I met this girl a few weeks back. And for the record, I do have a girlfriend. But the thing is, I find this girl attractive. We've exhanged SMSes numerous of times. But, few nights ago, when I was chatting with her, she asked me whether I'm single or not? Well, feeling and thinking that being honest is the best thing to do, I answered "I've a girlfriend". Then the next day, I SMSes her few times, there's no reply from her? I'm puzzled? Why does she ignores me now after knowing that I've a girlfriend. Kindly advice me on this. I'm dead puzzled!! Thanks in advance.
2006-11-16 17:16:32 · 12 answers · asked by chadwick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She ignores you because:
1.she probably figured you found her attractive
2. therefore she thought "here's a relationship possibility"
3. then you tell her you have a girlfriend
4. she realizes "no relationship possibility, just a guy who finds me hot"
5. she moves on.
That's it!
2006-11-16 17:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best answer in most parts..............she was probably interested she asked and you told, she then probably thought if you were doing this to your girlfriend, and say you two hooked up eventually then you'd probably do the same to her........and she most likely respects the fact that you are in a relationship, and maybe she knows what it's like to find out your guy is finding interests in other woman, now the question is are you happy with your relationship?
2006-11-16 18:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by kevie_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you exchange SMSes with a girl you found attractive. is it to cheat on your girlfriend? she has every right to be mad. she's not looking for a friend, she's looking for a boyfriend. if you aint got what she needs than leave her alone. just be nice with to her but don't SMS her or anything.
2006-11-16 17:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No offense but if this confuses you, maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship, cause there are far more confusing issues about women.
She simply isnt responding to you because your in a relationship, and if the nature of your SMS's was flirting, you could technically be accused of cheating on your partner. And females don't like cheaters. (Well some do, but I would stay clear of them)
2006-11-16 17:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by Mike J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Solve the puzzle by finding the answer in your Q, obviously he respects the fact that you have a girlfriend.
2006-11-16 17:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude... She was interested, she found out you were taken.. Didn't want to ruin anything.. SHe got out of the scene, you should be glad. And what are you doing trying to cheat on your girlfriend... Take some Credit for you actions buddy!
2006-11-16 17:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by epooji 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you an idiot or what?!..of course that girl is more decent than you are!..she doesn't want to be hooked up with an "attached" man..got it?..she doesn't want to be the cause to have someones relationship be broken apart!!..that is the simple rule and considering that you are a guy,you should know better,right?!..and oh!don't send her SMSs again..you'll just waste your precious time..she won't reply you back!!..
please have some decency to be faithful to your girlfriend..you should be sorry for her..doing the naughty thing that your doing..
jerk!
2006-11-16 17:29:58 · answer #7 · answered by kAyXeE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think this is a sign of her involvement in you, just think that she dont want anyother closer to you, may be she just want to be the one closest to you, So i think you should try to gain her trust. And if you really think that u like her then go for it and just tell her that she is important to you more than any one .
2006-11-16 18:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by eagle eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has assumed that you are playing her, after knowing about your girlfriend.
And why would you care for her so much if you already have a girlfriend?
2006-11-16 17:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She wants a single guy....not a guy and a girlfreind for free...you know what I mean
2006-11-16 17:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by Aparna B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋