She says its okay because its going to be a one night stand, and i say its not okay because we are in a relationship.
2006-11-16 17:41:30 · 24 answers · asked by stephentoddking 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
before she met me she was a virgin and now she just wants to go out and try new sex just to see what it is like. we've been together for 8 months now.
2006-11-16 17:51:00 · update #1
she says she has respect for me and that's why she asked before she did it
2006-11-16 17:53:52 · update #2
she is saying these things as an excuse... and im saying that none of it matters and she doesnt believe me so thats why i was asking you because she doesnt understand, etc.
2006-11-16 18:44:46 · update #3
what i meant was that none of her excuses matter. What shes doing is not right.
Thank you all for confirming what i believ'd.
2006-11-16 18:46:45 · update #4
the signals are as clear as a mud..
she doesn't give a d*mn on what you say & feel...please say you'll not let this pass..??
leave her...
2006-11-16 17:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a. No, it's not OK if she fools around w/ Other guys & U r faithful!
b. Is this some one U really want 2 keep as a friend?
c. is She respecting ur relationship by fooling around?
Just how old are you & her? This is not good situation 4 her.
a. She says its okay because its going to be a one- night stand, and I say its not okay because we are in a relationship.
b. b4 she met me she was a virgin. now she just wants to go out 4 sex... We've been together for 8 months now.
c. she says she has respect for me and that's why she asked before she did it
2006-11-17 02:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kenneth R C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was just a friend then yes, but as it's a one night stand, that usually means sex is involved. Don't let her treat you like that, its not fair to you and if you let it happen this time, she'll do it again and again and again. Even the fact that she asked you if she can is disturbing enough to know she's not entirely happy in the relationship. She does not sound like a keeper.
2006-11-17 01:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it's not okay for her to go out with someone else if you are in a relationship. if, however, you've only been seeing each other and are not exclusive then it's admirable that she's being honest with you about seeing other people. in that case, i would let her know that you want to be exclusive.
2006-11-17 01:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by maygan.lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO
What part of being a girlfriend doesn't she understand?
If she does it, I personally wouldn't trust her.
She needs to say NO to the guy and be a faithful girlfirend
2006-11-17 02:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right she obviously disrespects you and the relationship you have with her. I would defanently walk out on her and tell her if she wants to go out then so do you. Find you somone better and dont mess with messed up women like that, you deserve better! GOOD LUCK..to ya!
2006-11-17 01:50:18 · answer #6 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's one crazy *****. I'd be afraid, very afraid. If she's not willing to sacrifice a couple of mindless, meaningless s*excapades with random guys (which, in and of itself, is not too hot), then she is not girlfriend material. When you have sex with someone you leave a piece of yourself with that person.
2006-11-17 02:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by Arf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One night stand in a relationship...? It's like infidelity if you are married... But if you are okay with it, she's good, but otherwise you need to tell your girlfriend, she wouldn't be your gf if she had one night stands
2006-11-17 01:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by epooji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UH three letters come to mind...WTF??? Hell no! Hell FCUK NO! Ask if it's ok for you to go out with a "one night stand" the same night?!?! If yes, then find someone! I wouldn't go for that! You a fool if you do! }:-(
2006-11-17 01:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by sixfoot8bkr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you..
If you are in a serious relationship you must object to such things..
If the girl doesnt care then you know how serious she is with you..
2006-11-17 01:48:07 · answer #10 · answered by girishjo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, that's not okay. if it was with a friend she had before and it was completely platonic, then that would be cool. however, you guys are in a relationship and she needs to respect that.
2006-11-17 01:47:41 · answer #11 · answered by Adonna P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋