Okay, so my best friend of a year is like, my sister. Well, she has a bad family situation. she stays with her grandma, but is neglected. I know i can't do anything(i'm only 13) but when she goes to stay with her aunt, she's getting cared for.
well, she came back from her aunts and was told that she couldn't talk to me anymore.
this isn't good, because before me, she was on the brink of commiting suicide.
She has asked to go to therapy, but her grandma forgets to take her, she needs medication but they can't get it for her(yet they can manage to get her younger brother $120 in legos)
and she's a cutter.
i don't know what to do. her aunt just called me and put me on three way with her.
i want to stay friends with her...
and i apologize for any misspellings...my hands are shaking and i'm about to cry.
help me figure it out, I can't talk to my mom, because she doesn't like her very much, and would cosider this a blessing!!
2006-11-16 18:19:05 · 6 answers · asked by Mimi L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
her aunt is fine with her going back and everything.
it's her grandma i worry about.
2006-11-16 18:27:48 · update #1
for what it's worth...the grandma takes in over 40 cats and lots of animals, and they live in a trailer.
the aunt is saying that if things don't turn around, she's bringing in child services.
2006-11-16 18:31:38 · update #2
call CPS now
2006-11-16 18:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by never2pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confide in the aunt since she is obviously okay with you being her friend. If the aunt already knows but isn't doing anything to help her (shame on her) then you need to tell a teacher. But talk to the aunt first. Keep in mind that your friend is only telling you her version of the situation and it may be a little different in reality. There are people that can help your friend, and being a cutter is a serious issue. So talk to the aunt as soon as you can and then decide if you need to talk to a teacher, who will have to report the situation.
2006-11-17 02:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by belleebuttons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dear , if you accept your guilt & confess it , then it's ok !!! & you are saying that you apologize ... then it's completly fine ... if your mom doesn't like her then it's not your mistake , but 'never cry ' , coz crying won't help u to come out of this situation ...' CRYING IS NOT A SOLUTION!'... most of the times this happens when our parents don't like some of our friends , but it happens due to wide generation gap , time will help u ... go as per ur heart's suggestions & never hurt that girl who is your friend ...'don't leave her !!!' tell some good things about her to ur mom ....
2006-11-17 02:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by aishwarya b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have childern esrvice invegasitate how the grandma takes care of her and if found not right ,than aunt will be able to rasie her
2006-11-17 02:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by dee d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well man i think you are in lot worse than i can thought well one thing is that persuade your family to help her by taking to her grandmother and trying to tell her situation that will do i think but it will be a very difficuilt job
2006-11-17 02:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by zain86us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, try to ask her aunt again and if she says no again then you have to forget it
2006-11-17 02:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by hip.hop.gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋