Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

Ok, me and my ex bf broke up after having a really bad arguement and him calling me some really bad things and I really got hurt over him doing that. But whenever things were good between us, I really felt close to him and everything felt perfect and I still love him and have started missing him lately. So part of me wants to have that great feeling he gave me back but then another part of me keeps thinking of that bad side he has and I know I dont want to get hurt like that again but I miss him so much lately. So, do you think I should forget the things he said to me and give him another chance? or just stay away from him?, cause I know that it could happen again cause he has a bad temper.

2006-11-16 17:49:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 17:47:49 · 30 answers · asked by Leslie M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 17:46:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have contemplating for quite a long time.
It's about how should i confess to a girl whom i love so much?
Somehow, i just feel that i didn't meet her requirement.
But i love her. So much..

But i'm just an invisible. Pls help me.
Give me some thoughts.

2006-11-16 17:43:59 · 25 answers · asked by general 3 in Singles & Dating

ive crushed on this VERY good guy friend of mine for a pretty long time but he doesnt know. we're extremly comfortable around each other. somehow, someone mustve found out and spreading rumors. now, he wont look at me or talk to me like he usually does everyday. what happened??...

2006-11-16 17:43:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and is there anywhere I can get help to realize what I went through dating him? his whole family were scientologist also and they just seemed evil. Like they would like nothing better than to hurt me. Conversations seemed full of little remarks meant to get some sort of reacion out of me. They would just make up lies to see how I would react. It was freaky. and he wouldn't even give a dollar when we went to see my nieces church play. I just need somewhere to go and see if other people had similiar experiences dating a scientologist.

2006-11-16 17:43:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm intrested in a Guy whom I meet online he is a very busy person. He says he is not ready for a serious relation but wants someone to get cozy next to him. what does he mean by this ? I'm completley new to dating , what do people talk and do on 1st dates , should I treat him as a friend but what to talk how to behave and I don't usually ware makeup b'coz I look good without it , if I don't ware will he be impressed ?? who ends the date ? should I wait for him to hug or cheek kiss me or just say bye and walk away to my car. how will I know if he is serious about this relationship and not just want to have sex with me . what hint should I observe , the ways he dresses does it mean something ? I have the habbit of talking too much about myself please please tell me how to avoid this ( I tend to be very friendly with all so I just speak my mind sometimes I tell my weakness also ) I'm planning to go in jean and t shirt will this be okay or too simple , anyways he wants a friend sowhydress

2006-11-16 17:42:02 · 13 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Singles & Dating

She says its okay because its going to be a one night stand, and i say its not okay because we are in a relationship.

2006-11-16 17:41:30 · 24 answers · asked by stephentoddking 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfrined is friends with his last live in lover. I know their is nothing between them but I still don't like it. Its me or her.

2006-11-16 17:41:24 · 5 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl called me to complain about me telling all of these people she a cutter and how she was mad at me for it....But then I told her about how it felt when she said she didn't like me... And then she said thats the same why she feels about the guy( my home boy) she liked, but he still dissed her... And she started to pour her feelings on to me, how every thing in her life sucks and things like that....And she started to make me laugh and i started to make her laugh.... she hinted at that I needed to wait and see If she liked me or not......But the weirdest thing was she keeps asking me if I was going to hang up on her, even though she knows I'm crazy over her...and today she said she really did think I was going to hang up on her......But when ever I'm around her I can't talk right.... It feels really awkward case shes a friend, but she says she likes me , and then says no i'm a friend and she dosen't have feelings for me. I can't stop thinking about her..... I really like her.

2006-11-16 17:40:38 · 15 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl in my class that sits right next to me at my table that is very touchy and likes to fondle my hair and stuff..She generally pays more attention to me and is very flirty...I would normally just ask her out on a date or something but she talks to other girls at my table about this guy she likes..I don't know whether she is just a flirty girl or if she is actually interested...What do you ladies think?

2006-11-16 17:38:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a family member of mine has "suicidal romantic" as their display name of their website... should i be worried?,,,, she also has dark images etc but she is like 13... how do i know its not just a trend liek being emo etc?
when it comes to her profile, it says that she dreams of a better life... ut then she says she loves her friends...? then it will have like a four lines poem about how she pretends to smile etc?

2006-11-16 17:37:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, I know this is gonna sound all weird and a little self absorbed. I live in a town where there isn't a whole lot of diversity going on, so basically I feel that everytime I walk into a room or a bar, most guys will give me this "look" or "stare." Am I being self conscious or paranoid here? I mean really, what do you guys think about asian girl in general? Details please.

2006-11-16 17:37:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Now I'm in a nursing school - hopefully would finisch in May. My father was verbally abusive to my mother as long as I can remember, and long time ago did beat her up pretty bad never happen since, just some minor pushes.
I had no place to go since I've lost my job - missed to many days due to pregnancy complications. When my kids were 6 mo old my would-have-been father in law and my mother encouraged me to apply to nursing school, even though I had no income...
My father was pretty good, considering his character and even helped with twins sometimes...However, it is not easy to share home with toddlers, especially twins, and gradually he become more irritable and finally exploded beating me up - no serious injuries or bruises on the face, though.
My ex-fiancee does not earn much money and is basically waiting until he can get either his inheritance or retirement money. What are my options? I still depend on my parents for financial support...Would I be able to survive on my own?

2006-11-16 17:36:52 · 8 answers · asked by PAgirl 1 in Family

Hey,

I met this girl as my ballroom dance competition partner about 5 weeks ago. And we've been hanging out a lot together.

Well I think I'm just being the person I naturally am, being extremely helpful. I always drive her around, help her move house, take her around the city (she's new to the city), just hang out and buy her drinks, pay for her lunch, nurse her when she was ill. I suppose i have to spend lots of time with her because of dancing.

I would probably do the same for everyone that I spend that much time together. But am I being too nice to her?

2006-11-16 17:36:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Like breathing exercises or something? I have a bad habit of giggling when I'm nervous.

2006-11-16 17:34:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so initially it's always a physical attraction that gets you talking to the guy right? After that, what makes you stay with him or think he's an ***? Now granted, there are the obvious "He cheats" or "He lies", but I mean what are the LITTLE things that make you want to stay with him or move on? And what part of the personality a guy has do you like or dislike the most?

2006-11-16 17:34:01 · 18 answers · asked by abel 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy recently and I am really attracted to him. I am in college and we have classes together. We joke around constantly, but when he says anything to "hurt my feelings"-not really HURT them, he is very quick to correct himself. He is always helping me out, throwing stuff at me, asking if me and one of our guy friends is going out with a "eh eh?? are y'all going out??" and he also calls me "baby" jokingly and goes "you ARE single......righttttt??" When I replied with a "yes" he goes "goooooood remain single!"

Is he interested or just being the typical goofy guy!!? :) Thanks for any help y'all!! :) God bless!

2006-11-16 17:32:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This man made me drive him home when I am drunk, refused to call me a cab, and I got totally ******* lost on the way home. I left him 2 messages saying I was lost. He never called me back to ask me if I was alive or dead. I saw him in class 4 days after this incident and he lamely asked me "How are you?". I glared at him and did not reply and have ignored him on campus ever since.

Basically - is there any way his behaviour is excusable? Even if I excuse him making me drive him home drunk and refusing to call the cab, I cannot excuse his utter neglect in not calling me the next day to see if I'm OK.

I feel as if he MUST apologize and explain his behaviour before I speak to him properly again. Am I being a hard-***, or is this reasonable? Will he understand that I am looking for an apology/explanation?

2006-11-16 17:31:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 17:30:56 · 10 answers · asked by sunshine4u 1 in Singles & Dating

I was with dude 2 years and he cheated and lied and even went so far as to fight me when i caught him cheatin once. we break up and get back together all the time. Lately he have been swearing to change and asked me to marry him but he did so much dirt i kinda feel like he owe it to me and at the same time i dont even feel like bein bothered with his bs no more. I really dont trust him like i should. he plays a lot of games. I tried to help him get a GED and all and he stopped goin to school and had no job so he wouldnt pay any bills. now that he has a job he still dont pay bills but he say he will once he get on his feet. i love him and that is what keep me here. the sex ok but not why i stay. should i give him another chance to prove he is better and serious about it all now or should i just leave now before he f up again. he claim he wanna get married and I feel like he might not be able to change after 2 years but at one point we was best friends and if i could get that back...

2006-11-16 17:30:44 · 9 answers · asked by just askin 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 17:29:03 · 14 answers · asked by sweety1_singh12 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a caucasian female and am physically attracted to men of other races, hispanic, pacific islander, filipino- but find those most interested in me are caucasian. Why is that? And how to I get the attention of those outside my race? How do I make myself more approachable (or desireable) to "my opposite"?

2006-11-16 17:28:30 · 11 answers · asked by wheresdbeach 1 in Singles & Dating

how to help full-figured women gain confidence? Thank you for your answer. It's very important to me. Thank you all.

2006-11-16 17:28:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am in relation with a boy from last 8 months, We are in love with each other .He is now working in abroad but he is from India.The boy is also from a well to do family .We both want to get married but the boys parents has refuse me to accept as their daughter in law and the boy is finding difficult to go against his parents wish .My parents have also met him and they find him genuine person .But now when he is not able to commit .My parents want me to get married with some one else at the earliest because i am 25 in my age .And they think if i donot get married now then it will be difficult for me to get other proposals at an elderly age

Can u please advise

2006-11-16 17:25:09 · 11 answers · asked by me f 1 in Singles & Dating

I tried posting in other catagories, but no one answered. So maybe the group can help...
Can you shoot in tiff file format using a 20D Canon? If so, how?

Also is there an online manual for this camera and the 580EX Speedlite Flash? If so, links please.
Thanks so much!!!!

2006-11-16 17:25:06 · 1 answers · asked by turkey killer 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 17:24:03 · 15 answers · asked by josie 2 in Singles & Dating

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2006-11-16 17:22:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 17:22:52 · 12 answers · asked by D.R.M.M's Fairplay's Man 5 in Friends

So, I asked a guy I work with to go to a wedding with me because I didn't want to go alone and he's a fun guy. He said he'd go, but ended up having to cancel, however, he asked if he could take me out on a date at a different time. I said yes. In the meantime, we hung out a couple times with people from work and had a couple drinks, but couldn't find a day that worked for both of us to go on this date. So, I text him the other day and asked if the date was still an option...no response...called to invite him to watch a movie....no response. When we are at work, he will make a point to talk to me and is flirtatous. I don't get it. Obviously he was interested enough to ask me out, but now doesn't answer my call or respond? Confuse the heck out of me! And now I feel akward around him at work.

2006-11-16 17:22:42 · 10 answers · asked by prittyblueyes 1 in Singles & Dating