I was with a guy for over 3 and a half years, and he broke up with me 4 or 5 months ago. I still love him as much as I did when we first got together. How do I just let go of that and move on?
2006-11-16 16:51:22 · 8 answers · asked by Rita 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
time really is the only solution..........ive had breakups not wanted and only after time has the pain and desire mitigated.........hang in there..........great people will come into ur life and u'll find better.
2006-11-16 17:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by blkhawk51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for a simple solution you wont find one. The only thing that can honestly heal a broken heart is time. You can date other people and find some one to replace him but none of that will work. You just have to live your life and let time heal your broken heart. I am not saying dont date or dont give some one else a chance, I am just saying not to use that in order to forget someone you love. When you love some one as you seem to love this man, you cant forget them. But you can live without them and you can remember them and not hurt. But again it takes time. So be strong and let time do what it does best.
2006-11-17 01:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by Livin the life.. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats how my mom is she pretty much divorced my dad 4 years ago, they were married for 25 years, and she still isn't over it. You just got to put the past behind you because if you dwell on it, it will mess up your future and you may miss out on other guys.
2006-11-17 01:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me you have no choice but to accept it. Get on with your life. Quit holding on to what was and get busy living. Find out who you are as an individual. Try new things or get out with some friends. HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!
2006-11-17 01:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by andrachuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your mind, it's not over. That's the mistake. Admit that's it over. That starts the healing process.
2006-11-17 01:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by ttjakt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
focus your attention on other things..let go of the feelings and accept the fact that maybe you are not meant for each other..
2006-11-17 01:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by '-baby_koh'- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD JUST FIND A HOBBY. IS THERE SOMEONE THAT YOU MIGHT BE INTERESTED IN. THERE ARE LOTS OF THINGS YOU COULD DO TO GET YOUR MIND OFF HIM. JUST THINK OF SOMETHING THAT MIGHT INTEREST YOU. GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-17 01:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by sherryw_1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what people call as "LIFE" u have keep on moving...
2006-11-17 00:58:24 · answer #8 · answered by Kiven 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋