how hard is it for a white guy to get a hot asian waitress??

Question

i was with a half korean girl in highschool but i feel like thats different. im really attracted to asian girls. and wonder if they think about white guys differently??? the only ones i seem to find or want to get with work at the chinese buffetts... im not going to hit on a girl while shes working.....thoughts.

Answer 1

learn chinese,

Answer 2

I am Asian, so I guess I can help you a little. Personally, I don't see any difference between white guys and other races aside from looks (which sadly, it's the first thing you see when looking at another person you know.) Among all races, I think white men have more chances than others as far as dating an asian girls.

Oh another thing. What's wrong with hitting on a girl while she is working? I mean if you don't come out as a perve, it should be fine, shouldn't it. Just be subtle. Good luck!

By the way, which chinese buffet are you talking about? I've never seen one good looking asian girls working in a chinese buffet before.

Answer 3

Man, just be you , and ask her like this." Hi, my name is (your first name here). I have been here a few times, and every time I see you, I can not but notice your beautiful smile.(or eyes) I know you are working now, but I would like to talk to you a while, and get to know you better. If you are available, could we get a cup of coffee, or whatever after work, or on your day off perhaps I can take you to dinner?" I am being simplistic here with my advice, but it does work. Don't be phony, or over complimentary because right now you do not know her. But if she is at all interested she will let you know. And do not look at her as being Asian, or Martian, or anything but a sweet, warm, friendly and beautiful woman who you are attracted to. She will let you know if she does not posses these traits. Be your self, and a gentleman, not a hormone crazed adolescent, and you will go further. What ever you do, don't tell her that Asian girls turn you on , tell her she turns you on, after a few dates. Good Luck.

Answer 4

Dude, I was in your situation!
I totally sympathize with the Asian thing. What worked for me that she saw and returned my gaze more than once, so I left her a note with my number a big tip.

There is one girl here that responded that she is a waitress and that you shouldn't bug her at work - and she is totally right. But, if you like this girl, then this is the classiest way to do it.

P.S. If you know that she is Chinese, learn something in Cantonese or Mandarin to put in the note, it will something special that makes her think your willing to try harder than most.

Answer 5

If You have to ask you're not up to par for a female of any country And if you need to hit on a girl at her job, you're really lost Dude.
Unlike semper fi. Don't believe the hype as far as females go we want to be with a nice guy Not only a(white man) We do really want a taste of cinnamon better in our mornig coffee.

Answer 6

Don't embarass her at work!! I'm a waitress and I get guys who will act like high schoolers and say "my friend likes you...." and stuff like that. It bugs me sooooooo much!! It makes me NEVER want to go back to their table!! Maybe you can just make stupid small talk and if the feeling is right, ask her if she has a bf. Find out more about her just by being nice. She will let you know if she is interested.

Answer 7

Very wise... stupid never hit on a girl when she is working...well I do see what you are saying because I like Asian guys and hopefully they see me because I see them and they are HOT!!!

Answer 8

man hit on the chick once they're outsie it is hard to get them to say anything

Answer 9

I met my gf while she was servin' tables and I've got no complaints. Go For It!

Answer 10

EVERY WOMAN wants a WHITE MAN

Just Like EVERY MAN wants a WHITE WOMAN