what was your experience like? regret it? loved it? how old were you? do share the love!
2006-11-16 19:46:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
21, painful, happy - beloved man
2006-11-16 19:50:38 · answer #1 · answered by simplegirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was 3 weeks away from my 17th birthday. It was extremely painful, I think I actually cried a bit during. It was exciting at the time though. I liked it at the time but now a good couple of years later I regret it to a degree I wish I'd saved my virginity for my current boyfriend because I know it would've meant a lot to him.
I just kind of threw away my virginity I thought of it as a burden at the time.
But it has to be said I'm also glad from what I learned from it. I learned that my body is a temple and that I shouldn't let any man do something so intimate with it unless I'm 100% comfortable with it and I know they'll appreciate the honour I'm giving them.
Oh well live and learn! I learned from the experience and moved on to bigger and better things (so to speak!)
-Elise
2006-11-17 04:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
21
I am a good looking guy :) and never had problems with girls. But i NEVER was in any relationship for the sake of sex. I could had many girls if I wanted to, but they just did not feel right.
BUT I am glad I had sex with the girl I loved and respected when i was 21 yrs old.
now I 23 yr old and single, and I still wont pursue a girl just for sex, because true Love will makes Sex THAT much better, trust me:)
Sex is not overrated, but also not the most important thing in life.
2006-11-17 04:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 14 he was 16, it was also his first time but he made it very romantic. I dont regret it I had been friends with him for 7 years before we did it and we dated for 3 years afterwards.
2006-11-17 04:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Painful, lots of regret (because of my choice and trust in the wrong guy), sadness. Wish I could go back and erase that bit. I was 16, trusting, naive, too caring and looking for approval.
2006-11-17 03:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 16 and he was my boyfriend.
It was a bit painful but after a few times I started really enjoying it.
We're not together anymore but I'll never regret it, he was both caring and ruff with me, sth I liked a lot!
2006-11-17 03:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by Vette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 15, she was 14, both were virgins. Took about 30 minutes, but the act only took about 2 minutes once I figured out how it worked. Instructions were not included....
2006-11-17 03:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by Wiseguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 18 and he was 19, it was my first he was experienced. He was the love of my life and we did it on his mom's couch, the floor, his sister's room and the bathroom. It hurt for a while but he took his time and talked to me the whole time. He was a great teacher and ex fiancee. Wish him the best of luck and god bless in Iraq!!!!!! Keep your head up!!!
2006-11-17 04:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by mercuree2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sixteen but married, hurt like heck and wondered why I had to do this weird stuff! Didn't have a good teacher so to speak, but
u get the hang of it after a while and learn!
2006-11-17 03:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by Nanniekc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
horrible. I was 16. the girl was 16. it was her first time as well, so it was a big deal for both of us. the whole thing was just really uncomfortable and we got into a huge argument afterwards. be really careful and use protection!
2006-11-17 03:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by wearetheggman86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 20 on my honey moon night. It was great. It was my first time and also my wife's first time. That was almost 37 years ago. Been pretty good every since.
2006-11-17 04:06:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋