If you continue seeing her the husband may find out then you may be in for a world of touble. So You should break it off and not see her ever again. Also once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-11-17 06:29:38
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answered by Dyna 1
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First try to talk with her, find out why did she lie to you regarding her marital status. Maybe she fell in love with you and thought that she would loose you if you found out that she is not single, maybe she is just having fun - there are both possibilities but you will never find out what really is going on if you don't talk with her. In any case if you are not desperately in love with her and you think that you still have power to stop - then stop! because in any case this relation may end up with loads of problems for you, for her and her family.
Good Luck!
P.S. Remember one thing - life is too short - so just follow your heart ... but be ready to accept the consequences!
2006-11-16 17:35:23
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answered by Anonymous
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I would leave her. As ruthless as it sounds, you love her, but you invested time with someone who is unavailable in the sense of planning a future with you. The fact she lied to you about being married, regardless of whether she was in an "unhappy marriage" indicates that she could not be truthful with you and cannot be trusted. Would you want to continue to be with someone who you can never trust?
2006-11-16 17:56:33
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answered by Eve 2
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What would I do ? !!! Well; I would THANK her for showing me what a dumb idiot I was for assuming she was available. There are women like these around and they are plain, treacherous !!! I would be very ticked, to say the least bit. (How would you like to be her husband - married to the bi*ch?) She is playing with fire and one day she is going to get scorched ! There are guys out there, who would not allow her to get away with faking a romance and playing doubles. I feel sorry for you - you have your feelings and hopes for the future - trashed ! Proves that the male sex are not the only ******* at times !
2006-11-16 17:25:51
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answered by guraqt2me 7
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DUMP HER and never see her again. You do not want to break up a marriage. She is already doing that. I cannot imagine how much that hurt, but I would get away NOW and stay away forever. You don't want to stay mixed up in that because of she has lied to you she will continue to lie. Not a good basis for a relationship.
2006-11-16 17:17:04
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answered by snddupree 5
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Walk away and let her fix her life. But if you were to take her back after she ties the lose ends, just understand there will always be a trust issue with you two. It may be more than you want to deal with. Non the less, walk away from it and let her think long and hard about the mess she has made.
2006-11-16 17:16:48
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answered by ? 5
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Heave a sigh of relief that you found out. She is obviously not really the girl you thought she was. If she is willing to cheat on her current husband, then she would cheat on you, too. You're well rid of her.
2006-11-16 17:49:39
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answered by Kylie 3
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I'd probably get so pissed off, depressed and all, but I will move on. You know I have just thought about this stuff another day, and I think I probably go crazy when finding out. This just sucks!
But life goes on.
2006-11-16 17:16:00
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answered by Anonymous
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Well depends on the type of person you are i personally would enjoy it for what its worth sex and realize that if she does it with you she will do it to you so she isn't worth your time in a real relationship but if the sex is good why deprive yourself of it... I might also check into how big of a man she is married to and his mental stability
2006-11-16 17:18:00
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answered by Amy M 5
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Confront her & find out why she was dishonest. Maybe she lied because she wants out of the relationship but isn't sure how to get out & was affraid to tell you this. or maybe she is just one of those types who want to sample every once in a while? You'll never know until you ask her!!
2006-11-16 17:20:05
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answered by justaskme 3
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