Yes, i admit i am fat. I hate talking about myself to others but here i will. I talk to guys as friends, and never flirt because i know they would feel awkward if i did because i am fat and dont know how to react. All of my friends are gorgous and can get any guy they want. But i cant. In fact i cant get anyone. Never been kissed and im 16. PATHETIC! i kno. People even come up to me and ask if im writing letters to my boyfriend, and who i last h/u with, and actually believe that anyone would ever want me? And there serious (not in a mean way) Ive only been made fun of (to my face) a couple times, but i guess with my personality, people see a different side of me, and i guess im "normal" and no other fat people arent?. And what i hate most is my friends (also guys) make fun of fat people around me, come one HELLOO!! im fat! but i have no idea, :/ WILL ANY GUY EVER KISS ME?
2006-11-16 16:30:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First you need to rethink your attitude towards your weight. If it makes you feel uncomfortable being big, do something about it...And just to let you know I'm big, and I'm married now, couldn't get a date when i was skinny...So your only 16, give it time...Just be more positive about yourself, people can tell when you not and want nothing to do with a sad girl wither she is skinny or fat....
2006-11-16 16:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there's several ways of handling this situation one is for now since ur 18 I'm guessing fresh out of high school what you can do is option #1 focus in your education money will bring you girls and a successful future option #2 you can start working out if u so claim to be ugly make it up by having a nice body and besides many many girls now are ****** well there fcken stupid in many was there bimbos airheads they go for appearance even if the guy treats them like **** every day in that way very little go for personality but just think about it there 6+ billion people around 3.9+ billion are girls there's bound to be someone for you I've seen fat guys having really hot girlfriends it depends on how you aproach them you see if ur funny around them they will notise you more miss u when ur not around you know be there for them if you uncomfortable about something let say your body join a gym little by little you will lose weight having patience is key in all this maybe it'll be a year or 2 from now but once you meet that goal it'll feel even better everything will be new a new you new opportunities then you can change your look as you feel right **** nothing is impossible if u never try something sure people are ****** douche bags but there gonna hate whether your fat slkinny ugly good looking buff you'll never be able to satisfy all but yeah my point is you can change !
2016-05-21 22:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, one of my best friends is thin, absolutely gorgeous, financially sound, musically talented, and very intelligent . . . and she didn't have her first kiss until she was 23.
I'm fat, and I had my first kiss when I was very young.
It all depends on who you are and your situations. YOU ARE NOT PATHETIC! In fact, fat is a great thing to be, and some guys like women with meat on their bones.
Don't worry so much about what other people think. You rock, just as you are, and the only reason you haven't been kissed yet is because you haven't met a guy smart enough to realize how much you rock.
Hugs, darling. Being fat definitely has it's benefits, and don't let anyone tell you differently.
2006-11-16 16:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 16 and I'm fat too. But then again I'm not a girl. You will eventually find someone though. I get made fun of a lot too, but I have one key difference that I think you are missing. And that is confidence. People like confidence. If you think your fat then your fat but if you think confident then your fat with confidence and that is a completely different thing people like it more. And when people make fun of you just ignore it, seriously just stop caring or do something about it, it really works, trust me. Well god luck.
2006-11-16 16:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have my first kiss till I was 17. That's not pathetic. You just have to be positive. If you aren't positive about who you are no guy is going to want be around you long enough to kiss you. Those who radiate positive energy get positive results. Take initiative yourself, too. If you like a guy ask him out to a movie or something. Then maybe you could try kissing him.
2006-11-16 16:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by Rita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some large women are gorgeous and some are not. Similarly, some slim women are gorgeous and some are ugly.
Just think positive, dress to suit your body and make the most of your assets. This is a joke but it has a bit of truth to it - 'If youve got it, flaunt it. If you havent got it, pretend'.
Eventually a guy will come along who likes you for you and then you will be able to make up for lost time.
2006-11-16 16:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by Jim T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not saying there is anything wrong with the way you are, but if your not happy with yourself, do something to change it. Get moving and learn how to eat healthy. If you can't do it alone, join Weight Watchers.There are alot of guys who like big girls, but you need to be healthy. You have to love yourself first, then others will be drawn to your inner beauty. Set your mind to it and you can do anything, even get your first kiss. Stay positive, Stay healthy and stay happy. Best of luck to you.
2006-11-16 16:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah definately. I have several overweight friends and they all had their first kisses waaaaay before me and I was thin in high school. Don't worry, I know in high school appearance seems like its everything, especially weight, but the right guy won't care and will see past the things you consider flaws.
2006-11-16 17:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by eMteMind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but you seem to have a good social life and that's one of the reasons people believe you have a boyfriend but looks aren't everything...and just because you're fat doesn't necessary mean you're not cute...but my advice is this...you obviously don't like being fat so i advise you to lose weight believe me it's worth it....been there done that. it's not as hard as it seems... watch what you eat... seek proper medical advice and you'll be on your way....believe me good food isn't worth it... being fat is NOT good in any way. lose the weight you can do it...you still have time...good luck.
2006-11-16 16:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, the right guy will come along someday when you least expect it. I know it's hard I've been in you shoes but don't give up. There are wonderful, sweet guys out there that will love you for who you are inside and out. Just be yourself and the right guy will come along.
2006-11-16 16:37:27 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋