Newly single -- OK -divorced.
1. No one to yell at you when you get home late.
2 Don't have to pick up someone else's laundry.
3. Don't have to ask what they want for dinner.
4. Don't have to share the remote.
5. Don't have to buy them their favorites.
6. Don't have to explain yourself to anyone.
7. Don't have to fight for the blanket.
8. Won't run out of hot water.
9. Don't have to put up with a drunk obnoxious asshole.
and last, but not least...........
10. Freedom to do what you want (like chat on the 'puter all night) when you want, and how you want. Without getting accused of anything, by anyone.
2006-11-16 17:11:55
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answer #1
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answered by toobusytostress 2
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You can cook what you want without considering someone else.
You can sing in the shower and no one will hear you (unless your neighbors are really close).
You can be a slob, and you only have yourself to answer to.
You can get to know who you really are.
You can decorate as you like.
You can go out and come back whenever without worrying someone else.
You usually only have one family's holiday function to worry about (your own!).
You have tons more time.
And you have fewer arguments.
All of that said, you can still do a lot of the things I listed while in a relationship. Those were just the first things that came to mind.
BIG EDIT:
After reading some of the other answers, I think I'm changing mine.
If you feel like you aren't free in your relationship, get out. Relationships are NOT prison. If you allow yourself to be "trapped" in one, that's your own fault.
The best relationships are the ones that you can do almost everything you could when you were single.
I know that doesn't answer your question, but just enjoy being single if it's your current state. Make the most of your situation.
2006-11-17 01:09:09
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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1. Peaceful quiet home.
2. Freedom from the ties of a relationship, it can be confining.
3. A whole life to explore without answering to anyone, go travel.
4. Don't have fight over the remote control, watch what you want.
5. No extra bills from the other person, or adding to your bills.
6. Extra money to spend as you please, enjoy it, buy something.
7. Unlimited access to people in the dating scene whenever.
8. Less headache's no one will be cheating on you.
9. Stay up late, call your friends, go on-line, whatever, it's only u.
10. No one there to change or mold you into what they want.
2006-11-17 01:32:35
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answered by Martini Babee 4
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Here is the only two you need.
1. You can do anything you want at anytime, anywhere, with anyone and not have worry about breaking the perverbial heart.
2. When you get MARRIED and have a nagging WIFE on your azz, then you wish you had paid attention to #1 a little bit better.
Dont ponder on what you might not have, you still have youth and FREEDOM!! Let time take its course and in the end it will turn out OK youll see.
2006-11-17 01:15:03
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answered by Sinister Minister 3
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1. You can date as many people as you want.
2. You don't have to look your best at any time.
3. No arguments.
4. No worrying about the "next step".
5. Freedom.
6. No worry about cheating or dishonesty.
7. Doing whatever you want, whenever you want.
8. Being independent.
9. Choosing what movie you want to see.
10. The bed is all to yourself.
2006-11-17 01:10:11
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answered by two_kee_kees 4
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1. You never have to have sex when you don't want to have sex.
2. You never have to fight anybody for the remote.
3. You never have to consider another person when making decisions such as where to live, what to listen to, or how many pets to have.
4. You never have to worry about losing half your assets if you divorce.
5. You never have to nag anybody.
6. You're never nagged by anybody.
7. You never have to look back wistfully on "the good old days, when I was single."
8. You'll never be on COPS for a domestic fight.
9. You can leave the toilet seat any dang way you want it.
10. You never have to worry about your partner leaving you.
2006-11-17 01:12:31
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answered by Anonymous
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For a man...
1. You dont have to put the toilet seat down.
2. You dont have to tell her if her butt looks to big in that outfit.
3. You dont have to reassure her 50x a day that you love her.
4. You dont have to wait for 30 mins for her to select from 50 black pairs of shoes for her to find the right black pair.
5. You can sit around in your undies all day eating sloppy joes and no one cares.
For a woman.
1. You dont have to worry about landing on the cold rim of the toilet in the middle of the night.
2. Your house is tidy, and stays that way.
3. You dont have a man who thinks he knows how to fix the TV, only costing you more when a real repair man has to fix his mistakes.
4. You know that there is 30 different shades of black and those black shoes will not go with that black dress.
5. You have full control of the remote control for the TV
2006-11-17 01:16:30
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answered by Anastasia 5
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I love being single! I went with my sis and her husband this weekend, he drove, I said,"Hey let's stop for coffee". He said "No, I don't want to stop, and I don't want any coffee". That says it all. I stop for coffee anytime I want. No one can ever tell me what to do, or how to do it. that's 2. then you never have to worry about money issues. you either have it or you don't. no worries about someone else spending your money, or having to depend on a husband for money. It's cheap at Christmas. You can choose to date or not. You can cook dinner or not no one cares. No need to shave your legs. No arguing, who's gonna yell back, the cat? Total freedom. Freedom to do as you please. Go where you want, watch TV the way you want, clean the house or not, decorate the way you want. I can go on and on. There a some drawbacks too. I am totally responsible for every penny of the cost of living. No one to warm up the car in the winter. No one to help carry in the groceries. No sex. (but I keep an ex for that!)
2006-11-17 01:20:45
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answered by Anonymous
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1.No one questions you were you've been coming in the door at five in the morning.
2.When you put something down,it's there when you go back to it.
3.You can be as clean or as dirty as you like.
4.What's in your refrigerator,stays your until you throw it out.
5.You can sleep in your bed anyway you want without knocking anyone out of it unless you invite someone to sleep over.
6.If you break up with someone,you don't have to pack your stuff in garage bags.
7.You are your own boss of the house.
8.If you have pets,there's no one to tell you"either they go or i do".
9.Pride in knowing that you can live on your own terms.
10.No one Else's underwear hanging in the bathroom.
11.Only you choose when to throw a party.
12.You can walk around the house\apartment nude if you want.
13.No one bugs you about eating cookies in bed.
14.No ones feeling get hurt when you watch porn.
15.No honey do list to screw up your weekend.
16.You don't have to hide your blow up doll(LOL).
2006-11-17 01:26:47
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answered by master_der_man 6
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1.You can go out by yourself without spending too much.
2. You can go out anywhere without someone worrying that your cheating.
3. You can stay up late without anybody pressuring you not to stay up late.
4. No one will be jealous
5. Freedom
6.You can act whatever mood you feel like without anybody complaining to you.
7. You can flirt with your crush.
8. You can pig out without anybody complaining about your weight.
9. You don't have to worry where your boyfriend/girlfriend is when he/she is not texting.
10. You don't have to impress anybody.
2006-11-17 01:29:56
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answered by Erica Joyce 2
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