say if it was just bad timing or you two were too young,do you still have a special place in ur heart for your first g/f /relationship(and or kiss if ur first kiss was with ur g/f and meaningful).Would you give her a 2nd chance?And even if things ended badly(same questions). shy guys answers even better since my ex is shy/not too confident.
2006-11-16 16:55:14 · 3 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex and I went out last winter break.I was his first g/f at 21.he's a comp nerd and loves anime/fantasy.He doesn't have a whole lot of confidence in himself but I still have feelings 4 him.when we went out I had just gotten out of a bad relationship.I'm hoping we get a 2nd chance.he said he saw I was too attached 2 him 1 night.It wasn't the right time,my emotions were all over the place cuz of the situation.
2006-11-16 16:58:00 · update #1
I wouldn't give it another chance. It didn't work out for a reason and people don't change that much. They are who they are basically and we tend to romanticize previous relationships over time.
2006-11-16 17:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reserve a 'special place' for two past girlfriends in particular, both which have 'bad timing' and 'too young' all over them...
Like all advice, there's advice that promotes both sides.
Negative - There is a reason why she's your ex-girlfriend and they are really good ones. Bad ending to relationships don't lend themselves to resurrection at a later date, and all depend on whether it was misunderstanding or genuinely hurtful.
Positive - It could be that enough time has passed to improve/mature one or both of you. It could be that you are now 'right' for each other, though it may require dealing with any past 'baggage'.
As a master of 'bad timing', my suggestion is to work out (quickly) if there is anything worth working or waiting for. You can't go back in time, and the decisions of the past make you who you are today. However, you can certainly lay the foundations for a future...
2006-11-16 18:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by keltarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never had a girlfriend because I'm a homosexual! I don't understand what guys see in girls. As you can imagine though, I've had several close girl friends, and yes, I have a special place in my heard for all of them, particularly the first one who found out I was gay!
2006-11-16 17:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by DustInCarroll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋