She is always with me... she is always telling me stuff, treats me like a "girlfriend" but what confuses me is that when we are alone she treats me like more thant that...also she is still talking about her las boyfriend...what do you think?
2006-11-16 16:35:01 · 11 answers · asked by r.domez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She knows you like/love her. And that's all. She's just enjoying the ride cos she knows with your crush, you'll wait for her company and hang on to her every word. Find a woman who will appreciate you instead of someone with baggage...you may think you're good for her, but the real question to ask is; is *she* good for you?
2006-11-16 16:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by Craiova 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one.
If you're always there for her and listening to her go on about her ex...you're probably in the "like a brother" or "friend zone". She might be using your alone time as a way to boost her self esteem.
Usually if a girl likes a guy, he knows. We aren't good at hiding it.
Once upon a time I was a big flirt. I knew when I was leading a guy on, but it just felt good to get that attention. Females can be worse than men. Most of us have the power and we know it.
I think you should just ask her. And if she just wants to be your friend, than the alone time attention needs to stop.
Oh, and some of us like to keep a guy at arms length. I had lots of guys that I used as "backups" when I broke up with someone. It sounds terrible, but it's true about a lot of girls/women. It makes it especially hard for the guy/you to move on to another girl when we/she keeps making you think that you have a chance.
Just talk to her.
2006-11-17 00:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by KBGood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last gf/bf talkers are basically telling you that they are not ready to start another relationship.
It's a subconscious thing that people do to avoid commitment!
If she really was into you, Mr. Ex would be the last thing on her mind! She would be too busy impressing you and making you feel special that Mr. Ex would be all but a memory.
You're not her shoulder to cry on. She's got GF's for that.
She's not a beotch... she's just not ready. Leave it alone for now!
2006-11-17 00:43:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's still hung up on the ex.. Don't get emotionally involved with her if it's not too late.. She sounds like the type who will break your heart.
2006-11-17 00:42:38 · answer #4 · answered by 6bits 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but it sounds like you're d*ck under glass. Break in case of emergency. The other guys will get to sleep with her......you'll get to cuddle with her.
2006-11-17 00:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls can talk alot easier to guys. i think she may just need a guys point of view to see whats on a guys mind. you nay be friends now but it may lead to more later dont push her at all. just reamain a friend,
2006-11-17 00:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by kameo_44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be blunt and ask her how she feels then u will both know. if she doesn't then u can be her friend but look for something more like a girlfriend for u.
2006-11-17 00:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if shes with you she should be talking about you and her not some one else move on she not the one for you
2006-11-17 00:41:16 · answer #8 · answered by connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to speak up & ask her why is she talking about him.
2006-11-17 00:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by ttjakt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly have no idea...
If you're not sure either..i doubt she does.
2006-11-17 00:39:55 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋