For three years now, I have been denied sex for months at a time. My girl says "I don't want it, so why should I have it?" Why should I go without sex when I love it? Should I not continue being faithful and have sex with someone else? The time without sex grows longer each time we have it. It was not always this way. At first she wanted it 3-4 times per week. Now she has too many other things on her mind. What should I do? I can't go on like this very much longer. Though I love her dearly, I can not remain loyal to her when my needs are never met. I massage her, cook, clean, and compliment her constantly.
2006-11-16 16:24:49 · 11 answers · asked by shawnriley2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems to me she has someone else or is on some bad anxiety medicine that would diminish the sex drive. If she isn't on the meds move on very quickly.
2006-11-16 17:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
She was probably just in a bad mood or making a big deal out of nothing. I do that sometimes, but get over it AT LEAST within a week. Just don't bring it up again, unless you try to have sex with her again and she doesn't want to. What it probably was was that her vagina smelled weird. My vagina smells weird sometimes, but my boyfriend doesn't really care. I openly tell people when my vagina smells lol. That's why I have no friends.
2016-05-21 22:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is true you can't continue on like this. Trust me I have read on this site alone countless times about how married men are miserable and want to have an affair or leave there marriage for this reason. You are lucky at least she is showing you now what she will be like in the future.
Most of those women play head games pretending to like it with there man until there married then its oh i have a headache don' need nor want anymore. So your one of the lucky ones be thankful you found out now.
You need to make a decison here and soon.
Good luck
2006-11-16 17:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't cook - take her to a romantic gateway. It happens with women unfortunately. Take her to a place where she will not have anything else but you in her mind and make love to her!
Also, have fun together, tease and flirt! Show her that you are an optimistic, fun man she loves!
Don't listen to those "dump her" remarks. No one can give such advice without knowing you and the situation with your emotions, feelings and relationship!
2006-11-16 16:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by Alexandra M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats terrible
your really mean, if u loved her then you wouldnt wanna have sex with someone else just to meet ur neeeds. u need to just hold back and cherish the moments u have with her
2006-11-18 17:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved her like you say you do, you would stick with her. Maybe you should help her find out what is wrong. Have you talked about it?
2006-11-16 16:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgirl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't really love her if you're thinking about being unfaithful to her because you're not getting any. If your not happy with her then break up with her.
2006-11-16 17:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by Rita 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If sex is important.. dump her and find someone who will fulfill your needs.
2006-11-16 16:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No,if you truly love her,you would not even think about screwing some other woman.You have a hand don't you?
2006-11-16 16:41:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, find a submissive Asian woman to bang. Forget the white chick who won't put out.
2006-11-16 16:29:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋