My girl and i are some miles apart.
I love her because that is something i am sure of,she also tells me the same.
Its not that i dont trust her but i just dont think its enough.Should i relax or test to see if she really does love me?
On the other hand i am afraid of losing her if it goes wrong.
2006-11-16 18:16:45 · 10 answers · asked by sola 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would relax. you either trust her or you don't and if she tells you she loves you it should be enough.
testing someone is never a good idea.
2006-11-16 18:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by maygan.lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking physically "miles apart" or in your mind, like your likes and dislikes. If you both agree on that you can truly say you love each other then you have nothing to worry about. If you really do love her then the words: "It's not that I don't trust her" should never be said. Trust and Love are together as one; if you can't do one of them then both of them cannot exist. Relax your mind about having be yours, but to that, you can also play little test games to see if she loves you and has your trust. If you do however break up in the end, fate as I always saw it, "it was never meant to be." Thats hard to deal with and I know from personal experience when you love someone, but you will find someone if she doesn't work out. If you think positive and believe in yourself you shall have no doubts about her and yours relationship with each other.
2006-11-16 18:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by BIGAL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want a decent relationship, you have to trust her. If she gives you a legitimate reason not to trust her, it's not a decent relationship anyway. If it was me, I'd listen to my gut feelings. I happen to be in a long distance relationship. We just celebrated our one year "anniversary" of the day we met. It is challenging, but trust has never been an issue, other than the fact that we both agree that it's absolutely neccessary (as is honesty, of course) in a relationship whether two people are 1000 miles apart or living in the same home.
2006-11-16 18:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be mentally prepared for the worst so that you won't have a huge blow....but belive the good one and if you want to stop yourself from imagining things just remember the good times you and your gf had together
2006-11-16 18:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by hip.hop.gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAJOR ISSUE!!!! never test to see if it's LOVE....cuz if you do it only makes the relationship worse...then everything you guys dew you will question it that would lead to nothin but doubts in your mind....then it would be pointless to be in a realtionship.
2006-11-16 18:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by ~*BuGs*BuNnY*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a important thing.
2006-11-16 18:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust her then why on earth would you want to test her???
2006-11-16 18:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by cailieco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to test her just believe in her until she proves you wrong.
2006-11-16 18:25:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and see.
2006-11-16 18:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your over thinking it
2006-11-16 18:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by skm2511 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋