Im having a gf. i really love her but she hasnt any feelings for me. Is this normal? She accept me 1 week ago. She is trying hard to like me. and im helping her to do it. She wants me really much and i really like her. How to make her like me?? What to do?? Is this normal??? -this is my first and hers too-
2006-11-16 17:18:52 · 22 answers · asked by veether 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its cool, just let time take its course...
and read the answer I gave to your previous question
2006-11-16 17:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I said on your other question, you cannot MAKE any one like or love you.
The fact she is doing this too leads me to believe you're both too young to handle such a relationship.
You cannot have a boyfriend - girlfriend relationship if both people don't already like each other!
I did the same thing when I was 15 with my first boyfriend. It ended in disaster. Please don't make the same mistake I did. Stop this foolishness now and grow up a bit first.
2006-11-17 01:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in a relationship is a two way street, you have to give and take, and from the sounds of it your doing all the giving and shes doing all the taking...
If she really isnt into you, then why set yourself up to be hurt?...find yourself someone who will love you for you and accept you for who you are...you can love someone without changing them to suit your needs...and they should love you in the same way.
2006-11-17 01:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant force feelings you must treat you gfs feelings like a seed and let them flower over time with lots of tlc
and she must have some feelings for you if she go out with you
2006-11-17 01:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by skm2511 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people get together, they usually like each other.
Otherwise, it's not a relationship. Which says, what you are experiencing is NOT normal. You BOTH need to like each other.
And enjoy being together. If not, then it's time to meet someone else.
2006-11-17 01:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't have any feelings for you, you shouldn't be in a relationship with her. The only way to get anyone to like you or love you is to be yourself. The rest will come.
2006-11-17 01:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by Rita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love cannot be forced. the feelings for each other must be mutual. if things doesnt really work out then dun force it. both of u may be even better off as friends. anyway, i still wish u all the best.
2006-11-17 01:23:55 · answer #7 · answered by christy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, attraction is not a choice. We are attracted, or we are not. Give it time. Do not try to rush it, and maintain your cool. The feelings will come, or it will not. Don't kill yourself over it. She was created to be attracted to a certain type. It is ultimately in God's hands.
2006-11-17 01:37:35 · answer #8 · answered by Concerned Friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. if she has absolutely no feelings for you, you really shouldn't be in a relationship with her. I believe you should like someone for who they are, without having to TRY and like them.
2006-11-17 01:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by Shelly M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, you should have started things off as just friends especially if you figured she didn't like you. But since you're already togehter, let things grow, you know go bowling, skating, to the movies, things friends do, and surely she will grow to like you, truly like you.
2006-11-17 01:25:38 · answer #10 · answered by bre714 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking this question again? You are going to get the same answer, rewording it isn't going to change peoples thoughts. Find another girlfriend and go to bed!
2006-11-17 01:26:06 · answer #11 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋