I was with dude 2 years and he cheated and lied and even went so far as to fight me when i caught him cheatin once. we break up and get back together all the time. Lately he have been swearing to change and asked me to marry him but he did so much dirt i kinda feel like he owe it to me and at the same time i dont even feel like bein bothered with his bs no more. I really dont trust him like i should. he plays a lot of games. I tried to help him get a GED and all and he stopped goin to school and had no job so he wouldnt pay any bills. now that he has a job he still dont pay bills but he say he will once he get on his feet. i love him and that is what keep me here. the sex ok but not why i stay. should i give him another chance to prove he is better and serious about it all now or should i just leave now before he f up again. he claim he wanna get married and I feel like he might not be able to change after 2 years but at one point we was best friends and if i could get that back...
2006-11-16 17:30:44 · 9 answers · asked by just askin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He shouldnt be dating anyone, he cant keep his own life together...Runaway from this one...
2006-11-16 18:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I no exactly what you are going though because my husband cheated on me. I love him and at the same time I hate him. The trust is totally gone never to return My heart has been torn out and walked on.This is what we let men do to us repeatedly.As long as we let them get away with it ,it will keep on happen.At lease I do have a husband that take care of me and works hard every day and pays the bills.Can you honestly say you have a man that will take care of you and by that I mean love you,be there for you always.
2006-11-17 01:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know, once a cheater not always a cheater. But this only goes for less than 10% of guys. Cause see once a person steals, even though he says he wont do it again, it is much easier for him to give into the temptation cause he did it already. This goes for alcohol, ciggarettes.. and even.. cheating men.
2006-11-17 01:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by Cody B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Just to hear the same song again and be the one with egg on your face again?How much of a fool are you going to be for this loser?This reminds me of an old blues song,"If your gonna walk on my love,the lease you could do is take off your shoes".
2006-11-17 01:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like your a loser magnet if i tell him to dump him you wont. If you meet someone that cheats it is over if he cheated on someone else he is a cheat there is no changing a person. Find a sincere honest person who if that person is not happy they move on and tell you up front it is not working.
2006-11-17 01:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by Todd C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, he sounds a totally irresponsible man and a loser.
What possibility is there that he can become a decent husband and a good father?
You should walk away while you still can.
2006-11-17 01:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by Saffren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater and after an affair you will never, no matter how much you try, you will never be able to trust him again so seriously cut your loses and move on
2006-11-17 01:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by half insane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life and get rid of the bum....
2006-11-17 01:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by wonder woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question, ummmmmm
2006-11-17 01:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋