Why does my wife feel it ok to speak out to me?

Question

Before we came here my wife shutup and did her duties... now she has seen videos and commercials and thinks she has power over ME! i dont want to be arrestes so bsides the obvious beatings what can i do to install fear in her heart????

Answer 1

Are you married or raising a pet?

Answer 2

HI-I am going to be point blank with you, OK. This is Canada and woman are not Chattel here. She has every right to talk and what your probably hearing is al those years or pent up hatred. This will subside eventually, use your head OK in jail you may die there because they hate woman beaters. OK now if you stop yelling and listen for a change she will eventually calm down and you can build a relationship on LOVE not OWNERSHIP> Don't hang up on me OK> I'm trying to help you and your wife. I'm Guessing but your from another country right or you have a different background. You really should step into reality and either leave your wife,SOON so you don't do something stupid. Or sit down and resolve this like adults. Here your ways are not accepted, She is HUMAN-FEMALE you are HUMAN_MALE nothing more nothing less--yet. Please stop and think! Good luck to you both-get some rest, think about what I said and the best to both of you.

Answer 3

I figure that you are from another country? God's law says that we should fear no one but him. I think that you should talk with her instead of thinking about beating or trying to control her. I agree that she should do her wifely duties but in no way should she shut up and fear you. If that is the way you want things then maybe you should consider going back to where you come from (but you'll probably be going alone!).

Answer 4

Women and men were created equally, and I don't care where the hell you came from and what your previous beliefs were. Trying to control a woman is just a way for the man to get what he wants. She has every right to speak to you about things that she is unhappy about. And if you beat her, I hope you get arrested!

Answer 5

Unlike others who may be getting hostile with you, I understand that different cultures and countries have different ideals about the power relationship between men and women.
Now in your new country and culture, women & men are equal & domestic abuse (which is hitting or any violence against wife/husband) is frowned upon & may be illegal. You need to sit down and talk out your issues and explain that in the new culture & country you are both equals and no-one has power over each other.

Answer 6

u can help her by speaking TO her instead of AT her and try helping with the chores. I would think an intellegent person like yourself would know you can't beat your wife. Besides, it won't help anyway. She is a human being, with thoughts and feelings, talk.

Answer 7

Get over it jack-a** this is 2006 we don't have duties! I hope someone slaps the sh** out of u for hitting her! What kind of Question is this FREAK? Let her meet me once-she will beat the **** out of u herself IDIOT! Fear is a powerful word and you should be ashamed of yourself PANSY!

Answer 8

You should seek therapy, and an English writing course, then move back to where ever the hell you came from where people think the way you do.

Answer 9

Seee..that's why they need to keep Illegal..ASSS Wholes..out of the county because for some reason they think Beating their wifes is okay. ! ...I think the first thing you need to do is Install fear in your asss.cause someday somones gonna kick it! !

Answer 10

You can go back to where your sorry, pathetic butt came from and leave your wife the hell alone. Remember freak, what comes around goes around.

Answer 11

you dork, I would love to come round and install some fear into your heart. hope she finds a real man and ***** off on you.