Sorry, for this question but I wanted to know what you guys would do if you were in my place!!! It's just that I'm in love with this woman and I'll probably never meet her in real life, but I talk to her on messenger frequently.
2006-11-16 16:33:54 · 21 answers · asked by jonsinher 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh comeon,i can provide u with money if u really need it for your love!!
i lost my love 10 yrs back,i still regret...
2006-11-16 16:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by terri 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. Save up all your spare money. Work overtime if necessary.
2. Take all that money to a statician and ask him/her what the odds are of a Yahoo Messenger buddy being your soul mate.
3. Spend any extra money on getting out and meeting real girls.
Just a little bitter. Sorry.
2006-11-17 00:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately long distance loves rarely works unless one of them can afford to make the trips and eventually move to either place. stick to your own neck of the woods. Even if you do meet her and you end up likeing her you can't see much of her as you said you dont' have the money to fly back and forth every weekend and you certainly won't know what she's doing all those weeks away from you.
Now if you could afford and fly back and forth till you knew she was the right one then make the move to her i'd say fine. but that becomes costly and you want to be sure she's worth it. and you both reallly click well.
If not your only prolonging the inevitable and have to say goodbye So why start anything deep. that you know neither of you will be able to finnish
2006-11-17 00:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her to visit you.. or save up hard (get 2 jobs or something) - if you really love her, you'll do anything to see her again (short of breaking the law) - and make sure she feels the same way about you so you dont get an unpleasant suprise. meeting people in person is not always the same as on messenger - reality kicks in but you never know - good luck : )
2006-11-17 00:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kinda screwed if money is a huge obstacle. But as log as you both understand that, then there is no reason you can't continue "seeing" her online.
Just don't let it interfere with meeting a woman who lives closer to you and with whom you have a chance at a real future.
Have you checked out what it would cost to visit his woman? Maybe it isn't as horribl as you think.
Good luck!
2006-11-17 00:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by Erika S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love happens everywhere..
if u really do love her and she does too.
Then u need to tell her your problem about getting to her country, so she wont feel disappointed when u cant come visit.
Keep saving if the final of both of you, is to meet and getting serious. Spirit will help you out. Just tell her the truth and if she's ok with the decision, then KEEP GOING.
2006-11-17 00:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by Aii29 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I are from different countries, and were in the same boat as you at one stage, he got a second job, moved back home with his parents so he didn't have bills to pay...just board...he started walking as much as possable to save fuel expenses...he gave up smoking and other luxuries...and here we are married and happy....it was hard...but with both of us saving we eventually got enough together for him to come here, get immigration visas organized and to live comfortably...it takes time and hard work, but if your that serious then you will work towards it without giving up.
2006-11-17 00:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to come visit you and spend time in you're court. Grass is sometimes greener on the other side. And if all you're donig is chatting back and forth online , Well thenno biggie make up you're own fantasy meeting and have fun on you're first date. Regards : via web.
2006-11-17 00:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by lytesdelite 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well either up your money some how (new job or whatever) or just let the relationship remain as basically a long distance pen pal scenario. Your choice bro.
2006-11-17 00:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by TravisButtaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she love you?...has she said she loves you?...have you told her you love her?...does she want you to go to her country?...I mean is this a relationship or just fantasy...you have never met in real life...how can you be in love?...this person may be annoying to you in real life...love?...I think not.
2006-11-17 00:40:34 · answer #10 · answered by spidercents123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can continue to chat with her but how do you know you love her? You're in a fantasy world. Find someone you can touch & hold. She may be lying to you about herself.
2006-11-17 00:55:04 · answer #11 · answered by ttjakt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋