Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

I'm a size 12. The majority of my weight is in my boobs and butt. I'm a 36F, so alot of the weight is there, I guess. I cant wear plus sized clothing and I'm usually in the juniors or misses sizes. I'm by no means skinny, but does that mean I'm a BBW? Where does the cutoff point for "BBW" start and end?

2006-11-16 18:38:15 · 5 answers · asked by Adrianna Christens 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy that I've known for several years, he's a family friend, recently told me that he's been harboring a crush on me. He's good looking and a very sweet guy, but he is currently married. I never really gave him a second thought becuase of this. Well he has had a really tough time. He and his wife had seperated, but then she got cancer, and he moved back home to take care of her. She is dying from it, and has been sick for the last year and half. He says that he and his wife are basically friends, and he just takes care of her. They are no longer "romantic" due to her illness. He's ready to move on emotionally, but has to do the honorable thing and take care of her through what life she has left. He says he wants some happiness in his life and wants to try and find that with me. At first I told him that I wouldn't see him because he's married, but the more I think about it, the more I would like to see where this might go. Would you date him?

2006-11-16 18:38:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies, what would you do if you walked in on your husband, while he was being intimate with his girlfriend?

2006-11-16 18:36:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What does it mean when a guy always stares at you when you walk pass each other?

Could the guy just have a staring problem?
There are on boogers on my nose, I checked. lol

2006-11-16 18:36:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yea, I don't know how to do that...

2006-11-16 18:35:25 · 18 answers · asked by approximately 1 in Singles & Dating

I hate our relationship
I hate her dog
I hate her attitude
I hate our sex life
I hate her lack of emotion
I hate her anal retentiveness
I hate we no longer have fun
I hate that there is no passion
I hate her sarcasm
I hate her lack of supportiviness
I hate her inability to communicate
I hate her frowning
I hate her seconed guessing me
I hate her unloving nature
I hate that she is always tired.
I hate her humor.

I really hate the way I feel about my marriage. I think I have fallen out of love. I want to be happily married. Just to let you know, I am a nice guy. I work hard, pay the bill, dont drink , smoke or cheat. No temper issues either. I am a regular nice guy. She is nice to everybody else but me- Her husband. She is hardworking and honest- she makes and good friend to others and a great daughter to her parents..

HELP!!!

2006-11-16 18:34:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what is it with guys pulling up next to a girl and trying to keep speed with her....you can't just stop and talk in the middle of the highway???wtf...why do guys do this .....don't they know that it is very annoying to the girl at times????some times i will admit that it is flattering though.....

2006-11-16 18:34:45 · 7 answers · asked by wendy p 3 in Singles & Dating

ive crushed on this VERY good guy friend of mine for a pretty long time but he doesnt know. we're extremly comfortable around each other. somehow, someone mustve found out and spreading rumors. now, he wont look at me or talk to me like he usually does everyday. what happened??...

2006-11-16 18:32:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To all readers.... I've been seeing a guy that I have grown to love for a year. Well, he moved back to his hometown about 5 months ago to finish school. He and I use to see each other all the time, and talk on the phone when he left. He's been acting funny lately, been going out to the clubs a lot and just having a good time. But..treating me differently. Well, I called to leave him a voice mail, and I forgot to mention something so I went to delete it, and it said enter your password. I knew his password b/c it's the same as his phone #. He had 2 messages on there from a girl that was calling him baby. Come to find out it's a friend of a friend that moved up there not to long ago. And she's tall, blonde, blue eyes with a perfect body. I kinda don't want to tell him I know, but then again I do want him to know. I dunno what 2 do. Even though he's never told me he's loved me, he promised he would tell me if he was seeing someone else. Any advice about this? And the model?

2006-11-16 18:31:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok if your sisters husband was cheating and you knew it and you are her brother would you tell your sister that her husband was cheating on her or would you keep it from her.

2006-11-16 18:30:18 · 20 answers · asked by knowssignlanguage 6 in Marriage & Divorce

him and i were really close do you think im just supressing my emotions too much? should i just let it out?

2006-11-16 18:29:15 · 32 answers · asked by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 in Family

just wondering

2006-11-16 18:28:19 · 6 answers · asked by candy girl 3 in Singles & Dating

pals l really want to date on the net but l dont have money to pay for the registration or subcription, please help me with a free dating site where l can make good friends.
Thanks.

2006-11-16 18:26:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

u know at i mean?

2006-11-16 18:26:00 · 1 answers · asked by candy girl 3 in Singles & Dating

did any one see the after show of MTV's Laguna Beach season 3...? well if any one did, did Rocky and Alex stay together after the show and if not what happened ??????

2006-11-16 18:25:13 · 2 answers · asked by mybaby_des 1 in Singles & Dating

This what i meant by my previous question. For sure I would leave right away but the question here is, should I inform her husband so he is careful with such a bad wife and person or would I be doing something bad by destroying a marriage specially that she happen to have a child from this husband. Many would call it revenge but I call it doing a good deed to her poor husband.

2006-11-16 18:24:25 · 25 answers · asked by ahmo m 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i are going to brake up... were just waiting for the right time for him to leave.. Sadly my little baby is stuck in the middle. were just waiting for her to be born any day now.. the reason being is hes a drunk and a lier.. I have excepted that were basicaly over, hes always looking online at other girls* before i even realised it was over * but i still need to know?? and i still open my mouth about him drinking.. I love him still ofcorse. Id give anything to fix us.. But i know i cant anymore. Why cant i just stop? give up??

2006-11-16 18:24:16 · 7 answers · asked by pladedah 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Tell me if i should try to be friends with him again?
i stop calling and talking him because he started acting funny with me he had just started going back with his ex during the end of our 11th school yr and they started spending alot of time together so i didnt want to get n the way. soeverytime we found time to hang out she would be there and i know she didnt like me so i just stop ccalling him like i use to call him and stoped comeing over all together wel when our senior yr started he was acting like he didnt wanna even be around me finally we didnt talk almost at all around christmas time of last yr he had hit this gurl that his gurlfriend was fighting and i didnt even know until i decided to ccall and see how he was doing well his mother told me he had went to juvinile because he had brought 2 guns to school i saw him workin and i decided to say hi an dthen he said he need to talk me so i gave him my number and he said that we stoped being firneds because i didnt have his back

2006-11-16 18:22:53 · 9 answers · asked by nebrea b 1 in Friends

How do you know when its the right thing to do, how do how do you know when you ready for it,??
I mean, how does one resist temptations if they no there's a very very small chance of being caught since the partner is not around to see what's happening???

2006-11-16 18:20:42 · 4 answers · asked by blue 1 in Singles & Dating

She gets attention from most guys but she doesn't want any of them she is not the serious type and is very fickle..why is she so fickle..? (she doesn't sleep around either she is difficult)

2006-11-16 18:20:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would be a reason a guy would like a girl and not ask her out? THANKS!

And what if she was friendly and wouldn't bite their head off if they asked.....

2006-11-16 18:19:21 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so my best friend of a year is like, my sister. Well, she has a bad family situation. she stays with her grandma, but is neglected. I know i can't do anything(i'm only 13) but when she goes to stay with her aunt, she's getting cared for.
well, she came back from her aunts and was told that she couldn't talk to me anymore.
this isn't good, because before me, she was on the brink of commiting suicide.
She has asked to go to therapy, but her grandma forgets to take her, she needs medication but they can't get it for her(yet they can manage to get her younger brother $120 in legos)
and she's a cutter.
i don't know what to do. her aunt just called me and put me on three way with her.
i want to stay friends with her...
and i apologize for any misspellings...my hands are shaking and i'm about to cry.
help me figure it out, I can't talk to my mom, because she doesn't like her very much, and would cosider this a blessing!!

2006-11-16 18:19:05 · 6 answers · asked by Mimi L 2 in Friends

I have a one yr old son. His dad is having a gf right now. We're not married so its ok for me if he have a gf right now coz i know I dont have the right. I told my ex-bf that while i am alive and my son doesnt know how to decide her new gf cannot play nor touch my son. Is it ok? Do u think im so rude?

2006-11-16 18:18:21 · 16 answers · asked by gandache19 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean, everybody can see her body, which is supposed to be only yours...

2006-11-16 18:18:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am having so many difficulties right vs. wrong choice. My husband, who is army, just got back from a 6 week school, in december he is only allowed to take 15 days leave (vacation) when prior to the school they were told 30 days. Now he has to leave for another 10 days for school and then deploys right after that.

Here is the problem: Under the original planned 30 days his family was going to visit for 10 of the days. Now its only 15 days and i am mad that 10 of it has to be spent with his brother & g-friend, mom and dad with only 5 days to spend= 2 before and 3 after they leave. Ladies esp, wouldnt you be stuck in a hard place because that is alot of planning for extra adults for three meals aday, house cleaning, entertaining and being on the ball so to speak for 10 days that I would much rather spend relaxing with my husband who is getting ready to deploy for a darn year. What do i do??? The travel is already arranged by the way, i just want a cozy family Christmas is that bad?

2006-11-16 18:17:22 · 9 answers · asked by Jessy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am living with my parents and my husband. I am desperate to get away from my husband and my parents prefer that he stays with them. He is on parole, holds no job, is an alcoholic, and has agoraphobia. I go to school full-time and work 20 hours a week. I have filled out paperwork to get housing assistance but it could be months before I hear anything about that. In the meantime he is making me crazy and I am becoming mean and sleeping 12 hours a day. My grades are slipping. I screamed at my parents today and almost got thrown out. I've applied for counselling and have an appointment next month. How can I get through this? I can't live like this anymore!

2006-11-16 18:17:18 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and I have sex everynight (sometimes day and night) but we do more foreplay then actual intercourse :( and when intercourse occurs it only lasts 4-6 mins for both of us (we both get pleased) is that good or bad ? And is there a way to last longer ?

2006-11-16 18:17:17 · 13 answers · asked by stngsgodd3ss 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girl and i are some miles apart.
I love her because that is something i am sure of,she also tells me the same.
Its not that i dont trust her but i just dont think its enough.Should i relax or test to see if she really does love me?
On the other hand i am afraid of losing her if it goes wrong.

2006-11-16 18:16:45 · 10 answers · asked by sola 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a mild lisp (eg. i pronounce all my "th sounds" as "s sounds")

Do women find this attractive, repulsive, or are they indifferent?

2006-11-16 18:16:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

All I ever seem to do is argue with my friends, put them down, or hurt them. it's completely involuntary, and when do this its like im not me, but smeone else. i dont wanna keep doing this, because i admit that i am being a b*tch. what can i do?

2006-11-16 18:16:03 · 19 answers · asked by ezzaphill 3 in Friends