Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

i have a boyfriend of one year and i love him. but what really others me is that he lies to me. hes lies because he thinks he needs to be "cool" and on top of his game. for example he lied about my birthday gift. he said he got me a birthday gift but he hasnt given it to me yet. my birthday was a month ago. ive confronted him about him lying but he still lies to me. its obvious when he lies also. his cousins and stuff knows that he lies. what should i do?

2006-11-16 16:43:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Was it a successful union? Are you still married? Have you separated or been divorced? Please share anything you would like from your own personal experience about this type of union.

2006-11-16 16:41:41 · 14 answers · asked by Sicilian Godmother 7 in Weddings

NOT those kinds of heads!!! Don't think your original by saying "GUYS ALREADY HAVE TWO HEADS" I mean two heads with two separate brains. How would that work out?

2006-11-16 16:41:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today, my neighbor's son came over to play with my little brother. Our little puppy, bit the neighbor's finger because he was bothering it (poking it, putting mud on it) When the little boy started crying because my puppy bit him, my neighbor got angry at me, saying that I wasnt "supervising" him well. The next day, he came again to play with my little brother. I put the puppy in the house. But today, the neighbor's son destroyed all of our plants and broke one of our brooms and threw our balls into the other neighbor's house. Therefore, I told him to leave and go home. He glared at me and raced to his house. A few minutes later, the father of the little boy comes and gets angry at me for telling his son to leave.

Did i really do something bad?

2006-11-16 16:41:15 · 19 answers · asked by WsUpiTzM3 2 in Family

We're a group of four but one is going to another city, so only three of us is left. at school, everythings is in twos, project partners, seating arrangements etc. Problem is that the other two are more close and im gonna be the loner next year. help! making new friends wont work cos the whole class has already got its groups.

2006-11-16 16:38:36 · 4 answers · asked by Skelepri 2 in Friends

I've lived here for twenty years and I've been single for three years and it seems like the guys here like sleaze. I'm a classy lady with a job and intelligence but the only types of women guys go for here are 15 year old, short skirt wearing, id faking, club going whores. I want to move to another state near a base because I want to continue my career working along side the government and military...

2006-11-16 16:37:00 · 8 answers · asked by misschopstickz 1 in Singles & Dating

It has always bothered me. To this day I cannot understand why anyone would want to watch other people, when you could just wait for your partner and do it yourself. HELP!!! I need advice.

2006-11-16 16:36:26 · 32 answers · asked by Audee 3 in Singles & Dating

She is always with me... she is always telling me stuff, treats me like a "girlfriend" but what confuses me is that when we are alone she treats me like more thant that...also she is still talking about her las boyfriend...what do you think?

2006-11-16 16:35:01 · 11 answers · asked by r.domez 2 in Singles & Dating

Sorry, for this question but I wanted to know what you guys would do if you were in my place!!! It's just that I'm in love with this woman and I'll probably never meet her in real life, but I talk to her on messenger frequently.

2006-11-16 16:33:54 · 21 answers · asked by jonsinher 4 in Singles & Dating

ok look this senior guy is like always flirting with me i sorta like him too but well its weird cuz he is always finding a reason to talk to me(or so it seems) what should i do go for it or what he doesnt have a g/f so umm ya let me know like now

2006-11-16 16:33:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My family is getting larger by the second. There are babies everywhere. With 4 generations of family members celebrating Christmas together we are pushing 50 people at my Grandmother's house on Christmas morning. Over the past 15 or so years we have resorted to passing parties to relieve the costly occasion. My grandmother still feels as though she needs to buy for everyone regardless, including girlfriends and boyfriends of her family. Last year we did away with the passing party for the adults and left it in place for the children to enjoy. It didn't feel like Christmas though. Don't get me wrong, this is why I am asking this question. What suggestions do you have for Christmas to help bring the "spirit" back home without purchased gifts. (Except for the kids) I need ideas that cost little or no money at all.

2006-11-16 16:33:23 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

2006-11-16 16:32:44 · 23 answers · asked by valentina 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you say that there is love? What about small town vs city girls?

2006-11-16 16:31:35 · 8 answers · asked by fromrussia2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you do when your so mad and angery and pissed off that all you want to do is break everything around you beat the hell out of everybody and don't give a **** who it is what is it or what it is about??? please tell me because i think i'm about to have a stroke or go completely postal .

2006-11-16 16:31:01 · 10 answers · asked by tootallclint 1 in Singles & Dating

Yes, i admit i am fat. I hate talking about myself to others but here i will. I talk to guys as friends, and never flirt because i know they would feel awkward if i did because i am fat and dont know how to react. All of my friends are gorgous and can get any guy they want. But i cant. In fact i cant get anyone. Never been kissed and im 16. PATHETIC! i kno. People even come up to me and ask if im writing letters to my boyfriend, and who i last h/u with, and actually believe that anyone would ever want me? And there serious (not in a mean way) Ive only been made fun of (to my face) a couple times, but i guess with my personality, people see a different side of me, and i guess im "normal" and no other fat people arent?. And what i hate most is my friends (also guys) make fun of fat people around me, come one HELLOO!! im fat! but i have no idea, :/ WILL ANY GUY EVER KISS ME?

2006-11-16 16:30:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And my fiace is an Athiest and I don't have a religious preference, but I still believe in something. He says that if I wanted to get married in a church, he would do that for me, but I just cant push that on to him if he doesnt believe. What are some good ways to get married legally without going through a church? I really want this to be as special to him as it will be for me. He means the world to me.

2006-11-16 16:29:51 · 11 answers · asked by Brittney 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Well you see I have been with my girlfriend for about a year and 8 months. During the whole relationship shes been putting me in situations that just hurt me and I dont know if i should take it anymore. I just want to know should I keep giving this relationship another shot?

2006-11-16 16:29:37 · 9 answers · asked by Manny C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been divorced a long time. He was really mean to me when we were married. He is remarried to a woman that verbally abuses me in front of my children. My son has Tourettes and I have been accussed of lying about it to get money from state. The last time my ex saw the kids was 4 months ago when my son ran away from his house and was picked up by police along side of highway, mind you my son has Tourettes. He called today and demanded that I drop the kids off in Springfield 3 hours away from me. I said no, no chance, its unsafe and if you want them so bad come up to Ottawa to get them .He screamed at me calling me names in front of my kids. Do you think I am in the wrong for saying no, the kids cant come down there. Its not like I am completely denying visitation, but I cant take a risk on my kids getting hurt. I have sole custody he has visitation rights, what should I do? Help!!!

2006-11-16 16:28:36 · 17 answers · asked by melissa S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a long distance relationship, we love each other and do have intimate life. I will be visiting him this winter. I am afraid to have sex with him and am not sure if that's what I want.

Details: we have been apart for only 6 months, and I do love him. I am very young (21)

~Please don't assign me to a doctor. I just need advice.

2006-11-16 16:27:15 · 20 answers · asked by Alexandra M 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 16:27:11 · 5 answers · asked by Unowen 3 in Friends

2006-11-16 16:26:51 · 11 answers · asked by yates1stlady 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are dating but it just feels diffrent than anyother time. She's intelligent, beautiful, caring, and just perfect in every single way to me. So how do i show her just how much i love her?

i thought i should let yall know i already do the lil things.i tell her i love her so many times everyday that i have lost count and she still likes it when i say it and i can never stop telling her that i do. I can't even think anymore because she is always on my mind.but she still doesn't know how much i really do love her. Any ideas people?

2006-11-16 16:25:12 · 7 answers · asked by Derp-tastic 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 16:25:00 · 5 answers · asked by indrep33 3 in Singles & Dating

For three years now, I have been denied sex for months at a time. My girl says "I don't want it, so why should I have it?" Why should I go without sex when I love it? Should I not continue being faithful and have sex with someone else? The time without sex grows longer each time we have it. It was not always this way. At first she wanted it 3-4 times per week. Now she has too many other things on her mind. What should I do? I can't go on like this very much longer. Though I love her dearly, I can not remain loyal to her when my needs are never met. I massage her, cook, clean, and compliment her constantly.

2006-11-16 16:24:49 · 11 answers · asked by shawnriley2 1 in Singles & Dating

Like I don't get it. He stands in the same corner where I have class, so when Im going to class I see him in the halls. But he is with hes gf, I used to have a class with him not anymore though. We never talked or anything. One time hes gf caught him staring at me, and told him to stop looking at me. Now I see him again, and while I was walking by he started staring he does not turn away he just does not stop staring until Im gone.

Hes gf is not bad looking or anything, so I don't know what is the problem with him. Is he one of those guys that are insecure?

2006-11-16 16:23:42 · 15 answers · asked by Questions 3 in Singles & Dating

This I Promise You or You're Beautiful or Tears in Heaven? Any other ones?

2006-11-16 16:23:26 · 10 answers · asked by surfer_dude 1 in Singles & Dating

and i i don't want this. I want a real man? But i can't find one dammet!

2006-11-16 16:22:21 · 3 answers · asked by chara 2 in Singles & Dating

Im new in the US. I dont know hows it like here in cali and how guys are and relationships and stuff like that..

SO WILL YOU GIVE IT:
when a guy comes up to you in school and asks for you number.
YOU DONT KNOW HIM. Its like I dont even notice him in school and then one day he comes up to me and asks me my number.. he's this blonde dude and actually knda cute, but like hes a junior and I'm a senior..does that matter?

Well I ENDED UP, not giving it--- first because it was REALLY a wrong timing, it was lunch I was so hungry that time caz I skipped breakfast and my mouth was full so I dint reply. I just noded when I got annoyed cause he wont leave..haha

is bad or did I do the right thing? Do you think he'll feel bad? cause I dont like hurting people's feelings..Is he even serious? --for heaven's sake im in highskoo!

2006-11-16 16:21:16 · 4 answers · asked by Stella C 1 in Singles & Dating

okay im 15 years old...
i understand that i might be too 'young' to have a boyfriend and that my parents wont approve of me having one right now. what if im ready to have a boyfriend? cuz some ppl do mature faster than others. im very mature. and i know they wont change their mind. they said when im in college. that's not fair. i dont care anymore. im tired of breaking a guy's heart. especially the ones that i really liked. if the opportunity comes up, im taking it and getting a boyfriend. is this the right choice?

2006-11-16 16:19:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've known a girl for about six months now. We get along well enough, talking and laughing whenever we see each other. Last night, we were talking like we always do and I asked her if she wanted to go to the mall on saturday and have some fun. She said she had a boyfriend she'd been going out with for over a year. I thought it was wierd that I'd known her for that long and hadn't even heard him mentioned in passing. Then, she said he was "very protective," but she'd ask if it was OK with him. That's when the warning bells started going off in my head. First off, I was worried that by "protective" she meant "controlling," and wondered why she needed someone's permission to do what she wanted with whom she wanted.

The main question I have is, should I be worried, or is she just not interested in me and I'm bad at taking a hint? To be honest, I'm hoping it's the latter. She's a sweet girl and deserves better than that.

2006-11-16 16:19:38 · 11 answers · asked by James D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships