2006-11-16 18:50:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you never COMPLETELY get rid of it but you OVERCOME it by FORCING yourself out of your thoughts and VERBALIZING with females.
Start NOW, practice a LOT and gradually proceed with prettier and more "popular" girls.
Google "conversational skills" and find a guide that makes sense to you. This is a SKILL that can be learned-so get to it.
2006-11-16 18:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in order to get rid of shyness, you have to make an effort to stop being shy. when you see a girl take the initiative to say hi, don't wait for her.
i know exactly where your coming from though. the main thing is to not let your shyness control you. it's all in your head. your not shy. I KNOW YOUR NOT. but you tell yourself you are. so therefore you probably act shy when your not. and actions speak louder then words. So stop thinking shy. think bold and outgoing. when you start thinking your not shy/quiet... yada yada... and you start thinking your BOLD, STRONG, outgoing... your actions will well... speak louder then words. you'll carry yourself with more pride, confidence, and positivity. and that's how you get rid of shyness. You can do it man, i know you can!
2006-11-17 03:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by secret ninja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly... relax. But dont relax toooo much, u wanna be smooth. Try getting up the courage to get that first gf and she will help u to open up, and u'll get to know her well. Pretty soon u'll have no problem talking to girls and they will just seem like regular people... that u can have a bit of fun with
2006-11-17 03:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by david edwards 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be shy, then people started making fun of me for being shy, so I naturally stopped being shy. Let's try it on you:
"Why are you so shy? You're a loser. None of the girls like you because you're fat, ugly, and you always smell your pencils for no reason."
That last part was me. I liked lead.
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Anyway, good luck, shy loser.
2006-11-17 02:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by Leroy Johnson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By talking to girls.
2006-11-17 02:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drink some beers. liquid courage
2006-11-17 02:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by Robbyz3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
askmen.com
2006-11-17 04:30:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋