How do I get black guys to notice me.
Every time I present myself I end up looking like a damn fool, and they end up only talking to black girls.
Are they racist or what? Because that's what it feels like...
2006-11-03 18:05:34 · 9 answers · asked by I'm a HBIC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Badunkadunk.
2006-11-03 18:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by texascrazyhorse 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Are you attracted to black guys or just doing it for some achievement award, like getting with a black man? I didn't know there was a trophy. If your truly attracked to black males, then be real with yourself and the one who is attracted to you will not have one little problem coming up to you. You sound like you are acting too desperate and too eager and making yourself look like a damn white fool. Now this is coming from a white chick, who don't have one problem at all in getting my black brothers to notice me. However that is because I am real with myself and they can tell. Also I am attracted to them. You need some self confidence before you try to approach any color man.
Be real with yourself or you will be looking like a damn fool for a long damn time. No matter what your color is. Sorry girl just had to give it to real.
2006-11-03 18:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by shrm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit trying to get 'black guys' to notice you. Just be yourself and you will be noticed whether it's a black guy, white guy, asian guy etc etc. Are you going to win a prize or something if you get married before someone else?
2006-11-03 18:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by Leigh P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so funny. Do you hang out with white people all the time or you hang out with black people? It matters when you're trying to get black guys. Maybe you should switch crowds for a change...
2006-11-03 18:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every guy has their preferences in girls -- whether it be race, hair color, beauty, brains, etc. Maybe the guys you're presenting yourself to are the ones that are only interested in black girls.
If black guys are your preference, then keep at it -- there's bound to be one that prefers white blondes.
2006-11-03 18:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by Rex 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself with the person. If you have this thing mind that they have to notice you then you will be more conscious. So be normal if you want to notice by anyone.
2006-11-03 18:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alot of black guys love the BOOTY!!! and no they are not racist you have to flirt and be yourself, be down to earth and not uptight.
2006-11-03 18:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by marine_wife001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anybody for chat IM me...
i am bored.. & ppl keep barring my question
2006-11-03 18:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they just prefer their own kind,I think you are trying to hard and that is why.
2006-11-03 18:16:24 · answer #9 · answered by wizardalli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋