i have this boyfriend type person we had went out for 10 months and it was on and off relationship. hes been arrested 1 and put in jail twice and is now in it . he sayes hes in a gang but i dont know if i believe him he also sayes he has a new girlfriend. he has never hurt me hes really nice but i dont feel like hes fully commited in the realationship. when he gets out next month i think im gonna meet up with him if he doesn't have a girlfriend if he still does than im gonna move on but ifhe doesnt im gonna make him eather choose between me or his gang. i dont know what to do give me anyadvice i have never loved someone as much as i so him.
2006-11-03 18:00:47 · 18 answers · asked by Christina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweety...there are two types of people that come into your life...there are those people that are meant to be there for a season(they are just there to stick aroung long enough to teach you that one thing god wanted them to teach you then they move on...then there are those people who are there to stay....some folks are like tree leaves..when the wind blows they are over here and then they over there...some are like branches of trees..they make you think they stable but when u go out on them to far they break and leave u hanging...and there are those few that are like roots of a tree..they are there to stay..even if the tree is cut down it can regrow because its roots are still there...you sound like you are mixing a seasonal person up with lifetime expectations...love is amazing and its sort of hard to know when you have found it.....my biggest thing with knowing if a person is right for me is being able to say that i know how to be alone...if you know that you can be alone and u r sure he is not a seasonal guy then u shoudl try to make it work
2006-11-03 18:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by PrInCeSs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If some tells you that he has a girlfriend, then you should get a clue and move on from that. Even if it turns out he doesn't have a girlfriend, you can't make him choose between you and the gang because the gang will never let him leave to choose you. Find someone who you don't have to give ultimatums to, a crimimal record for God knows what and just plain drama.
2006-11-03 18:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry if this doesn't sound empathetic but, I bail guys like that out of jail all the time.
1. Your never out of the gang.
2. If he calls you collect and says he loves you-he's lying.
3. If he says it's the last time he's getting in trouble - he's lying.
4. YOU Shouldn't have to make Him choose. He should want YOU.
That's not to say that everyone i bail out doesn't keep their promises, but 99.9 percent don't. Sorry.
2006-11-03 18:08:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes making a guy chose doesn't get you what you want. Usually guys will choice the opposite just for the simple fact asked them to make a choice. Like me our your Friends. In this case (gangs) I say to u run away Run as fast as u can and don't look back There will be others
2006-11-03 18:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by Viper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Questions like this make me want to POKE MY EYE OUT!!!!
Sweet Pea - go meet a nice boy who's worst problem is trying to pass Trig...
In jail - Out of jail
Other girlfriend or not?
GANG!!!
This is not brain surgery.
2006-11-03 18:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you so hard up? I'll bet you deserve better. You could love someone else I'm sure. Get your mind off this fellow. He's bad news.
2006-11-03 18:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by susie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you he'll choose you, not the gang.
2006-11-03 18:16:48 · answer #7 · answered by AcE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in jail twice...and you want him? For what?
YOu want him to be your children's daddy from up in jail?
You want to live on welfare because he is in jail?
You want to write him letters in jail rather than lay with him?
Get someone who society doesn't have to lock up.
2006-11-03 18:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by dj_of_raleigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him, or you will soon be hurt. he wont change, will spend lots of time in jail, or having you bail him out, find someone better now....
2006-11-03 18:05:47 · answer #9 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should find someone else, this guy is nothing but trouble.
2006-11-03 18:07:51 · answer #10 · answered by CSA_NP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋