Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

This guy that I really like, and know through work, is 21, and I'm only 16. I don't know him that well at all, but he seems really sweet, and hes always really nice to me. Is that too much of an age gap? He wants me to go to his house to watch a movie with him... would it be a dumb move to be alone with him?

2006-11-03 18:20:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I'm going to an all girls boarding school and I feel rather deprived of the opposite sex at the moment. I flirt a lot with guys and they seem to flirt back, but none ever initiate anything more than just talking in a restaurant or at the bus stop by asking for my number or offering theirs or even suggesting we meet up again some other time. I know it's pretty intimidating to ask a girl out with the risk of being shot down. What to you reccommend a girl to do to get your attentions?

2006-11-03 18:19:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 18:19:15 · 18 answers · asked by candydogsboys 2 in Friends

its about me and my fiancee. he has been my best friend for a long time now before we decided to tie the knot . he was always very loyal and faithful to me and no one in my familly or friends can ever think wrong about him. he is in merchant navy. now my problem is that he was about to board his ship from a country recently (spain). i saw in his mobile a website . and to my shock it was a dating site for spain and it was seen the day next to which he was supposed to take his ship. is he bluffing me and dating people on my back ? all in all mariners are known for stuff like this.should i ask him directly? or how should i know?

2006-11-03 18:18:24 · 7 answers · asked by dimdim 1 in Marriage & Divorce

GUYS--when you like a girl do you:

1. Touch her a lot (poking her sides, hugging her, etc.), make sexual inuendos and tease her constantly......

OR

2. Are you a complete gentleman and try to be kind to her as much as possible.


Because I have heard people some ppl say #1 if a guy likes you and some say #2 if a guy likes you.

SO GUYS..what do YOU do when you like a girl.

I really don't understand the whole teasing and poking thing if you like a girl.....what would be y'alls reasoning in teasing a girl? THANKS!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-03 18:17:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm in 12 grade and i like someone but my parents dont allow me to have a bf. i can only date with my future husband which they r going to choose when i'll 22 or 23. and i think that guy likes me too . we talk by eyes everyday but cant really have real conversation.
should i go against my parents and have a bf ?

2006-11-03 18:16:11 · 6 answers · asked by Miss Question Mark 2 in Singles & Dating

a while back this guy that goes to my church asked me if i liked him , i said no... now i do like him and ive seen that he kind of likes this gurl that i kind of talk 2 as a friend... hes always around her,talking to her and stuff....they look as if there going out but they both say there not....hes sapposibly ''my buddy'' but we dont even talk anymore like we used 2, we barely even say 'hi' now...i try to get him to notice me...but he still dosent really talk 2 me...he knows how i feel 2...but he kind of ignores me around that gurl...what should i do becuz i really like him...although people ask me what i see in him and that i could do much better

2006-11-03 18:15:03 · 13 answers · asked by pink_angel_nr 2 in Singles & Dating

I want sex but my wife has no interest in it for the past ten years since a car accident. I see no issue in separating Love and Sex.

2006-11-03 18:14:30 · 16 answers · asked by Traveller 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-03 18:14:19 · 9 answers · asked by candydogsboys 2 in Friends

2006-11-03 18:13:07 · 3 answers · asked by melon_rose 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend, Chad, went oversea for his business trip for like 2 mos already. things got worse when he started to act very immature and became very controlling. he got upset when he found out about my co-worker who was interested in me, he got jealous over some of my blogging and myspace comments from my male friends (Just some friendly comments!). He sent his friend to spy on me while I was celebrating my friend’s birthday in a club. He called me up at least 5 times a day, basically asking where I was, what I was doing.

We had some big fights and yet I still wanted him cuz I loved him and guess I still do.

Lately, I got so tied up with my work. I’ve been really busy and almost having no time to chat with him online, talking on the phone as much as we used to. I was so tired when I got home. I’m 25 and I really want to make some great achievements in my career. I know I can do it but I just need to work harder on it.

2006-11-03 18:12:32 · 32 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

dirty videos. I had them so well hidden too. How do you women manage to always find our hiding places. Us men have like bat cave style hiding places yet you women always find it. then we gotta take your crap for weeks!!!! i had like 100 videos too and she threw them all away.

2006-11-03 18:12:26 · 30 answers · asked by 571234 6 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-03 18:12:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Marriage & Divorce

there is a gymnast who was described by makoa(myfriend) She's my GF. Read about her and tell me what you think. did i make a good choice?? tell my why you think I did or Didn't. She's hott.

2006-11-03 18:10:56 · 5 answers · asked by Chica 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is getting married soon and her and her fience are not living together until after the wedding so they have a lot of "home" things on the registry. I think they can buy a coffee maker on their own. I want to get them something cool like a gift certificate for couples at a spa. Do you think that's approperiate?

2006-11-03 18:09:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Just wondering? I've never had an apartment with someone before.

2006-11-03 18:08:49 · 11 answers · asked by JusWonderin06 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 18:05:52 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-03 18:05:42 · 9 answers · asked by prio 1 in Friends

How do I get black guys to notice me.
Every time I present myself I end up looking like a damn fool, and they end up only talking to black girls.
Are they racist or what? Because that's what it feels like...

2006-11-03 18:05:34 · 9 answers · asked by I'm a HBIC 1 in Singles & Dating

like... there are many ppl who visited another coutry for business or study or whateaver the reasons and met someone and decided to marry.
if your wife or husband is from another coutry, tell me if it's fun or full of troubles.

2006-11-03 18:03:17 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Or do they fantasize about other women while with their wives? I know some women do it, I'm just curious if men do too.

2006-11-03 18:01:35 · 22 answers · asked by Leaving on a jetplane 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-03 18:00:53 · 22 answers · asked by le-le 1 in Singles & Dating

i have this boyfriend type person we had went out for 10 months and it was on and off relationship. hes been arrested 1 and put in jail twice and is now in it . he sayes hes in a gang but i dont know if i believe him he also sayes he has a new girlfriend. he has never hurt me hes really nice but i dont feel like hes fully commited in the realationship. when he gets out next month i think im gonna meet up with him if he doesn't have a girlfriend if he still does than im gonna move on but ifhe doesnt im gonna make him eather choose between me or his gang. i dont know what to do give me anyadvice i have never loved someone as much as i so him.

2006-11-03 18:00:47 · 18 answers · asked by Christina 1 in Singles & Dating

there is a gymnast who was described by makoa(myfriend) She's my GF. Read about her and tell me what you think. did i make a good choice??

2006-11-03 18:00:26 · 1 answers · asked by Chica 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to leave my boyfriend but all things are in my name and this is my house so I cannot just walk off. After seven years I can't take anymore! Physically he has been violent once before but all abuse is emotional or mental. An example is like tonite he knows i have to work in the am and he is to watch the kids but if he cannot have sex with me then he is considering not watching the kids. Also, since he claims I am paying him no "attention" tonite then he took my car and left at 1am in the morning. I am in my senior year of college with 2 semsters to go and it is detrimental to me to be self suffient so i stay out of these type of dependant relationships (although he relies on me financially and i use him for child care conflicts). How can I get out and stay out when this is my home.

2006-11-03 17:59:25 · 13 answers · asked by nene 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of four mths. has been going on for the last week about how passionate he is for me. He tell's me that he can feel my energy and see it in my eyes...what I don't know. But, he is wrapped up in this. What does this mean for me???

2006-11-03 17:58:25 · 12 answers · asked by precious girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I am ninteen and was home-schooled from the 6th grade and on , yes all through highschool! I just started working and I am starting to make alot of friends and they all want to go clubbing, but my parents say NO! Now I have never drank, smoke, or did drugs! Never been arrested or anything! I wanna have some fun and I DON'T want to go behind their backs and start lying and sneaking around. What should I do?!! I am nineteen, I mean I have to live a little, right? How should I tell them or ask them?

2006-11-03 17:56:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Needed a big tagline here, but it's a serious Q. 2, actually. First, how many women would have sex with their men literally moments before they break up with them? Second, if you were to say at that time you needed to "re-find yourself", I assume that's just another way of you saying "find someone else". Could it mean anything else, or am I just overly-optimistic?

2006-11-03 17:56:32 · 7 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok this is the deal,my dad is a legles old man and my mom has no arms.My dad needs to be pushed around and my mom needs help getting everything.so I eventually got tierd of it and I duck taped them together back to back and they help eachother out.They look a lil wierd ,but it got 'em of my back.

2006-11-03 17:56:22 · 13 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Family

they will keep afiar with other women and then also the wife will be pregnent for another kid how is it..............

2006-11-03 17:56:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating