Are bad girls that attractive that average girls like me always end up with the not so good guys? Or is it that men are just attracted to bad girls since it's like a big blast of adrenaline to them?
2006-11-16 16:44:24 · 17 answers · asked by Callie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not that. You have to remember to think like a guy. It isn't what you are or aren't doing right. To them it is "where is the sure thing". For example, you take a gorgeous model and a biker chick, the looks belong to the model, but the sure thing resides in the biker chick. I am not saying that all biker chicks are easy, just maybe easier than those who think everyone should look at them. Bad girls will tend to stand up for their man before a preppy girl will attempt to break a nail. Image is also a factor. A bad girl isnt looking for a knight in shining armor, whereas the model will compare every man she knows with one thing. "Who has more money they can spend on me and let them actually think I am pleased?" So in retrospect the good girls are actually bad girls and vice versa. Who you think are the bad girls, can turn out to be your best friend because to them you have nothing to prove and they tend to take you at face value.
You would be suprised at how they might be able to help your cause. Trust me dear, I would take a beer swilling, football watching little biker girl over some primp happy cindy crawford wannabe any day. Not for the adrenaline rush, but because to her, I am equal and not subject to comparison. In ten years take a long hard look at your prom queen and your cheerleading captain, hard and broken and probably an alcoholic, youll know why men turn to the Bad Girls. They will always be there to fight the fight. the choice of who you want to be with and who wants to be with you has to be mutual regardless of social standing.
Try your life both ways and see what turns up.
2006-11-16 17:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say understand, you shouldn't become a foul *** to get what you need, frequently when you consider that, finally it can be gonna exhibit that that is not who you relatively are which won't improvement you if you wish to have a real relationship, now in case you just wanna have a bit of fun it might help but, I nonetheless don't advise it. Take it from me, be proud of being a good man, these women that you simply had been concerned with will find out quickly enough that selecting a nasty guy over a excellent man ain't all it can be cracked up to be, these are the ones who traditionally get made a baby mama stuck with a dead beat dad, or repeatedly cheated on dieing to have a good guys shoulder to cry on:)
2016-08-09 22:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why they do the same either. Perhaps we should both start being bad girls, then maybe we succeed in getting a good one. I am kidding about that, but you are right it is the adrenaline rush, I think. Some men like their woman dominant and aggressive. Some of just don't cut it!
2006-11-16 16:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
good point let me know when you find the answer thats very true.
I think maybe the hot men like how the hot girls dress and look very slinky and show a lot of skin.
Some of them have hot bodies and they know that will sell and they use it to there advantage cause they know there insides aren't to good they either use men or take them for money or for status or what ever there looking for at the time. and then throw them away when someone hotter comes along. its all about them and getting what they want there not too much on morals and caring about others there more into themselves. and alot of them know there attitudes are bad so they work on what they have got to catch the hot guys eyes. and the hot guys fall for it every time.
2006-11-16 16:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its the same reason women are attracted to azzholes and bad guys instead of a good guy like me. They are insane and would rather be treated like garbage instead of being treated with class and respect like a woman should. (in your case guys .lol)
if you ever wanna chat email me. Maybe we can figure why some men and women or insane..hahaha.. they again maybe we will never know.
And its not true that all good guys like bad girls.. i'm a good guy and I just wanna meet someone who likes me for me.. i mean I tohught I found that once they they just use me.
2006-11-16 16:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they go for the bad ones than you don't need them anyway. Average girls are the best and make the best soulmates. Beauty wins the eye but personality wins the heart of good men.
2006-11-16 16:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Bad girls are easier to talk to for men. You may have to approach a guy you like instead of settling for the ones you are getting. It is hard to approach a woman if you are not confident she may like what you have to offer. The bad ones may have lower expectations and the guys they are with may not be all that.
Mikeypio
2006-11-16 16:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by mikeypio 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think guys only want bad girls because they think that the bad girls are easy and they think that they can get in the bad girls pants faster then average girls.
2006-11-16 17:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by kissinyou07 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not so sure about this assumption. Usually I see it the other way around. However I have seen some guys who like a more edgy kind of girl.
2006-11-16 16:56:55 · answer #9 · answered by TravisButtaz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand this question at all. If you were Brad Pitt, wouldn't go aim for the hottest woman you can find . . . . because you yourself are hot enough to get her?
And define bad girls. Do you mean women who are too shallow to realize they are being used?
Too much vagueness here. I'm confused.
2006-11-16 16:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋