I need HELP! Its my first date!what do I do?

Question

okay its my first date ...im 16 hes 18 and its on saturday.
What do I do?
Its a double date were going with my best friend and her bf.
Its also a blind date lol.
My friend said I looked really nice in this one outfit its a maroon long t-shirt(the kind that goes past your waist...its tight but strechy tight so its not like i cant breath and it doesnt show off my boobs or anything like that so he'll be looking at me...its just form fitting)
um jeans and
gold ballet flats that excenutate the gold in the stiching in my tee.
lol
i dont wear alot of jewelry ...all i wear is stud earrings..should i wear more? like a necklace or a ring or braclet?
I dont know what to say to this guy!!!
we are either going to a movie (where i dont have to say much of anything) or the mall where i have to talk
What do I say?
lol besides hi...
Oh yeah i know what he looks like i just havent meet him yet.
(he is sooo hott)
I dont want to look so immature.
what if he tries kissing me?

what do i do with my hair ? i was thinking of straightening it and then putting it half up half down *to guys out there..its what you guys call the peacock look or that bump of hair at the top of a girls head lmao...u kno that gwen stefani always does*
Whats gonna happen in the movies?
What if he puts his arm around me?
what movie should we go see?

im not going to have sex with him on the first date! im NOT another teenage WHORE.
Yeah of course im gonna be clean ppl! who doesnt shower?!
Yes I always smell good no i dont wear alot of perfume because i have allergies and i sneeze alot then
But i do put on love spell lotion and spray that stuffs the bomb! lol
Yeah of course im going to wear make-up!
I dont want to scare the guy! lol j/k
Um , i always have money on me.
Oh and i already have my nails done.
And im not going any place fancy so why would i wear a dress?..im going to the mall and the movies not dinner.

Answer 1

Act natural. Just be yourself., talk about things that are not complicated, like the weather , your hobbies, whatever. Wear anything that you feel will make you feel comfortable and look good. Just be yourself.

Answer 2

Well....its a double date which is GOOD for your very first date its less pressure and you can act more casual. Don't act any differant then you would if you were out with a group of friends and just get to know the guy! Just go out and have some fun! and as far as what to wear...have your friend come over the day or night before and go through some differant outfits and always take your friends advise! Even if you don't agree lol If he tries to kiss you...then do whatever you feel like....if you like him then kiss him! If not then don't let it happen!

But most importantly, have fun and don't be nervious!!!

GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 3

clothes, hair-do sound aok. don't wear any extra jewelry if you don't like to. maybe a necklace of some type would be nice. on the make-up end, i'm a big believer in a bit of mascara and definately lipstick. plus, give urself or get a manicure.
try not to worry about conversation, especially on a double date. if he asks questions, answer him, give ur honest opinions. if things get too quiet, talk about music, tv or school. remember, he may be older than you but girls are more mature than boys. so just have fun and trust ur instincts.
the kiss: if he's respectful and u enjoy being w/him, then kiss him back if u want to. if his hands start to wander and u feel uncomfortable, let him know right away. make sure you have money with you just in case - it's called 'mad money' meaning u can get home on ur own if u get mad at ur date. have a good time.

Answer 4

Whoa so many questions, lol. The outfit sounds nice so thats ok. Don't wear more jewelry, it sometimes is just better to tone things down, unless its something you wear everyday ie: class ring. Start with your name and 'how are you'. Ask about where he's from, his family, if he knows what he wants to do for a living/what college he wants to go to, and what he's interested in like sports or clubs. Its ok to tell him you are nervous, he may be too. I dunno what you want to do about the kissing. If you are really feeling him and think it'll amount to something more, go ahead. If he puts his arm around you in the theater don't get too nervous, its really not that big a deal. Go see something actiony, comedic, or scary. Anything interesting will do, so you can talk about it afterward. Ask little questions about the movie like 'why did this character do that' or whatever. Good luck

fyi:
for the hair, i myself hate the 'dino hump' . you can always straighten it then leave some straight and put in a few soft curls. but if you want to do the hump go ahead

Answer 5

Well, i must say Boys should be soooo KooL not hott. girls must be hot... LOlzzz

its really great that you are having a date with a person on your first date. both of you are very lucky, i must say.

-- I must say for a date Specially in the first date, you should be very understanding & quiet girl & dont hesitate on anything, be frank while talking, & never mumble, you have to be in a very Normal mood like CHRISTINE DUNST(the spider man's girl) i say... dress is more important on a date, you dont have to be so show off girl like wearing small tight dresses showing boobs' size or much exposing, may be a passionate dress may be much hottier than tight dresses. but its depends on the Attitude! as i can see he may like a very HoT dress say RED coloured with some fabric or craft designing. you should wear a few ornament but must be match with the dress colour. do not wear heavy ornaments, or dont use too much perfume as well. and then make up, i must say this is very important part as well, you have to check yourself on a mirror that whether you need any make up or not, clean up the greases and make your face clean then use some soft creams say gliserine if it suits you, hair - if you have long hair must say you you have your lucky day, shampoo your hair very well, & an open hair can Kill any hearts remember this very well. after shampoo make your hair dry & make it KooL so that it can catch some air as well... if you have short hair, doesnt matter, carry on! shampoo it & try some gell on it, then give a shape according to you face cut, as long face use straightened hair or round face use curvy hair style... this all may help you with your get up.

-- Attitude, you must be with yourself, you are a sixtene years old girl that doesnt mean your not old enough to understand a thing, you have to reserved & be yourself. do not talk much thats the point.

-- what if he kisses you, i must say, now-a-days we see girls like you kisses, having sex on a first date as well, though they its not legal or not right or may the system allows so so. modern culture goes very first and life style as well, so i should say if he kisses, & if you think that this your man(very recommanded, knowing him very well first, what he do & what he's background) then why not, you must response him well.

-- if he touches you around then it must implies that he needs some pleasure instead of having a date with a nice girl. date with a girl means a lot to a man this isnt meant pleasure or having sex... so if he is like that must say he's not your man, not the KooLest guy as well.

-- right way to be with him, response whenever he looks at you, specially the eye contact, thats very important. remember when he talks should listen to him & give him most of the imporatance & you also must see whether he gives you the same or not.

-- in the movie, try to close or if he's trying to close or just to be near, all your atitude & he's attitude may say everything what is his idea to have a date with you.

-- in the end dont hesitate & be yourself & be very attentive(careful), dont be frustrated... be easy & soft movement will do your thing...

best of all wishes to you!
take care
& be happy
(^_^)

Answer 6

just be your self and you'll do fine the first date is always the most nervous, but the good news is that its not just the two of you, you both have friends to help bring up something to talk about that way it doesn't get uncomfortable, dont worry you'll do great

Answer 7

just say "what do you think about that there?" and point out funny things if you are at the mall. or just say things you liked or didn't like about the movie, "what other kinds of films do you like? i liked that one song on the soundtrack, etc" just relax, he shouldn't try to kiss you on the first blind date, and if he does, he's probably sort of a skank.

Answer 8

I think you'll look fantastic!
Don't wear more jewelery, don't wear high-heeled shoes and don't put on too much makeup.
Natural is better!
Don't be afraid of anything.
Think about what you'll have to deal with if he falls in love with you and you don't even like him!!!!!!
Have fun girl!

Answer 9

hey hey hey you are going WAY (wwwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyy too far .
just act yourself and definiitly calm down. if you act yourself he will totally like you. you dont even have to wear your best clothes. just act your self and feel comfortable. let him kiss make it out. make iit a sucessful night

Answer 10

relax and take a deep breath... Start a conversation on your hobbies,interest, and what do you look for in a girl. Than you guys should be hiting it off than.