my bf ask me to marry him, we had sex 4 months before our marriage. i just worry that he will not love me any more. give me support please
2006-11-16 18:43:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
support..? ok no problem...
go..bonita...go..bonita...go...go...
give me B...
give me O...
give me N...
give me I...
give me T...
give me A...
BONITA...bonita go...go..
enough....................................................................
it's real support from me.
just think and feel with you heart, i think you heart can answer the question. and the answer is YES...
2006-11-16 18:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by eL'do-radO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Will he respect you? Yes, sometimes it better, what if u two didn't hit it off in that department? Here would be another divorce and it does matter, it;s half of a marriage and if someone says no then they don't know what they are talking about, married 30 years and still going strong!
PS Don't listen to to the guy calling u names, he just asked about
p e n i s 's!
2006-11-17 04:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by Nanniekc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he still loves you...and if he doesn't then he shouldn't have asked you to marry him. Sex doesn't change things like loving each other...if it does, then it wasn't love to begin with. Maybe you should talk to him about how you're feeling and see what he thinks. That is the best way to solve your issue since everyone here is Internet-land doesn't know the whole situation...
2006-11-17 10:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by VAWeddingSpecialist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bonita if he is still willing to marry you it won't have anything to do with the sex it will be the girl that he has come to know that he will be marrying. Sex is just an added attraction
2006-11-17 02:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by swami242 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would he not love you anymore of course he does if he didnt he would not of ask if you would marry him. you are just nervouse its ok. You will be fine. Be happy ok hun everything will be ok. talk with him if you need to it is ok to tell him how you are feeling then he can tell you his self that he loves you and just bc you had sex b4 marriage it does not change how he feels about you. He still loves you just as much.
2006-11-17 02:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does having sex with him have to do with your love? he loves you enough to marry you...so dont worry. if he starts to act differently since having sex with him, hold off on planning the wedding until things are worked out.
2006-11-17 17:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would this mean he woudl stop loving you? If the only reason he loved you was because you hadn't had sex with him yet, what would have happened after the wedding? Love has to be based on more, because even if you hadn't had sex now - you will after the wedding.
2006-11-17 11:28:54 · answer #7 · answered by Chrys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl please you are in the NEW MILLENNIUM, girls and guys live with each other for years before they decide to get married.. It's just a new fad that really blew up.. Pray on it and Don't Worry...Be Happy.. Congrat's and I hope you have a long a wonderful life with this man!!
2006-11-17 02:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried about that, perhaps you should not be getting married to him. Sounds like you are not ready. I would give it time to get yourself right so you can be sure if you want to get married, and if you want to marry him.
Good luck.
2006-11-17 09:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by Spellympics 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you worry about it? Are you doubting your bf? Do you think he wants you only for sex? That's an awful thought, Bonita.
2006-11-17 04:40:43 · answer #10 · answered by Jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will still love you!! he asked you to marry him because he loves you. he loves you and is probably looking forwards to your wedding as much as you are! don't worry, unless he's acting differently towards you to make you think that he's not in love with you. only then should you be worried. other than that, it is probably just pre-wedding nerves
good luck to you!!
2006-11-19 20:53:42 · answer #11 · answered by Duelen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋