It was last week tat my gf accepted me. But i asked her a question weather she likes me or not and she came out with a answer tat she hasent like me yet and she will try to like me. I really love her very much. She call me to do something to make her like me. the problem is we don noe wat to do. This is our first time. She says tat she wants me to be her bf but hasnt have feelings for me yet. She is battling hard and im supporting her. Can u guys tell me wat to do. To the gals, how to make u gals to like a guy. Im physically fit but kinda short ( 167 cm ). I cannot affort to lose her cause she is really good. She too want me like crazy. Any tactics that can seduce her??? I care too much 4 her. so pls do help me.
2006-11-16 17:06:25 · 17 answers · asked by veether 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok i did not like my husband at first when he ask me to date him either. I had to actually make a bet with my friends to date my now husband. of course you know how it tuned out lol. but anyway they told me how good blah blah he was so i said ok ill go out on a date then he ask me out as gf and i said i guess thinking only will last a week but of course now its been five years now. well anyway he grew on me and i love him sooo soo much so just give her time you might grow on her and she will come to know that you are great person and that you are her type even though she may not think so yet. I sure did not think my husband was my type when started dating him but he is and i love him still to this day.
2006-11-16 17:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you can not force someone to like you if they don't or haven't yet ..I mean if she doesn't have feelings for you know when your together she never will ..NO MATTER how much you love her she will never love you back . Youhave to cut her lose and let her be happy with some she loves . If you force her to love you ..she'll end up resenting and ultimately hating you.. and only causing you more pain in the long run. If you really love her let her go man. This girl will bring you nothing but heartache and depression in the long run. Trust me... you can't make someone love you even if you wish really hard or put a love spell on them.. its impossabile.
2006-11-16 17:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't going to work. She can't make herself love anybody.
Making someone love you never works. It will just end up being awkward the entire time while both people are faking things. Then there will be a bad breakup.
If you REALLY care about her like you say, you'll let her go.
The one you love does not always love you back. That's how life is.
You just have to wait until you find someone who'll feel the same way about you.
2006-11-16 17:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be in a rush to make things happen, and it doesn't work like that. You have to be patient a little bit. I believe things will work out fine but not in such haste as you want them. The good thing is, she care about you. Now one tactic is to try to spend as much time with her as you can. and you have to be an explorer, try new things with her each time you are with her. say sweet words to her, if the opportunity arise try to touch her in some sensitive areas, but do it tactically not in a rush. I bet you will sonn find out what gets her going, and once you get the formula, there you are. They are all ladies but different formulas work for each one.
2006-11-16 17:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by swing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but it sounds to me like you're being used. Think, she doesn't like you but she's "TRYING" to. You can't try to like someone if you truly don't care to be with them. It's like food, if a person don't like the taste of something, they don't "TRY" to eat it when they know it's something that they don't like. UNLESS it's like Fear Factor, there's money involved. You are the food, and she's the person eating it because she know's she'll get something in return. If I were you, I'd let her go. And question, How can you not afford to lose her when you're the one supporting her? You CAN definitely afford to lose her. She's hurting you and you're in denial. She's a parasite living off of you, and when you have nothing left to give, she'll only move on to the next best person. No offense, but trust me when I tell you that she's no good. If a girl likes a guy, he doesn't have to go online for tips on how to seduce her, it's automatic. Besides, there's other fish in the sea. Don't sell yourself short for a loser.
2006-11-16 17:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 05:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by janski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make a girl like you, she has to just have an attraction to you, (not just looks). You're obviously young, thats okay though. But you can't love someone that barely knows if they even have feelings for you. You can't love someone when you have to "find something to do, but dont know what". Young love.. ahhh yes. Everyone has had one, but this sounds more like lust. I'm not trying to sound rude, but it sounds to me like both of ya'll too immuture to be in a serious relationship. Hope all works out for you though.. I have a feeling that in about a year, your gonna look back and laugh and this whole thing, and say to yourself "WHAT WAS I THINKING?!!?" lol.
2006-11-16 17:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by burninshots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't MAKE someone like you. Give her a little time. If she can't come up with the feelings naturally, then it's time to find someone who can care for you as much as you care for her. It's the only way you can be truly happy.
2006-11-16 17:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? I wouldn't even try to seduce her or whatsoever. There is no such thing as "trying." You can't try to like or love someone. This kinda feelings need to just happen by itself.
So my suggestion is to leave her alone. If she likes you, she will come back. There is no reason to TRY. It's absurd.
2006-11-16 17:12:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a list of what you do or want to do with your spare time when you're alone. have her do the same. compare notes. or better yet, pick something, and take the initiative to take her there. make sure it involves doing stuff together (not watching a movie and eating something) so that it can't turn weird.
2006-11-16 17:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋