.

2006-11-16 17:01:20 · 4 answers · asked by need 2 get a grip 3 in Singles & Dating

ok my baby daddy broke my sons leg and shook him till he almost died
we went to court he lost custody and cannot lay eyes on my son till hes 18 hes 4 now and was 1 when this happend we havent seen the jerk for 3 yrs am i wrong to not let my son know who his dad is even through pics
the dad doesnt even seem to care he hasnt tried to keep in touch but the grandparents have
so i guess im asking am i wrong to not let my son even see pics of his biological dad
i was with another guy for the past 3 yrs and my son thinks he is his real dad

2006-11-16 17:00:56 · 47 answers · asked by lv23smurf 3 in Family