Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

everything for guys once they show a bit of emotion towards her like dinner, plane tickets, little gifts and shes gotton nothing from any of these guys but 1 lunch date so their pretty much just using her, since shes also givin it up in the sack also and shes not even dating these guys. She totally flipped the story around and said that it's not right that my b/f buys things for me...as in dinner, movie, weekend vacations, and so...she said men shouldn't buy things for girls and its not te 50's. What do you think and who do you think is making more sense??

2006-11-03 18:47:52 · 10 answers · asked by JA+JH 2 in Singles & Dating

Soo, I'm dating this guy who is really cool and sweet to me but he is 23 and I'm 17 years old. Do you think that's too much of an age gap??
And there's this guy I like and he's awesome. But he's 20...is that too much too??
One more thing. Don't tell me about being illegal and all that **** because I honestly do not care if it is illegal and neither does my mom. She's cool with my boyfriend's age.

2006-11-03 18:45:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so, my bf found out one of my friends likes me and he is mad at him cuz he knows i have a bf. so he talked to him and the guy still likes me. if i invite him to my bday party, my bf might blow up at him there, and i dont want them to hate each other. they never see each other cuz they go to different schools, but stil!!! Help please!!! (only good and thoughtful answers please)

2006-11-03 18:44:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 18:43:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you saw an elite gymnast and she was 5'1 and like 95lb in a bikini at a private pool and it'sonly you and her.what would you do??

2006-11-03 18:41:23 · 17 answers · asked by avatar 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have a good sex life.. we have sex almost everyday and sometimes more than once a day... I'm 19, he's 22. When we drink together, my inhibitions lower and I like to dance around sexy, like on his lap, etc. The problem is, he acts like he's completely not interested in my dancing. We've been together for four years, married almost one... what gives? Why doesn't he find me sexy when I dance for him?

2006-11-03 18:41:18 · 12 answers · asked by Nicole 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-03 18:39:53 · 13 answers · asked by Hacker 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 34 white male dating a 57 year old white male. I call him 'dad' sometimes, and he calls me 'junior'. We both feel that it is no different than Batman and Robin.

Are you in an age, gender, or race controversial relationship(?), and how do you feel about it??

2006-11-03 18:38:29 · 11 answers · asked by happy g 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a Daughter,I love her with all my Heart,but she dont have any time for me,my Stepdaughter loves me,she allways takes time for me,what can I do,I like all them to be happy

2006-11-03 18:36:25 · 13 answers · asked by karl s 3 in Family

Is this a sign of their significance in your past or something lacking in the present?

2006-11-03 18:35:47 · 5 answers · asked by Huguenot 5 in Family

for my aids??????

2006-11-03 18:35:23 · 3 answers · asked by 571234 6 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am currently talking to this guy who is a christian and he is wonderful. We are shy when we get on the phone, so shy that we spend the whole time listening to each other basically breathe because we are certainly not talking to one another. We don't talk to one another because we had nothing to talk about.

2006-11-03 18:35:22 · 18 answers · asked by Diamond 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on this really hot cutie..i think he kind of likes me too, but I don't know how I'm gonna find it surely. I really like to kiss him!!!!

2006-11-03 18:33:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have found people i like but theres always something that block us from going out, this has happened with 5 different girls now, the other day i realized i'm in a depression and i even thought of suicide for a way to get away from the pain always in me, and all i want is to have someone to care for and someone that would care for me, but i'm beginning to think i'll never get there what should i do?

2006-11-03 18:33:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do so many people think that teens in school shouldn't think about dating but concentrate on work? Shouldn't these be our happy years of our lives? I mean I'm not thinking about dropping out or anything like that, but I mean really...

2006-11-03 18:33:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she 14, 5'1 and weighs 82lbs. what can I do to help her. I don't wanna see her hospitalized. I need answers. her coach and friends tell her to loose weight. how can i help?? What she lays down you can see her hip bones and some rib and shoulder blades. What can I do??

2006-11-03 18:33:19 · 7 answers · asked by avatar 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 57, F, 34 yr marriage to an incredible guy. We have 2 grown kids who are doing well, are getting ready to retire to our shore house, and i have a job i love. But i have a terrible crush (at my age!) on my 60yr old cousin. He lives far away, but i think of him every day and want to be with him. I love my husband. WHAT IS MY PROBLEM??? Why am I obsessed with being with my cousin? His younger sister was my best friend until i was 6 and we moved, and his mom was like a second mom to me, so it feels even weirder to me that i want him. Any ideas?

2006-11-03 18:31:28 · 26 answers · asked by glitter4me123 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hello guys....
One day, her friend invited me to her party and at that party, I saw dis girl and talked to her! That was my first time talking to her!..

Then, around a month ago, I happened to get her cellphone number from her best friend and started to text message wif her!

1) I told her that I might give her a phone call and she said "U can call me anytime u want .... "

2) I told her that I might give her a treat and she said "Mayb I'll come ...with a presence of a third person!"

3) I sent her my self-typed poems and she'll tell that they are sweet and my future-GF is lucky to have a poet like me ...

4) She keep asking me about those gals who admired me ..... like how they are doing and etc....

5) At school, her best friend and some other friends of hers would keep yelling her name when they saw me .... while dat gurl would be shy!

6) She once told dat im a NICE GUY!

Are there any chance for her in LIKING me?.....

Hoping for ur replies!....Thank you! =)

2006-11-03 18:31:02 · 13 answers · asked by SpoonHead 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I was engaged to a man 15 years ago. He left me while pregnant with his child and married another woman. I still love him although we have no contact I still keep tabs on him. I just need to know he is doing ok, which he is. He is, however miserable in his relationship and has told many people he only married this woman because he couldn't have 'who he wanted' whom I assume is me. I dont WANT him back as I have moved on in that respect but why do I still dream of him and think about him? Why do I still care? How can I stop?!!

2006-11-03 18:29:45 · 14 answers · asked by luscious_tori 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why would my guy tell me that I'm not ready for him to love me yet b/c he loves hard. And then turn around and email me at different times of the week that he loves me??? What the heck is he doing?

2006-11-03 18:28:43 · 13 answers · asked by precious girl 1 in Singles & Dating

sorry.. i don't mean insult, i mean we are the eastern pple wonder : if westen woman can make sex with any man she likes without marriage , so what is the difference between her and the whore , i mean the two make sex out of legal relationship ( marriage) , the only difference is the first one hav'nt take money and the second take it!!

2006-11-03 18:28:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl in my street that I kind of like her and wanna date her. I just think it would not be coolor hot for me to be dating a girl in my street, what do you girls and guys think of?

2006-11-03 18:28:37 · 5 answers · asked by fine boy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 18:28:27 · 12 answers · asked by mellygirl 2 in Weddings

My brother is 17 and likes a 19 year old gal who likes him as well. Do you think it is weird/wrong that they like eachother and what about if they went out?

2006-11-03 18:26:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it is 9:30 i am in south africa , i am leaving to go to a carshow ,enjoy your day.

2006-11-03 18:25:43 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

with me but that he had some kind of love for me. well after that he would tell me "much love" before we would get off the phone and stuff like that instead of i love you. well i would never really tell him it unless he would say it first. well one day i was texting him and we were talking and after we were telling byes i told him much love and he didnt say it back. i texted him and asked him why and he told me im tired and sends me a picture of himself laying asleep. why couldnt he just say much love back if he could do all that? do you think that he has lost interest or what?? what should i do?

2006-11-03 18:25:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where do i find a good man???? 2 1/2 years of separation and i've focused on growing as a person, working 5 days a week, study 2 nights a week, raise my two beautiful children and have no idea where to meet a man!!!!
I'm told i'm sweet, attractive, funny, happy in myself and my life in general and have the wrong men chase me that i have no feelings for and wouldn't even try to date cause their best friends and not to mention my ex father in law.....talk about a creepy situation!! Aahh!!!!! scary.....
My sister suggested at work but i work in home and community care.....that means a lot of the clients i deal with are 80 and 90!!
When will i ever find a good bloke again!??!?
Do i trip one over? Run one down with a supermarket trolly??Join the lonley hearts ads at 22??
No! Give me some better ideas!
Even though fate will make it happen when it's a good time...Entertain me with some ideas anyway!

2006-11-03 18:24:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents divorced when i was 12.Growing up..she told me on atleast 2 occasion that she wished they'd never adopted me. Made very rude comments about my dress on my graduation day. Tried to convince me that my dad had been"innapropriate" with me. And bad mouthed him after he died of cancer. She even attended the funeral and cried and was upset. I dont know if it was an act or not. I really dont feel anything for her, I just want her to leave me alone and have told her this.. She just wont. I dont want to e hatefull to her, but how do i get my point across?

2006-11-03 18:22:22 · 15 answers · asked by Hunnybunny00 2 in Family

The old kissing the neck and rubbing isn't doing the trick anymore...
he doesnt really like new things but what can I say or do to get him in the mood tonight? We are getting ready to go to bed I need something!

2006-11-03 18:21:21 · 12 answers · asked by kerra c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a friend of mine who had a cruch on me,and i liked him too.asked me to marry him and go with him the night before his wedding.he asked me if i wanted her to be his wife or for me to be with him.i was shocked.and of course told him to go on with his plans.crazy isnt it.

2006-11-03 18:20:36 · 12 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce