2006-11-16 16:45:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
babe, look, if she wont stay with you i will date you cause it is so hard to find a man who wants to keep his dick in his pants....stay faithful to your beliefs and dont come on the internet as reassurance for something silly like that...you know better with your heart, stay the damn course, i'm available if the wench leave alright.........i'm behind you all the damn way, and yes it's tough, you wont find alot of women who will stay jus as i wont if i date anyone who wants to have sex sooner than i wanna give it up so....all of us who choose celibacy aren't in the most popular light but boy does it pay off....i wish you the utmost of luck my dear...stay the course!
2006-11-16 16:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by misschopstickz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not at all silly. God made sex to be enjoyed within the bounds of marriage , and for many good reasons; when you are married, you have a bond and making love with each other draws you closer. outside of marriage, every time you do this you give a part of your heart away. you can contract STDs. it hurts you and your partner. Don't ever do that. Plus, true love WAITS.
I assure you, you will never regret waiting, and neither will she.
It shows you really love and care for her, and that you truly respect her.
In the Bible it says '' do not let their be even a hint of sexual immorality among you''. you are right to wait.
2006-11-17 01:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by nika.turc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the most smartest thing. its not about respect its about keeping it as something special that you wish to share with her when the timing is right. She will always respect you for making that choice. If she cannot wait then she does not deserve you.
Both of you can have yourselves tested before the deed takes place and live happily ever after knowing you will have LONG lives to live. In todays day the statistics are pretty scary with how many people are infected with STD's that can even be spread only by contact even...and needless to say people are not becoming wiser but more stupid/and vain when it comes to the act of love. Its no longer viewed by society as sacred and shared as love......people who do not think as wise you , are the ones who pay the consequences with hiv/and a variety of std's they have to live with the rest of their lives, plus infect other innocent partners unknowingly.
Kudos to you ....and be proud!!!!! you are a respectable person just by using such good judgement. keep thinking that way and you will mark history and make a difference to many people not just the girl you love (let her read this!)
Goodluck!!!!best wishes
2006-11-17 01:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, that shows the UTMOST RESPECT for a girl and shows her you want her for her and not her body. The other benefits are you do not have to worry about guilt, pregnancy, loss of self-esteem, and the emotional damage that can and does occur when you have sex outside of marriage.
Good for the both of you! Keep it up! You will be more than glad you saved yourselves for marriage. Trust me on that.
2006-11-17 01:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not silly at all. Rather mature and respectful, actually.
2006-11-17 00:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by Erika S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No thats not silly at all
2006-11-17 00:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by blood_shadow_walks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no whats silly about it. i wish more guys were like you. but i think its sweet. have you told her all this because i would bet it would impress her.
2006-11-17 00:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by kameo_44 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, it is respect.
2006-11-17 00:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she's cool with it.
2006-11-17 01:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by ttjakt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it if she wants to...but...if you feel she is getting aroused man...believe me....you better screw her before she screws someone else...and besides it would be making love and it's not disrespectful.
2006-11-17 00:50:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋