Where do i find a good man???? 2 1/2 years of separation and i've focused on growing as a person, working 5 days a week, study 2 nights a week, raise my two beautiful children and have no idea where to meet a man!!!!
I'm told i'm sweet, attractive, funny, happy in myself and my life in general and have the wrong men chase me that i have no feelings for and wouldn't even try to date cause their best friends and not to mention my ex father in law.....talk about a creepy situation!! Aahh!!!!! scary.....
My sister suggested at work but i work in home and community care.....that means a lot of the clients i deal with are 80 and 90!!
When will i ever find a good bloke again!??!?
Do i trip one over? Run one down with a supermarket trolly??Join the lonley hearts ads at 22??
No! Give me some better ideas!
Even though fate will make it happen when it's a good time...Entertain me with some ideas anyway!
2006-11-03 18:24:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes...what is the world coming to when your ex father in law tries to chase you.....It's a very strange sitaution and i moved state! As for not telling people about my children, no that is a terrible thing. My children are beautiful and are part of me! I am very proud of them cause they are growing into amazing little people with strong personalities, are happy and enlighten life for everyone around them. Who cares if a man gets scared off cause of a woman with children. It shows he's not the right person! As for people i study with, i am great friends with them and one in particular would like more but there is no attraction on my behalf. That is the greatest feeling about falling in love, the spark you feel! As for good ones being married, they were once single, there's got to be more! There is hope yet!
2006-11-03 18:45:48 · update #1
When you finally become relax in your own skin- stop looking for someone to fulfill you- stop spending that time focusing on what COULD be- but what IS....that is when you are truly living. When you are living and happy- you draw people to you.
It's not FATE - but a FACT- that when you STOP LOOKING- it finds you.
ADDED: It must be Friday- the married family ladies are inbed - fast asleep/ the single ones out living are ...out living. The bitter Bettys post "guys are dogs"..... I happened to have a night out- which is why I am up now.
2006-11-03 18:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you study 2 nights a week, so I assume you attend some sort of college or university. Try looking for guys there, if you are attractive and do well in school I'm sure you'll impress more than a few of them. Just don't let them know about your kids for a couple dates then when you feel comfortable tell them because it could really turn a few guys away that wouldn't if they had the chance to build a relationship with you.
2006-11-03 18:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take up cycling. women riders are rare...especially cute ones. guys that ride love to see good looking women on bikes and usually aren't shy about it. if you have some problems with your bike you won't have any trouble finding a guy to help you fix it. and after a ride is a good time for a frosty brew and conversation. try going into a local bike shop and see what reaction you get from the guys that work there.
2006-11-03 18:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by Chuck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have 3 cats and 3 dogs. Why you may ask? because -generally speaking, people are full of poop. Those online ads.....well...made me wonder if I am that hard up. NOPE!!!! NOW-the more interesting people that I have met: Walmart on Saturdays, grocery store on Sunday, City park after 5 pm during the week.
2006-11-03 18:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have met a couple of goo guys although most of them are married. They are still around everywhere. Just be more socialable and keep your eyes open
2006-11-03 18:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by Yuki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex Father-in-law. . .*what is this world coming to*
Sorry sweety. . . but I hear all the good men are married!
Not to fear though. . .you are young and have many good years yet to lure in a good man. They are out there and can probably be found without looking. Just let your brain steer your heart, to pick the man of your dreams.
Good Luck. . .
VOTE!. . .VOTE!. . .VOTE!. . .VOTE!. . .VOTE!. . .VOTE!. . .VOTE!. . .
Thanks
2006-11-03 18:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by zambranoray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Iask myself the same question!!! There are good men out there but they are probably married, dead, or gay.
2006-11-03 18:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by blue_luv1183 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about here, or myspace, you can flirt, get to know them and even meet some nice guys....good luck, I have a hard time myself meeting girls, so dont feel alone...
2006-11-03 18:29:40 · answer #8 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good men are extinct as wholesome women are.
Try another country. Alot of American men are slugs...
2006-11-03 18:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by Sir 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
don't harsh yourself... so what if you don't have a man in your life yet,,, but still have your kids and family who is supporting you
TRUE LOVE WAITS!!! just be patient... don't look for him, he will just come in your life!
2006-11-03 19:03:08 · answer #10 · answered by ms. suplada 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋