I just found out my boyfriend that moved away to school is messing around with a PERFECT looking girl. She's so nice, and just plain gorgeous. I just found out b/c I checked his voicemail. (we have each others passwords) She called him baby, and said, I can't wait till you get off so I can **** the **** out of you. I broke down and I have been crying ever since. Should I tell him that I know? I dunno what to do. He usually calls me when he gets off work around 2:30 a.m. I know I've lost him. But...I love him so much. I'm so hurt b/c not only has he been looking at this girls gorgeous body, but they are calling each other baby? Why didn't he just tell me? HELP!
2006-11-16 19:07:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to get lost! plain and simple!
2006-11-16 19:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by IQ lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk because he had a great girl back at home. You are gorgeous too hun, dont think this girl has got anything more. Don't talk to him anymore. It will just make things worse. Unless you think that there is a misunderstanding and you need to talk to him about it, but don't let it drag on. Once you know for sure that he's cheated, it's time to move on. Sorry to hear, but some people just don't know what they've lost until it's gone. And you deserve better. Keep your head up!
2006-11-17 03:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by .:miss:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's an idiot. He's a jerk. Don't waist your time with him. There are so many other guys out there. He cheated on you which means he doesn't care about himself. He doesn't want to be with one person apparently. He wants play.
You don't deserve that no one does. Cheating isn't forgivable. Its just stupid and every excuse is stupid. Its not worth it, Read " he's just not that into you" its a great book. Girl he's not a great guy and how can that girl be nice if shes screwing around with your boyfriend, someone like that isn't nice and isn't pretty.
it doesn't matter. You are gorgeous, wonderful, smart, and a great person. There are so many guys out there god, so many like a million billion triliion.
Go get dolled up and party.
I know it sucks. Guys are lame and stupid. but read that book, you will feel better. and just know that this girl obviously isn't perfect. no one is and that fact that she is screwing around with your boyfriend proves that.
don't put yourself doen. shes not better than you. shes not.
i know you love him but hes not a nice guy. Cheating isn't forgivable. You don't deserve that. Be with someone who wants you to themself and who cares for you. Cheating isn't even a question when you love someone. When you love someone they don't think of anyone else and don't cheat.
I am so sorry sweetie. Smile. Be happy. You're better than both those fools. Just move on, it sucks but do it. Dye your hair, cut it, get a manicure, go shopping eat chocolate, ice cream, anything. Have fun be a girl make out with hotties. Or find another good guy and have a good faithful relationship.
Tell him you know and you wont tolerate it. hes such a stupid man. I could beat him up for you if you want, or just yell at him..heheehe..j/k
2006-11-17 03:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by tuskinini45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I was cheated on too, and I found out that he was cheating by his girlfriend telling me cause she didnt know that i was with him at the time. So, I know its hard and it really hurts right now and probably will for a while. And to answer your question, why didnt he just tell you? Either he doesnt know how to tell you cause he doesnt want to hurt you or hes being selfish and wants both of you and I'm sorry for saying that cause I know from my experience that thats hard to hear but thats what my ex said when I asked him why he didnt tell me, that he was being selfish. You can do a lot better than that, and you deserve a lot better than the way hes treated you. And I know its gonna be hard, but if you have to, try to forget about him. Good luck with everything.
2006-11-17 03:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by blue_daisy98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to lie to you: You should tell him you know and that you are breaking up with him. If he cheated on you, not only have you lost him, but he will most likely cheat again. Move on. You are so young and probably very pretty...there are more ideal guys out there for you!
2006-11-17 03:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by dreamer_1788 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure that he is feeling something for this 'gorgeous' girl then dump him and find someone else because cheating in a relationship is the worst thing that can happen in my opinion.
2006-11-17 03:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋