ive crushed on this VERY good guy friend of mine for a pretty long time but he doesnt know. we're extremly comfortable around each other. somehow, someone mustve found out and spreading rumors. now, he wont look at me or talk to me like he usually does everyday. what happened??...
2006-11-16 17:13:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hes prob upset that everyone else found out that you liked him before him and prob people are teasing him. You know how guys are. Just try to talk to him and explain to him that you didnt start the rumor and that you were to scared to tell him you had feelings for him. If he still acts funny, try to move on he isnt worth your time if he wont give you his. Good luck sweetie
2006-11-16 17:28:09 · answer #1 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately people like to feel important thus getting involved in others issues. Clearly this is the problem your having. There is only one way to fix the problem. Address the issue with your friend directly. Most importantly, be honest. Don't worry about it having an adverse effect on your friendship, apparently your so called friends have done enough damage. You have to trust in your friendship with him. True friendship will endure anything. He may not know how to deal with your feelings and doesn't want to hurt you. Let him know that his friendship is what is most important and if that is all he is able to give you, it is enough. Also you may want to reconsider who your friends are, and be careful who you share your feelings with. It had to be one of these people who let the cat out of the bag. Could it be you have a friend that is also interested in your crush?
Good Luck
2006-11-16 17:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may just be a little shy and nervous, give it some time and maybe when you two do start talking again tell him what you are feeling so that he knows for sure, but stay honest to him too. make sure you are friends first and still are comfortable around each other before you start to move on. good luck
2006-11-16 17:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by mink_kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out what is going on is to ask him yourself why he is acting different. If he claims he isn't then it may put you in an awkward position but just act like it's no big deal. In time you will have your answer.
2006-11-16 17:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by deno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His is uncomfortable around you now. It is hard to say how he feels but if I liked someone and I found out they liked me. It would make me feel good and try to show her I how I feel. If I did not like her I would not want to be around her.
2006-11-16 17:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by kain h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt like you that way. maybe you are too ugly for him. you have to show him looks are not everything. i suggest doing it sexually. guys will put up with ugly chicks in exchange for great sex. give him a ******** he wont forget.
2006-11-16 17:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the rumors affected him a lot...maybe he wants to tell you something but that rumor came up..
2006-11-16 17:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got freaked out because he sees you differently now. Talk to him. It will help.
2006-11-16 17:19:05 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes you too but shy to tell you..show him nothings changed and you are still approachable like before
2006-11-16 17:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by LaDy in Luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is ashamed!!
2006-11-16 17:20:17 · answer #10 · answered by Aparna B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋