Tell me if i should try to be friends with him again?
i stop calling and talking him because he started acting funny with me he had just started going back with his ex during the end of our 11th school yr and they started spending alot of time together so i didnt want to get n the way. soeverytime we found time to hang out she would be there and i know she didnt like me so i just stop ccalling him like i use to call him and stoped comeing over all together wel when our senior yr started he was acting like he didnt wanna even be around me finally we didnt talk almost at all around christmas time of last yr he had hit this gurl that his gurlfriend was fighting and i didnt even know until i decided to ccall and see how he was doing well his mother told me he had went to juvinile because he had brought 2 guns to school i saw him workin and i decided to say hi an dthen he said he need to talk me so i gave him my number and he said that we stoped being firneds because i didnt have his back
2006-11-16 18:22:53 · 9 answers · asked by nebrea b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ah, High School Love... OK on to your answer, obviously you did at one time love this guy. Although by the details you have stated, it sounds to be a bad relationship and one to stray away from indefinitely. A person like that abuses someone in ANY way is not good to be around. It does sound like he could of been cheating you on. The whole line about "you didn't have his back" is a just a line used by depressed people trying to bring others down to their level. When you have to witness and be around people like that stand up for yourself and be a leader not a follower. So your answer is NO, don't let yourself be a victim to someones problems espically if those problems involve the law and breaking it. If you feel bad about what you just did not talking to him or seeing him at all: Consider the Source...
2006-11-16 18:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by BIGAL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you will probably be better off NOT having this guy in your life. There are alot more guys out there who are probably much higher quality people than this guy is. Besides, if he blames the loss of the close friendship on you, he did plenty to contribute himself. He obviously never talked to his g/f about treating you with respect due to you. From what I can see, he doesn't respect you very much at all himself. So, I would cut off contact, unless he can become a man and start taking responsibility for his choices.
2006-11-17 02:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my opinion you did the right thing.But the best thing i could tell you is do what feels right to you.But im thinkin that you and him should talk but jus keep on a low status meaning a "hi and bye or maybe even "how are you doing thing. jus nothing 2 personal...well GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-17 02:39:21 · answer #3 · answered by shatoya s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well! for me i think..yeah u should be friends with him again...If he not that bad......Brought guns to school is not mean nothin...how long have u be friends with him? If very long u should. of cause friends don't lets friends down...because of that stuff thought....good luck is up to you now.....
2006-11-17 02:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by sexilicous b3b3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is trouble, who cares if you "got his back" he is in juvi for pete's sake! just drop it, he got himself all screwed up. you dont need that in your life.
2006-11-17 02:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you want to be in juvie yourself stay away from him
2006-11-17 02:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No stop talking to him.
2006-11-17 02:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-11-17 02:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
2006-11-17 02:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by Jerk my flergan! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋