To all readers.... I've been seeing a guy that I have grown to love for a year. Well, he moved back to his hometown about 5 months ago to finish school. He and I use to see each other all the time, and talk on the phone when he left. He's been acting funny lately, been going out to the clubs a lot and just having a good time. But..treating me differently. Well, I called to leave him a voice mail, and I forgot to mention something so I went to delete it, and it said enter your password. I knew his password b/c it's the same as his phone #. He had 2 messages on there from a girl that was calling him baby. Come to find out it's a friend of a friend that moved up there not to long ago. And she's tall, blonde, blue eyes with a perfect body. I kinda don't want to tell him I know, but then again I do want him to know. I dunno what 2 do. Even though he's never told me he's loved me, he promised he would tell me if he was seeing someone else. Any advice about this? And the model?
2006-11-16 18:31:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lets put the facts togather.
U love a guy. He never mentioned he loves u but promised to let u know if sees someone else. He left ur town 5 months back & acting funny & clubbing lately. U heard his message box which contained 2 messages from a Perfect, Blue Eyed Blonde.
U feeling insecured & threatned, which is very natural. Only thing which bothered me is how you reacted by this feeling.
Please respect his rights. You have done moraly wrong by hearing his messages. He had shown faith in you by givving u password & telling u about his clubs. You should not let him down.
You are getting threatened by an imaginary situation. What if she is perfect blond? You are YOU & nobody can be YOU. Understand yourself, your strenghts & positive points. Work on them. Be better person. Improve yourself. Keep in touch with your love. Let him know you love him & always will. You are there to care & support him. Be his strength. Its not wrong to suspect but its wrong to assume & blame someone without proper reasons.
Remember If you love something, set it free. It will come back if it loves you. If it doesn't it was never yours.
Life is too big to get bogged down by such small things. Be BIG.
Wish you all the best my friend.
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2006-11-16 19:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should tell him you know it would be the right thing to do. It sounds like it could go both ways.. that she could be just a friend or that he is seeing her and that he wants to get caught, because I'm sure he knows that you have his password. The reason he knows is because, when you listen to a message in voicemail, it says skipped messages instead of new messages.
2006-11-17 03:38:57 · answer #2 · answered by ertw t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you loved him then you feel jealous then why not tell him you feelings? The girl who called her baby might be really attracted to her so she's already making a move. & you will feel when a guy is attracted to you right? & even his password he geve it to you so theres a mutual feeling maybe, you are the only one who can feel or sense it when he got desame feeling to you. Good luck!
2006-11-17 02:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by housewife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let it get to u. If it is a problem it will come out eventually. Let him talk to the other lady. If he wants to be with u he wont let anyone come between yall. U sound like a sweatheart. If he doesnt love u the way u want to be loved, please b patient. Someone will love u.
2006-11-17 02:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by Just Ask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u need to talk to him in a light mood that u have caught him red handed but accidentally and just ask him out of friendly chat whats cooking with that girl.
2006-11-17 02:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by nandru_22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him tell him how u feel and thats omeone told u
2006-11-17 02:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by candy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋