2006-11-16 19:40:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
get even(evil) with her
2006-11-16 21:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess that depends on what she is doing. I am a step-mother, and I am sure at times my son calls me The Evil Step mother, when in actual fact I love him to bits and only want whats best for him. Kids just don't like discipline, and who better to blame than the Step Mom???!! If you could be more specific?!! But anyhow, if she is mean to you, try talking to her about it. Invite her for a cup of tea and a chat, tell her how you feel. Maybe you two just misunderstand each other. She probably feels just as threatened by you as you do her. If that doesn't solve the problem, speak to your Dad or failing that, a teacher / family friend. Good luck. Sometimes the solution is closer than you think!
2006-11-16 19:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have an evil step mum but I put up with her just for the sake of my Dads feelings but I really hate the woman
2006-11-16 21:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by SUSAN M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have lived with a step mum from hell for 15 yrs try and tell me they get better they dont my step mum kicked me and my three sons out of my fathers house and made us live on the streets for over a week in our car and told my father we left ect she iswhat most call a lovely person only those who truly know her know shes a cow with a fat a,,,,ss so i fully understand what you are saying and there is no answer she will not change she will always be nasty and mean all you can do is avoid her and hope sooner or later you father wakes up and takes notice of whats happening she cant hide for ever my father hs seen it and is refusing to addmit his precious wife is rotten his lose becouse for a few mths he lost his grandbabys all becouse of her
2006-11-16 20:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by angelsrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only tell you how I dealt with my situation. My mother died when I was a baby and my father re-married after I went to college. It was a bad situation from the start...jealousy of me, later hatred of my children. I loved my daddy so much that out of respect for him I NEVER said or did anything to cause trouble. After he died (forty years later....yes, forty years later) I severed all contact with her. It's been over four years now and I have not had to deal with her one single time! I did it all for Daddy; now I can do it for me!
2006-11-17 01:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you when I find out...
*mine is a B*tch!!!
but I have been very short answering to mine...
...and try not to go to hers for dinner....
I wish you all the best....I so deeply know what you are going threw..
2006-11-16 19:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by Thelma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man, i've been in this situation. basically be SUPER nice to her and eventually (it may take 7 years) she will feel bad and be nice to you. just whatever you do (yes its hard) don't react to her being nasty and dont argue with her. i'm sorry you have to go through with it. good lucK!
2006-11-16 19:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by wearetheggman86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a Tazer.
2006-11-16 19:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whatever she ask you, just ignored.
when she's talking in anger, pretend you don't know anything.
just stay cool...... as you don't have such person around.
2006-11-16 19:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only kind actions and words rids people over time alowing them to see another way. if you fight fire for fire it will only give her more fuel.
2006-11-16 19:47:24 · answer #10 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋