Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

My fiance and I do a lot together with our friends and family. I'm talking all his bros and their wives, his parents and all his buddies and their wifes. He also has 2 exgirlfriends that are still friends with his siter in law, (his bros wife) and some of his buddies wifes, so when plans are made to get together one of them (sometimes) finds out about it and shows up. I usally don't care BUT when all the girls act different toward me because one of his ex's are there it really hurts my feelings. I just want to be treated the same weather they are there or not. I am myself when we do things together and I just can't get the girls (the wifes of my fiances buddies) to warm up to me. I feel like they don't respect me or remember I am part of this family also. I am starting to get uncomfortable around them ALL. My fiance does'nt even want to hang around any of them anymore and I don't want it to come to that.

2006-11-03 17:55:57 · 7 answers · asked by ~mellisa~ 2 in Friends

....and pick up your free points!

2006-11-03 17:55:45 · 8 answers · asked by Savant 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel that my spouse is just too slefish and does not care about anybody else other than herself. I am not abe to keep up with the unnecessary quarrels in the house, for no fault of my own. I want to leave. Problem, I work in the public service and I am wel respected. What do I do? Serious answers only

2006-11-03 17:55:38 · 9 answers · asked by Trinity 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey gals.....Im just your average concerned high-school freshman..........Does it really matter who's taller in a male-female relationship????? My crush wants taller men, unfortunately...im shorter........is it better if the male is taller than the female???

PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-03 17:54:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Usually when women go for the nice guys, she already has 2 kids and has lots of baggages. I dont think this is fair for the nice guys who has to pick up the mess from the bad boys.

2006-11-03 17:54:08 · 11 answers · asked by Go For Broke 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-03 17:53:16 · 10 answers · asked by sheel2290464 1 in Singles & Dating

What can she do 4 you and what would you do 2 her in a pool??in a bikini??

2006-11-03 17:52:55 · 8 answers · asked by Chica 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 17:52:51 · 12 answers · asked by akira 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I were so happy talking about getting married. I thought we were both virgins and then I found out he had sex numerous times with this one girl. It was 4 years ago. It's bothering me so much. I don't know how to feel. Part of me is telling me it was that long ago, but the other part is telling me it hurts.

I feel like I'm losing my mind. I want to forget it and move on, but the pain is still there. I know most of you are going to say it's 2006 and everyone is having sex, but it was always my decision to save it for marriage. I know I'm not completely innocent myself, but I have never had sex. I just see him as a totally different person now. I want it to be what it was, ignorant bliss. Just me thinking he was a virgin too. I know that's not possible. I just want us to be happy and move past this. How can I do that?

2006-11-03 17:52:44 · 10 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4 in Singles & Dating

me and my girlfriend was together for 3 years and 9 months. we broke up 3 months ago. her dad died 2 weeks later. I broke up with her because she told me I didnt matter. I didnt know she meant I didnt matter when shes trying to spend time with her parents. shes 19 years old, Im 23 years old. through out the relationship it was hard for us to see each other because her parents were so strict that we had to sneak to see each other and only was able to talk on the phone 2 days a week. so the anger we got from that would be thrown at each other. but once we realized it we became a better relationship. she says we will never get back together because she felt I wasnt there for her in that stressful time of her dad. I've always been there for her through everything. im her first everything, boyfriend, virginity you name it except for a crush before me. she has a grudge against me, possibly dont like me as a person. my friends say she will come back but i dont know. do you think she will?

2006-11-03 17:52:40 · 6 answers · asked by wilbur 62 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't know why but ever since I listened to the song 'Hand me down' by Matchbox Twenty I can't stop listening to it. Maybe because it relates so much to my life, I don't know.

2006-11-03 17:52:31 · 22 answers · asked by JackkOfDiamonds@yahoo.com 2 in Friends

Does it bother you when your girlfriend/wife brings up mistakes you've made in the past? I realize everyone makes mistakes, just asking a general question.

2006-11-03 17:52:21 · 15 answers · asked by Leaving on a jetplane 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am pretty much successful in my career, but my married life has been a pain, a real pain.I have three lovely kids and i would do anything for them.

My wife is eratic and sometimes I do think she has a problem that needs to be treated. She shouts at the kids a lot, ordering them to do this or do that, even when they are tired and straight from school. These kids are hard workers they clean the house and do their job. She blames me for strange things that sometimes and sometimes I just keep quite to avoid unneccessary confrontations.
I try to be calm, when I can and reasonable but sometimes she just pushes me to the wall.
When she gets upsets she gets into tantrums like a little child throwing things things down, which scares the children.

I feel like I have persevered for too long and want to call it a day. I have tried to make it work but it hasn't. I had sworn to myself that I don't want my children to grow up without both parents, but my sanity now is being challenged.

2006-11-03 17:51:29 · 29 answers · asked by Trinity 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-03 17:51:28 · 15 answers · asked by edward b 3 in Friends

Lately my fiance (who is 22) has a hard time staying hard or isnt able to ***. We have sex at least twice a day. Is there something i can do to help him? Is it me? I know he is very attracted to me still and there isnt anyone else. Help

2006-11-03 17:49:48 · 21 answers · asked by mine 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend of 2 years has seemed distant lately. Im a softy and I give her everything she wants. I tell her I love her way too much, and she seems bored with me. She straight up told me she wanted me to act like I didn't want her. She hasn't been into sex with me as much lately either. She wants me to act like I don't want her sexually either. But I'm no like that. I don't want to be with a girl who plays hard to get. What do I do?

2006-11-03 17:49:32 · 5 answers · asked by ks_stud_2005 2 in Singles & Dating

today is my birthday : ) my brothers called me to say "Happy Birthday" and my parents said so too (and my aunt and my cousin)

BUT my man hasn't, obviously he forgot

he won't get home from work for probably another 1/2-hour so I'm debating whether I should wait up for him just to be mad or just go to bed and be mad when he wakes me up

we're having all kinds of problems lately and now this, he's so inconsiderate that he can't even call to say "Happy Birthday!" I don't want/need or even expect a present, just a simple call to say he remembered (and cares)

my mom called me a little while ago and asked me if I got a nice dinner for my birthday. I laughed and said he hasn't even called all day to even say "Happy Birthday!" she laughed and said, "well, that's what happens when they stop caring"

how mad would you be? is this even something to be upset about? my mom said to forget his birthday when it comes around, kinda hard though, it's New Year's Eve, everyone knows his

2006-11-03 17:48:05 · 15 answers · asked by smarty pants 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-03 17:47:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Two of my ex gf's and my ex wife are the mothers of my 5 kids.

Now one ex gf asked me if she could have a boyfriend. Of course I was furious. I mean she is the mother of one of my kids, so she should concentrate on bringing my son up. No way I will allow any other man to have any influence in bringing my kids up. She accepted my seed, now she should be loyal to me.

2006-11-03 17:47:26 · 19 answers · asked by Great Muslim 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do guys like if a girl were to ask them out? Or do they think it's weird? Where do guys think a fun date would be?

2006-11-03 17:47:12 · 9 answers · asked by superrr_star88 2 in Singles & Dating

AND she was invited by his family. We have been together for over 5 years and we're getting married, and they havn't been together for over 11 years and when they were together it didn't even last long...

2006-11-03 17:45:56 · 5 answers · asked by ~mellisa~ 2 in Family

2006-11-03 17:45:23 · 4 answers · asked by CustomBentley 2 in Singles & Dating

Dear friends, pls help me? m newly married for aweek now.and face the problem of urge for urination after evry 5 min ? pls suggest and ans me if its normal.n how can i rectify it?

2006-11-03 17:45:09 · 6 answers · asked by sona s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend is very skinny(under 100 @14) How/what can I do to encourage her to eat when her friends say she's fat?? HELP!!

2006-11-03 17:44:44 · 12 answers · asked by Chica 1 in Singles & Dating

i heard this in a magazine somewhere that a lot of girls do this...and i'm not talking about wanting to marry the guy or have a committed relationship with him or anything along the lines of that

2006-11-03 17:44:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im just asking bcuz all my guy friends do it and they say its alot better for the girl. do u think it really matters if it is shaven or not?

2006-11-03 17:44:20 · 6 answers · asked by Gonzo 2 in Singles & Dating

today is my birthday : ) my brothers called me to say "Happy Birthday" and my parents said so too (and my aunt and my cousin)

BUT my man hasn't, obviously he forgot

he won't get home from work for probably another 1/2-hour so I'm debating whether I should wait up for him just to be mad or just go to bed and be mad when he wakes me up

we're having all kinds of problems lately and now this, he's so inconsiderate that he can't even call to say "Happy Birthday!" I don't want/need or even expect a present, just a simple call to say he remembered (and cares)

my mom called me a little while ago and asked me if I got a nice dinner for my birthday. I laughed and said he hasn't even called all day to even say "Happy Birthday!" she laughed and said, "well, that's what happens when they stop caring"

how mad would you be? is this even something to be upset about? my mom said to forget his birthday when it comes around, kinda hard though, it's New Year's Eve, everyone knows his

2006-11-03 17:43:20 · 22 answers · asked by smarty pants 3 in Family

2006-11-03 17:43:06 · 16 answers · asked by nate 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright i sleep naked, i have no problem with it. But a few people asked and i said yea i sleep naked, and they thought it was weird. What do you think, by the way im a 18y.o. male. Is this weird?

2006-11-03 17:42:33 · 22 answers · asked by Don A 4 in Singles & Dating

ok well i love this boy with all my heart but im only 13 and he is 17 ...... and some one else asked me out and i like that person 2 ..... i dont know what 2 do about it ...... and i told the older boy that we sould stop talking because it would be best if we waited but he said that he cant stop talking 2 me because he loves me 2 much ....... and i really do love him

2006-11-03 17:40:06 · 13 answers · asked by Miss ECP 2 in Singles & Dating