she 14, 5'1 and weighs 82lbs. what can I do to help her. I don't wanna see her hospitalized. I need answers. her coach and friends tell her to loose weight. how can i help?? What she lays down you can see her hip bones and some rib and shoulder blades. What can I do??
2006-11-03 18:33:19 · 7 answers · asked by avatar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we go out to dinner every weekend but i don't know what else to do.
2006-11-03 18:37:15 · update #1
She doesn't exactly have an eating disorder she will skip one meal and eat the next. She also doesn't get her period anymore. Is it only temp??
2006-11-03 18:44:37 · update #2
Feed her
2006-11-03 18:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how beautiful you think it would be to see her love herself, and take care of herself. Also let her know that you would still (if not more) find her attractive if she gained some weight. Take her to a nice dinner..or maybe even cook her a nice meal to make eating a possibly pleasant thing..?
If it gets worse you should definitely seek help, bc the lo0nger this goes on the harder it will be to break the habit.
2006-11-04 02:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by shlay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people are telliugn her to lose weight? well she doesnt have a problem unless shes throwing up after she eats (bulimia) or she starves herself which turns into (anorexia). if you notice theese things. how to figure it out if shes depressed. she could just be naturally thin. she hasnt really gorwn in her hips and boobs yet since shes still 14.
but according to this BMI calculation she is underweight
http://apps.nccd.cdc.gov/dnpabmi/Result.aspx?&dob=11/3/1992&dom=11/3/2006&age=168&ht=61&wt=82&gender=2&method=0&inchtext=0&wttext=0
tell her not to listen to her friends and coaches to loose weight since she is already UNDERWIGHT! talk to her parents also about this since it is concerning you. i would be concerned too. but all depends if she has an eating disorder or not. talk to her mom to go see a nutritionist to she how she can gain weight in a healthy way .
good luck!
2006-11-04 02:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't every talk about girls being really skinny or touch her stomach during sex. It will make her feel fat. Take her out to eat and invite her to your house for dinner. Good Luck!!
2006-11-04 10:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to her friends and teacher and tell them she not going to a right time and if they could keep their comments to them self and talk to her about why she dosent want to eat,try to make her have a good time when your together,and if she dosen't want to talk about this don't force it out let it be until she tells you.
2006-11-04 02:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by `~*sheila *~` 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS ANOREXIC OR BULIMIC, THIS IS A COMPLEX SELF-IMAGE PROBLEM AND SHE NEEDS PROFESSIONAL HELP. DR. PHIL HAS AN UPCOMING SEGMENT ON TV COVERING JUST THIS. HAVE THE TWO OF YOU WATCH THIS UPCOMING EPISODE TOGETHER.
2006-11-04 02:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Albert, DDS, (USA) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her parents to declare mentally imcompetent, and book her into a psych clinic.
aneroxia is a mental condition, they can fix it, but its not gunna be pretty.
2006-11-04 02:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by deaity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋