hes 4 years older than me and he sits by me in the lunch room and asks things like "do u got a bf." and "wanna hang out." i dont know if he is just playing a round or being seirous!!
plz help me im so confused!!!
2006-11-16 16:49:33 · 17 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way i am 14
2006-11-16 16:59:32 · update #1
Sounds like he's trying to get to know you, just take it slow and be careful. Older guys know how to sweet talk young girls. Don't do anything your not comfortable doing or anything you don't want to do. Some guys (and girls) are just looking for one thing, then their threw with you.
2006-11-16 16:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by Just Me 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does he know that he is four years older than you?
well im not sure what is that age difference.. over 18 under 18 but well if its in age between 16 - 21 he might just found you atractive in a way and since he doesn't know you he just starts with "do you have boyfriend" so he knows on what level to talk either try to get u know and possibly ask you or just keep as friends and not even go for relationship flirting. Im sure hes being serious but he needs facts like are you avaliable or taken so he can either move on or back up.
2006-11-16 16:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by ed 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello Confused-Ya life Eh! Oops now everyone knows I'm Canadian. If your worried about the 4yr. diff. well you are even nicer than he deserves. Most worry more about a guys wallet and big cars than age these days. Really quite refreshing, The big thing is that you are sure he will treat you with Loving care and that you will be safe with him. Ask others if you don't know him that well. Life is full of risks but if one doesn't live on the edge your taking up to much room. In short form if your uncomfortable with it -RUN. If not GO GIRL! Be Safe.
2006-11-16 17:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
wellllll that depends. i would need more info. i could prolly figure out what is going on. lol. i ahd a similar situation with my current boyfriend. i am a freshman and he is a senior. we have been dating for about a month and a half and he is wonderful. don't worry about the age difference and him 'expecting more' not all of them do. his age difference just makes him smarter and more with the program and understanding FAR more mature than the freshman guys at my school. makes them look a bit pathetic really. lol. with this kind of thing i would need plenty of detail on the way he asks and what he seems to be thinking if u look right at his eyes. that kind of thing. are u considering him? what do u want to convey to him? do u want to date him or just want to stay friends? what do other people that see him actually around u think about it?
2006-11-16 16:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by i.WoNt.SaY.iT. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how old you are and if you are mature enough. I was 14 when me and my bf started going out. He was 18. It's been 7 yrs now and we are still together!! So, you never know. They do say that girls are more mature than guys the same age, but it depends on the individual.
Use your BRAINS!!!!! Don't put out.
2006-11-16 16:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
DOnt' know how old you are. If you are 14, that makes him 18. That's statutory rape.
2006-11-16 16:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by deepvioletfire 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you are getting confused by simple questions like that then you are too young for him.
2006-11-16 16:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 14 and he is 18....your WAY too young for him. you should be busy thinking about barbie dolls not dating.
2006-11-16 17:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by mich_teddybear 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
when he sits on u wink and say bathroom 5 minutes be there and dont go and watch him cry like a pussy
2006-11-16 16:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by pooh_female 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I donna noow What you do? what do you feel , like you should do after all It's all about you.
2006-11-16 16:54:25 · answer #10 · answered by lytesdelite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋