JUST A FEW WEEKS AGO I HAD MY FIRST SENSUAL ENCOUTER WITH A MAN! IT WAS GOOD!WE DID'NT HAVE SEX THOUGH SO MY VIRGINITY IS STILL IN TACT!OH AND I'M NOT A LESBIAN! I KNOW MY QUESTION IS WORDED WRONG!GETTING TO MY QUESTION SHOULD I FEEL BAD OR GOOD? I DID SOME PRETTY NAUGHTY THINGS!
2006-11-16 18:51:36 · 18 answers · asked by murmic05 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GOOD ANSWERS GUYS!KEEP EM COMIN!
2006-11-16 19:03:48 · update #1
all veeerrrry cool answers ya'll dunno how i'm gonna pick best question!
2006-11-16 19:18:10 · update #2
TO THE PEOPLE WHO ASKED THAT VIGINITY QUESTION!I WAS TAUGHT FROM A VERY YOUNG AGE THAT VIRGINITY IS A GIFT FROM GOD AND TO NOT BE SO QUICK TO THROW IT AWAY! CUZ ONCE IT'S GONE IT'S GONE! THEN AS I MATURED I FOUND U SHOULDN'T BE GIVIN IT UP TO JUST ANYONE! MIGHT CATCH SUMTHIN U DON'T WANT OVER SOME HOURS OF FUN!
2006-11-16 19:54:12 · update #3
You shouldn't associate shame with sexual experiences. Feel good about them. I'm sure you did at the time. We were meant to enjoy our sexuality. As naughty as you may have gotten, you didn't go all the way and are obviously not promiscuous. Stop beating yourself up over this and celebrate the new milestone you've acheived in your life. You KNOW you are enjoying the thought of it, and this does NOT make you a bad girl.
2006-11-16 18:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should feel okay with what happened and not freak out! you are 23 and an adult and doing something sexual or something that arouses you is good and you should not be emberassed of it! see where it goes, take it slowly and maybe you will lose your virginito him if you feel that is the right thing to do or he is the right guy!my advice is not to sleep with someone really soon after you meet them because they take you as an ''easy" girl! and i did not lose my virginity until i was 21 to my bf but i knew that he was a good guy plus we dated for a while before having sex!
2006-11-17 03:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well everyone is different.I had my son @ 23 so keeping yourself as a virgin for that long in today's society is a plus.. Just know that if you continue doing these naughty things as you cal it, it will lead up to something you won't be able to back out of...So be careful!!!
2006-11-17 02:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are still a virgin you were not too naughty. YOung females like young males were given hormones they often don't hav much control over. It's natural to be sexaully attracted to someone of the opposite sex.
No harm done, lesson learned. you done good:):
2006-11-17 03:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You enjoyed doing it! Now what's the point in feeling bad or good. If you like doing it again, go ahead & do it. You have grown up.
2006-11-17 03:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by Cave Man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, why is it important that you kept your virginity intact? I think you need to explore the answer to this question before you can find the answer to you own.
2006-11-17 02:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by coolguy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your doing great! Until your ready keep it closed. Appreciate the fact that you respect yourself unlike most of the population.
2006-11-17 02:59:21 · answer #7 · answered by Peek@u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your answered the question...the sensual encounter was good...I would assume it was better than good. Were you a bad girl? Were you so bad that you were good?
2006-11-17 02:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get some action. You are an adult and you can make your own decisions, just get some!
2006-11-17 02:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by NightTrainWooWoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you.. If it happens it happens.... If don't happen then it doesn't. Take life as it comes to you. When that special moment gets here you will know it...
2006-11-17 02:57:20 · answer #10 · answered by randy j 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋