a family member of mine has "suicidal romantic" as their display name of their website... should i be worried?,,,, she also has dark images etc but she is like 13... how do i know its not just a trend liek being emo etc?
when it comes to her profile, it says that she dreams of a better life... ut then she says she loves her friends...? then it will have like a four lines poem about how she pretends to smile etc?
2006-11-16 17:37:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you should be just a little curious. Ask her how she's dong sometiumes.
She might have something bothering her that she won't tell any one in her house hold about. But there is something there for her to choose that and then say she is curious about a better life
2006-11-16 17:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by kinev2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she ever had any suicidal tendencies??Does she stay to herself a lot??Does she have friends(real friends) with bright outlooks on life??It's hard to say this day and age we live in..She might just be trying to adapt to our pop culture age and just happens to like those sort of things..I wouldn't be too overbearing but it may not be such a bad idea to sit down and have a talk with her about life and how hers is going.. Let her know if she ever needs someone to talk to you are there for her and are willing to listen..She'll probably look at you like you are crazy but just convey that point and let her know you care..
2006-11-17 01:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by john316tdh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-11-17 01:42:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be worried for her. She apparently has a couple of others running around in her head. You should talk to a doctor about what she's doing! sounds like a split personality in a bad form!
2006-11-17 01:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i would strongly suggest a good counselor/psychologist/psychiatrist. Maybe she is depressed, i.e. pretending to smile. Either way it wouldn't hurt for her to talk to someone-anything mentioning suicide is a red flag to see a doctor.
2006-11-17 01:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it would be good if she had someone to talk to and confide in. Are you able to spend time with her... talk to her on her level? Be casual and offer friendship.. it may take time for her to confide in you. Spend a lot of quality time with her and center on her interests not yours... gain her trust and then cautiously try some open conversation.
2006-11-17 01:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes be worried but also create a relationship between you and her so that you an know when there is something serious to be worried of
2006-11-17 01:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds pretty typical. My parents always told me it was a phase and I would grow out of it. After 35yrs I can safely say it is not a phase and I do enjoy who I am.
2006-11-17 01:43:13 · answer #8 · answered by rynay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is 13, she is rebelling and possibly into teh whole depression nobody loves me type of stuff, keep your eyes opened and your ears listening
2006-11-17 01:42:32 · answer #9 · answered by half insane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's gothic.
all preteens go through a stage like that. they are trying to figure out ways to express themselves. i don't think she has a problem.
2006-11-17 01:43:15 · answer #10 · answered by anonymoushorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋