Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

theres this girl im in love with. she always flirts with me. shes always kissing me and telling me that she loves me. i had a girl friend at the time so i didnt try anything with her. i recently broke up with my girlfriend and i want to go out with her but theres a problem i have. she is only 13 and i am 24. i dont think about her sexually or anything like that. i would be perfectly fine not having any kind of sexual relations with this girl.im not a perv but i really like her personality and she always listens to what i have to say, not like my ex. my ex never listened to anything i told her, which is one of the reasons why i broke up with her. but i dont know what to do about my situation. should i ask her to go out with me or should i just forget about it?

2006-11-16 20:05:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm having a problem with my family. they are against my boyfriend, they said i don't have a future with him. you see, he has a daughter from a previous relationship. my parents said that i would only have a hard time because my boyfriend's attention would always be divided, that i would always be second priority to her daughter. my parents wouldn't allow me to see him.. i really love this guy.. we've been trying to tell my parents that his intentions are good. but they are still adamant about it. i'm already 24 yrs. old, i have a job but i'm still living with my parents. i want my parents to accept us.. what should i do?..

2006-11-16 20:05:42 · 22 answers · asked by zzzzzzzzz 1 in Family

Is it possible that a guy has already told everything to his mom about his girlfriend and his mom is agree for there marriage after that one day his girlfriend told that guy that she wants to have a words with his mom that guy told his girlfriend that his mom denied to talk as she doesn’t wants to talk before engagement. is it true or possible can anybody say like this who is very positive and cool about the things ???? .

2006-11-16 20:03:55 · 11 answers · asked by shikha s 1 in Singles & Dating

To me, I would want then to touch my face 1st then gradually to other parts of my body.
This is a pool question, I wish to know both genders as to see the difference and sexuality preference.......

2006-11-16 20:02:21 · 8 answers · asked by dun_give_ a_ damn 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I spent yesterday evening being a good friend to a girl I know. Her boyfriend split up with her on monday and she needed a good shoulder to cry on. She is flat broke and hasnt eaten in days so i travelled over there took her and her little girl an indian and gave her a card at the end of the evening with £100 in to help towards getting her car fixed and putting food on the plate while she applies for a new job (she moved back to the area to be near her now ex). I'm doing all the right things to be a good mate, but the problem is I fancy her like crazy and have done for months. When we met up just after the last time they split up we hugged for like 20mins and she told me she felt a spark between us but still had feelings for her ex, so i backed off. Now she's so hurt i want to tell her so much i care for her, but I think I should just be a mate until her heart heals a bit then tell her? She hates men right now understandably but I am hoping I can show her we're not all alike. Comments?

2006-11-16 20:00:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As a matter of fact till some month ago i think it's the the best habit that i've got now i think vise-versa...I can not forget some of my firends whom have not any role in my life ....especially my ex friends whom i have determined to forget them...sometimes i try to have contact with them in different ways like phone or short messages (sms) that some of them made me feel little sometimes..how can i completely forget them or in what way i can persuade myself to evade them when i tempt to make contact with them?

2006-11-16 19:59:25 · 7 answers · asked by esii 1 in Friends

2006-11-16 19:56:09 · 6 answers · asked by *+*♥RiT@♥*+* 1 in Singles & Dating

I think it was 11 years ago has been contacting me alot lately. I initiated contact a few years back, when he lived in town, and he stopped responding to my messages.

I just got my first email from him two months ago. He's moved halfway across the nation and since then, he's been in regular contact with me, inviting me to visit him and etc...Does this mean he's interested, and why pursue if he lives so far away? I mean, he didnt make an effort when he was closer.

What's the deal?

2006-11-16 19:55:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 19:53:53 · 10 answers · asked by mared 5 in Singles & Dating

I love to hear these stories! Please share!

2006-11-16 19:53:46 · 4 answers · asked by Pearl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay so there is this guy who i have been dating for over 2 months now. he lives in California and i live in Canada. He is a yr old than me and i love him a lot. Me and him made plans to meet eahother and things changed so we were going to meet up next year, he is 14 im 13. Lately... well.. yesterday i met a guy named Jordan and he isnt as far as Jamie. Jordan is 15. He told me he loved me and wants to share his life with me. Jamie has said things like this but lately Jamie seems side tracked. im REALLY starting to fall head over heals for Jordan. but i have Jamie. IM NOT A CHEATER. ..What should i do? Dump him? and if we did break up how do i get him to dump me instaed of me dumping him. i feel to bad to dump him because he loves me a lot but i thinkk we are drifting. (U)

2006-11-16 19:49:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 19:48:40 · 18 answers · asked by someOtherDay 1 in Singles & Dating

I have tried to catch her by putting my own cameras out.But she watches everything that i do in my own home. I have had to live this way for 5 years. At first i could not figure out how she knew everything i did .and about 6 months ago i hired a private detective to come in to my home and they are the ones that told me that i had hidden cameras in my home and thay showed me ware thay were. When i paint over my walls or take the cameras out she puts more up.I have changed the lockes on the doors and even put sticks in the windows.But she will cut out the wall by the doors and get in that way to get ower keys everytime i cant stay up all night and all day to watch. I need help. I need a way to catch her and i dont know how. She is doing very bad things in ower home. She has scared my 7 year old so bad that she want sleep in her own bed anymore .I need my life back. I know there is someone that can tell me what to do. No Devors not yet. It is important that my husband know it's his mothe

2006-11-16 19:48:37 · 10 answers · asked by Panda 2 in Friends

what was your experience like? regret it? loved it? how old were you? do share the love!

2006-11-16 19:46:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I broke up with my boyfriend recently over a few silly things that could have been fixed, I have told him im really sorry and i was stupid, also that i love him and miss him more than anything, its not working - he just says 'you wanted this break you got it' but its really the last thing in the world i wanted. I need to find a way of getting him back - i'm willing to do anything. thats how much i love him. I can't hate myself anymore than i have through breaking it off. i'm hurting and all i want is to see his face again. Is there anything i can do?

2006-11-16 19:45:51 · 28 answers · asked by bonjovi1987rocks 1 in Singles & Dating

if ure girl desides she want another girl or does get with another girl

is that still considerd cheating????

2006-11-16 19:45:18 · 9 answers · asked by dont ? y! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 19:44:06 · 10 answers · asked by JOSEPH J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-16 19:40:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

do you approve or disaprove and why?

2006-11-16 19:40:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay its my first date ...im 16 hes 18 and its on saturday.
What do I do?
Its a double date were going with my best friend and her bf.
Its also a blind date lol.
My friend said I looked really nice in this one outfit its a maroon long t-shirt(the kind that goes past your waist...its tight but strechy tight so its not like i cant breath and it doesnt show off my boobs or anything like that so he'll be looking at me...its just form fitting)
um jeans and
gold ballet flats that excenutate the gold in the stiching in my tee.
lol
i dont wear alot of jewelry ...all i wear is stud earrings..should i wear more? like a necklace or a ring or braclet?
I dont know what to say to this guy!!!
we are either going to a movie (where i dont have to say much of anything) or the mall where i have to talk
What do I say?
lol besides hi...
Oh yeah i know what he looks like i just havent meet him yet.
(he is sooo hott)
I dont want to look so immature.
what if he tries kissing me?

2006-11-16 19:38:48 · 16 answers · asked by frostie21 2 in Singles & Dating

Do i look like a nice person to you?

2006-11-16 19:38:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married to a man in june we have known each other a long time and are really in love , but his ex wont leave us alone , he has 3 children to her who we both adore and everytime somthing dosnt go her way she stops us seeing them , the thing is she ended the relationship with him , she dosnt want him but dosnt want me to have him , she has also got a new boyfriend , we have been together 3 times before this and each time she has played on his feelings and managed to split us up , although this time is very different and there is no chance of him going back to her she is still always trying to get him into her house on his own , which he is completly refusing to do , when we go to pick the kids up from her house theres fighting and when she comes to our house to pick them up theres fighting , nothing is going to stop me marrying him but she is really wearing me down , and if i say anything back to her she will stop us seeing the kids so i just have to take it everytime .

2006-11-16 19:35:01 · 20 answers · asked by swaller_whalen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-16 19:34:52 · 15 answers · asked by bigpumpdaddy 4 in Singles & Dating

well im totally in love with this guy we broked up over a dumb rumor about 3 years ago and im still not over him, i try but i cant, he has a girlfriend, but him and i still have a really nice relationship, what can i do!?!?

2006-11-16 19:34:33 · 6 answers · asked by sexytwinklestar87 1 in Singles & Dating

do staght guys like hurting gays because my brothers been going out with this guy and they've been keeping it a screat. And so my brother all ways says that his boyfriend is really mean to him he hot and then he's cold one time my brother smiled at him and he smiled back and told his friend let's leave this f-ing ****** looking at us. he takes my brother 4 granted and makes fun of him when hes with his friends. And some times he'll be with his girlfriend and he'll run in to my brother and give him a ewww look and he'll walk the other way so my brother finally told him off and now he just keeps saying sorry and he all ways has tears in his eyes do ya'll think he's 4 real ?

2006-11-16 19:31:52 · 10 answers · asked by Terry l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

a woman who really in my heart of hearts know isnt good for me, ie gold digger manipulative no sex!! doesnt love me!! how can i get her out of my systems in any quiet moment my thoughts always go to her, should i just start shagging for england and forget her ie get another gf quick

2006-11-16 19:31:14 · 19 answers · asked by johnny 2 in Singles & Dating

If I sleep over at a friend's house, who happens to be a man, and nothing happens other than sleep would that be considered cheating? If so, why? Sleeping over at a girl friend's house wouldn't be so shouldn't it be ok?

2006-11-16 19:29:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and her only condition was to hear just the right erotic and steamy words from you (to tickle her fancy), what would those words be?

2006-11-16 19:22:39 · 6 answers · asked by Van T 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 19:21:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the deal. I'm 23 and don't have period.Last time i had, was before 2 years.
Frst time-when i was 12/13 years old;
Then sveral times.When I went to high school , I had not have period for 4 years.Then my doctor gave me a therapy, (to use contraceptives).It lasted for 6 months, and the only thinnk i got was that I became fat. my hormones are ok, maybe the testosterone is a little high.Now I want to get pregnant, and because of the fat around my ovary , i don't have period and because of that, I might have problem with getting pregnant. Finally my doctor said , if I can't get pregnant, then it will be neccessary to drill my fat, and in that way the sperm would reach my uterus.
Is this very risky? Does the chances of me not getting pregnant ever? This have bugged me for 3 years now. WIll I be ever able to naturally to have children?Thanks.
P.S. Sorry if the written above it's not very comprehensible

2006-11-16 19:20:24 · 2 answers · asked by bilezlatko 3 in Family