If I sleep over at a friend's house, who happens to be a man, and nothing happens other than sleep would that be considered cheating? If so, why? Sleeping over at a girl friend's house wouldn't be so shouldn't it be ok?
2006-11-16 19:29:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, but it might make your significant other uncomfortable.
2006-11-16 19:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by Brianna M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all sleeping over a female or males house could be cheating depending on if you were bi or straight. It would be considered cheating if you had certain actions towards that person that would lead to something more...
2006-11-16 19:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by ertw t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What we say doesn't really matter. It depends on how it makes your boyfriend feel that you would do that.
Be honest with yourself: Would you feel comfortable letting him do that? Or, would you wonder if anything happened. Cheating means different things to different people. And not everyone can handle cheating (or what they think cheating is) the same way. So, you have to be careful about what you say or do sometimes. At least until you two grow and build trust.
DzL (AsP)
"The Player's Lifestyle"
2006-11-16 19:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by mo2dajizzo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not cheating but using the words sleeping at my friends place can be a cause for concern to any boyfriend or husband, id say why do you care if its cheating when your actions sudgest a cheater.
2006-11-16 19:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok... u r not sayin enough info...
1. do u have a boyfriend? and does he know bout u sleepin over at a guy's place?
--- if you do have a boyfriend and he doesn't know bout it, it's cheatin in the sense of not lettin him know... but not cheating to the extent of hurtin his feelings by havin sex with someone which u didn't..
2. put yourself in your boyfriend shoes (assuming u have one)..
--- wad if he were to sleep over a gal's place without informin u... assuring u that it's just a sleep over and notin more... won't u feel that he might be cheating u?
reason: human needs sercurity in a relationship... that's y conversing is impt, so is trust and faith in each other... if u nvr assure each other of how much they mean to u or how much u mean to them, trust usually breaks down here.. therefore small issue concerning a diffferent sex can cause problem eg, imagination of one's partner cheatin, flirting, being unfaithful... this happens when one get veri insecure bout the relationship and tends to be extreme/slightly more sensitive bout this kind of issue...
prevention of this happen: trust.. build up trust... ask yer partner to come along... assure him there's nothin u do is unfaithful.. one more thing is to tell your partner whatever u going to do that involve a differnent gender.. this will oso build trust and minimise misunderstandings...
cheers,
NiteSky
2006-11-16 19:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by Nitesky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is way more than sleeping arrangements. If there is an emotional connection, it can be as devastating for the relationship as a sexual affair. Emotional affairs are very common, because we can justify it by saying that there is no physicality. Good luck!
2006-11-16 19:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is a grave accusing word when it's baseless. If both of you are not engaged to somebody else and are free to do as you please, but choose not to do so, this is not cheating. If he doesn't asked you and most certainly you don't invite him to ask you, then you're not cheating. Wait until he asked you to sleep with him again and by his gesture and your gesture too, agreed to do something else and later nothing happens, you're still not cheating but VERY disappointing. and I don't think there will be another time.
2006-11-16 19:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by Otilecram 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't consider it cheating unless you did something OTHER than sleep. like you said if you sleep at a girlfriends house then its ok so why can't you sleep at a guy friends house? Your boyfriend or husband may not be to happy about it but what can ya do? lol
2006-11-16 19:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by okiegirl06_21 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
technically no... But not everyones technichal... most people would view this as cheating. If my gf were to do this i would be very upset, i probably would not believe her that they were jus friends. But since ur writing this on this site , i believe you and i dont consider it cheating.
2006-11-16 19:34:40 · answer #9 · answered by david edwards 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not cheating if there was no flirting,nothing happened and you slept in separate rooms.Mind you most people would not believe you if you said nothing happened.But it is not correct.
2006-11-16 19:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by HM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not cheating unless something happen... But since nothing did it's not cheating
2006-11-16 19:33:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋