Ok, so initially it's always a physical attraction that gets you talking to the guy right? After that, what makes you stay with him or think he's an ***? Now granted, there are the obvious "He cheats" or "He lies", but I mean what are the LITTLE things that make you want to stay with him or move on? And what part of the personality a guy has do you like or dislike the most?
2006-11-16 17:34:01 · 18 answers · asked by abel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good: stable, sincere, mature, clean, has a life, light hearted
type of funny, relaxed, can debate fairly, steadfast with his convictions, isn't ignorant, woos, uses his noggin and common sense
Bad: "I'm gonna hold onto you for dear life and call you seven times when you don't call me or call me back!"; whiny, complains too much, talks about filling the voids in his life by wanting to have children, drinking at bars, etc..; tries to make you his time filler pseudo girlfriend while he wastes his life away;
2006-11-17 09:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by Arf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction is key, you are right about that. As for staying with him, it is different for everyone. So I'll just tell you from my perspective. I like a guy who is honest, funny and smart. He has to have dreams and go for those dreams. He MUST be a good listener and a shoulder to cry on. He needs to be there for me when I need him most. He is the guy I depend on to make a bad day a good one.
2006-11-16 17:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by Christina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally like a guy that can keep me on my toes I mean a lot of girls dump their boyfriends because the relationship just gets plain boring and no one wants a boring relationship. I dislike cocky guys because they always seem to talk about themselves and how good they are and I hate narcissistic people (they're annoying).
2006-11-17 12:56:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually observed this:
1.Sense of humor
2.Does he drink coffee?
3.His eyes, were he look at when talking with me
4.His body language
5.What does he talk about...maybe is a bimbo for a good night sex...or he could worth to be staying with!
6.every woman like man, feels attracted by different things...so
7.Does he makes me click!
2006-11-16 22:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by Demosth E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like this.. When my man and I started dating, we were sitting at a stoplight. He hopped out of the car, ran into a field, and picked me a flower. He pissed off a lot of ppl... It was aweome. He listened to all my problems and tried to help me deal with them. He treated me awesome around his friends. He treated me so well.. We have been married almost 7 years now.. Be sweet, and dont act like you are all that. Most girls can tell if you are trying too hard to impress them, and trust me, it is a total turnoff.. Best part of personality is Dedication, worst is them thinking they can't be wrong or cry.
2006-11-16 17:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by jessica m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it IS ALL ABOUT THE LITTLE THINGS he does. A flower just because, a simple "I love you" whispered over dinner cooking. I love those little expressions of love.
I stay with my husband of 23 years because he's good to me, has earned every ounce of my trust and I love him beyond belief.
I don't like a guy who brags about his accomplishments and always has to be better than any other man on earth. They are certainly out there!
2006-11-17 02:43:46 · answer #6 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, I admit most of the time it is physical attraction, but there are other times, where it is the correct time and the correct place. The things i know I definitely hate is way arrogant. Being arrogant is hot, but way beyond that, it gets annoying, really annoying. You shouldn't try to guess the girl's feelings, she gets mad at that, she thinks yo uare trying to do everything.
2006-11-16 17:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by epooji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The things that make me want to stay with my man, is number one how he treats me, if he tells me sweet things out of the blue. Is willing to watch girly movies with me even though he doesnt like them. Opens car doors for me, holds doors for me when we go somewhere, pulls my chair out at the table. (I mean those things right there the car door and the table thing really doesnt matter but its something sweet girls look at). One main thing is how the guy treats his mother, if a guy doesnt have enough respect for his mother what makes you think he has some for you? the things that turn me away from a guy is if he is to full of himself, he dissrespects me talks back to me.
2006-11-16 17:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's different with every guy. I would stay with him if he loved me, but if he cheated I would be gone. If it seemed like he didn't give a care about my opinions or beliefs then I would leave him as well.
2006-11-16 17:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy that can hold an actual conversation and for me...a guy that tries to open me up by talking to me and getting me to talk and answers things honestly. I wouldn't want to be with a guy that flirts with every girl, has bad hygiene, teases me and doesn't pursue etc.
2006-11-16 17:44:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋