I'm confuse because my bf has this attitude and i don't know if i have to tell him because some say that if you want something i should say it straight because guys are not mind readers but if i don't want to soud demanding. Like in this case, i want him to reply with my text messages..doesn't matter if it's late as long as he reply coz i know that he can get my message. He is usually like this when he's mad..(he told me he's not in the mood to talk when he's mad) which i understand. But in case of like i just want to know if he's home coz i get worried if doesn' reply.
how should i tell him?
2006-11-16 16:10:48 · 7 answers · asked by cr5zy_gir7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*** just like u said it here...that u worry if he doesn't reply....and that u don't mind if he can't answer right off the bat...just so long as he replies.
2006-11-16 16:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by meme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take this as being harsh. just honest. We are not like women in the way that we show emotion. That's what make women so great.
To him he is home and he is doing great. Just wants some alone time, no phones, computers or anything else, maybe just some television to relase some steam.
Just don't make the txt a big headache, it's a good way to lose your bf.
2006-11-16 16:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by kinev2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys, for the most part are terrible communicators. If he's mad, he may not want to talk with you in case he directs his anger toward you. Guys are very spontaneous and get involved with what is happening at the moment. Don't smother him with your worry. Leave your worrying for when you become a mother-then it is totally justified.
2006-11-16 16:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by andrachuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him, if he is mad give him some time to cool off before sending him anything. Otherwise its just going to frustrate him more. But wait for a time when you two are not upset and tell him honestly how you feel about it, he is more likely to listen to what you have to say more when he isn't angry.
-NmD!
2006-11-16 16:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should send him a text message saying could you please answer my text messages, it hurts my feelings when you dont. And then you could also call him unless hes mad and doesnt want to talk. maybe you should ask him why hes mad all the time.
2006-11-16 16:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by t dawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be straightforward with him and give him the reasons why you want him to reply. its the only thing you can do.
2006-11-16 16:16:19 · answer #6 · answered by elusive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him but when you do always use the "I" words. such as i feel degraded when you talk to me like that. im not sure but always use " I " words when you address him.
2006-11-16 16:15:55 · answer #7 · answered by kameo_44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋