Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

2006-11-16 19:19:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am seperated for 10 months. he is not a decent guy, but he is terminally ill. Should I hang in there, because he says he needs me, or should I go ahead and file for divorce. Our relationship is complicated. He is a great friend, but not a good husband, has cheated, and been physically abusive. We live in seperate homes, but we are still together on paper.....I have guilt, but know that I can never live with him again...What should I do???

2006-11-16 19:19:05 · 15 answers · asked by mlw6366 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey,

I'm hanging out with my dancepartner a lot lately.
We go out and have something to eat together all the time.
Every time I offered to pay but she rejects. Yea, i know if a girl let a guy pay, it means something.
However, everytime after she rejects she offers to pay for me.
Being a guy, I feel uneasy letting a girl pay for me, so we end up paying separately.

Why is she rejecting my offer to pay yet offer to pay for our meals?

2006-11-16 19:18:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what are the top 3 things that a man must have for you to fall in love?

2006-11-16 19:17:12 · 9 answers · asked by DUSTY 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 19:16:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-16 19:15:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If a man is standing in the middle of the forest speaking and there is no woman around to hear him...is he still wrong?

2006-11-16 19:15:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she found out i did before and now found out that i did again, but it was a long time ago, i feel so selfish, and i wanna show her she can trust me, bc i see things alot diff now, she is gone, and our hopes of being married in serious jepordy, i was selfish and i want her to be the only women i ever am w again, women out there especially what can i do, i really hurt her, she was my everything and i messed up. but i have made up my mind to do nething to get her back, so now i just gotta do it, she has heard stories from people that i cheated on her all the time, and some girls have even said i have had sex with them or tried to talk to them, and they are completely lying, so that is making things harder bc she doesnt know what to believe, i love her more than nething, and i have been depressed for the last month and a half, what should u do when u literally cant live wout somebody? please tell me someobody can relate to this

2006-11-16 19:14:05 · 10 answers · asked by gem_city_diplomat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend, which is a former a prisoner. But he repent already and he still has a difficulties to get a job, because nobody trust him anymore. Is there anyone know about any foundations or organizations who can help that kind of person ( in united states)? thank you so much for the answer...

2006-11-16 19:13:51 · 5 answers · asked by wayang person china one 1 in Friends

2006-11-16 19:12:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 19:08:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Assuming he is a heterosexual man
(I ask for educational purposes only!)

2006-11-16 19:08:05 · 12 answers · asked by Ego Fatigo 5 in Singles & Dating

I just found out my boyfriend that moved away to school is messing around with a PERFECT looking girl. She's so nice, and just plain gorgeous. I just found out b/c I checked his voicemail. (we have each others passwords) She called him baby, and said, I can't wait till you get off so I can **** the **** out of you. I broke down and I have been crying ever since. Should I tell him that I know? I dunno what to do. He usually calls me when he gets off work around 2:30 a.m. I know I've lost him. But...I love him so much. I'm so hurt b/c not only has he been looking at this girls gorgeous body, but they are calling each other baby? Why didn't he just tell me? HELP!

2006-11-16 19:07:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and I have been trying to get back together. We divorced three years ago and have a teenage daughter.

He is very controlling and always likes to have things his way. So, when I negotiate with him, I say these are the things in my life I will not change or will only change after we are legally married again.

Now, he is constantly saying (in each and every e-mail) that I am a selfish person. He says that I am the most selfish person he knows. I don't know how to react to this statement.

My child is not doing good in school and he constantly blames me for not being with them. I live about 3000 miles away from them.

I can't sleep at night because of the uncertainty in my life. I also do not know how to deal with his comments.

2006-11-16 19:06:15 · 8 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

im in my late 20,s married for 5yrs no kids hav a gorgeous husband hav mindblowin sex and im a stunner. a lady friend has confessed that shes madly in love wit me yes i can have fun but love im not so sure as my husband possesses all of me. my friend and i hav great conversations she is my equal intellectualy which i love. she amazes me in so many ways. shes there for me in every way and i do lov and appreciate her. what are your views do tell

2006-11-16 19:05:02 · 8 answers · asked by anusha k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

last year in highschool this girl liked me and we would always talk just as friends. On valentine's day she begged me to buy her a rose (i guess she wanted me to be her valentine) and i refused to buy her one. She got some other guy to buy her one and she started to hit me with it lol. After that things changed and we didnt talk as much to each other until recently. We've always kept in touch really just as friends and i told her that i like her and stuff blah blah blah. at first she thought i was joking but now i guess she thinks i am serious... which i am. We both graduated and we're in different cities. i'm soon moving out of the country and i want to give her a proper goodbye for being so great to me. Should I surprise her with flowers @ her place? yes/no.. why?

2006-11-16 19:00:28 · 6 answers · asked by private0909 1 in Singles & Dating

How would you answer him? Give it some thought. I intend to do that very soon & I'm damn nervous about it.

2006-11-16 18:57:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-16 18:56:57 · 15 answers · asked by Martha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have finally made the decision to leave my verbally/emotionally ( has been physical in the past 3 times) abusive husband within the next 2 weeks. I am preparing for my exit with my 2 small children over to my mom's for awhile. We've been married for 12 years and although I feel it's the right thing to do as counseling doesn't seem to be working & he's still abusive. The problem is I keep thinking of the good times when he's being Mr. Nice Guy and downplaying the extreme abuse. I hate to htink of him with someone else and going on happily after I feel like I'm used goods left with 2 kids and all the responsibilty while he lives carefree except for paying child support. I don't know how to stop feeling guilty and dealing with the fact that my so called dream of a family is over. I thought that if I changed for the better he would change and that's just not happening. How do I move on when I still have love for him but I can't take his abuse anymore?

2006-11-16 18:56:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He behaves very rudely.....i buy gifts for him care for him he say he doesnt love me. I am more beautiful n gud looking than him??

2006-11-16 18:51:52 · 14 answers · asked by dips 1 in Singles & Dating

JUST A FEW WEEKS AGO I HAD MY FIRST SENSUAL ENCOUTER WITH A MAN! IT WAS GOOD!WE DID'NT HAVE SEX THOUGH SO MY VIRGINITY IS STILL IN TACT!OH AND I'M NOT A LESBIAN! I KNOW MY QUESTION IS WORDED WRONG!GETTING TO MY QUESTION SHOULD I FEEL BAD OR GOOD? I DID SOME PRETTY NAUGHTY THINGS!

2006-11-16 18:51:36 · 18 answers · asked by murmic05 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 18:50:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do men look when they are married? if the wife has never said no,, then why do they still do it?

2006-11-16 18:50:02 · 6 answers · asked by lilastevenson42 2 in Marriage & Divorce

dont they have shame??? and is it because they want to show off

2006-11-16 18:49:47 · 13 answers · asked by Jackson John Chinnappan 2 in Singles & Dating

They don't believe in God? Do you stray from them after that?

2006-11-16 18:47:28 · 20 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 18:45:08 · 6 answers · asked by perception 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf ask me to marry him, we had sex 4 months before our marriage. i just worry that he will not love me any more. give me support please

2006-11-16 18:43:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said "that's so sweet." So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but she you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.

So do you think she likes me?

Please help

2006-11-16 18:41:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was talking to my bf earlier on the phone and we were just chatting. here is our brief history: on and off for 16 months-most of the time was on but i broke up with him in june of this year, we go to the same university, are in love. well, anyways we were talking about what will happen when we graduate from the university we both are attending, mostly me opening the topic...his response was that we will both go our own separate ways..i told him that most college sweethearts date even they get their BS and while working on their Masters and he asked me what i wanted to do after i get my BA in teaching and i said to get a Masters and then to go and get a second BS in Biology and maybe a Master's. his response was that he will not wait that long here where we both attend school as though he is waiting for me or something-am io supposed to read his mind? then we talked about jobs and what we wanted from life and i said that i will be a teacher and he will be dealing w/ computers

2006-11-16 18:41:28 · 5 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 18:41:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating